Dom Drop?

[Primalex]

Here is my monthly rambling thread.


I wonder if there is a kind of Dom drop. Not the way the Sub drop is defined though.

As we know, the human is a perfect adaption machine. What is good enough today, is boring tomorrow. I find it more and more difficult to enjoy the things I did - I got used to it all and I've experienced all the fantasies I've wanted by now, be it legal or illegal. My response to a girl offering me a blowjob would be "So what?", 15 years ago it would have been a wet dream. It's not a traditional Dom drop - I don't want to get rid of my dominant part or something like this, after all, it's in me, it's what I am, not how I choose to be, I don't consider my dominance as burden.

I feel there should be more, that there must be a way to bring back old emotions, but I don't know where or how. How can I intensify my life even more? Add just another sub to the household? Doing three girls is tedious, not fun, trust me. Push a sub further to the limits of a human being? Venture into even more illegal stuff? Create my own sect? Or will I haunt this forum now for the rest of my life?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh I fear for you that you are stuck here. As to the blowjob question, F would have the same response, actually to any sex act as it holds no interest for him if it is not intertwined with D/s or SM on some significant level. Perhaps this is the answer for you also. Have to admit I am the same....offer me anything without an element of D/s etc., and I can take it or leave it.

Catalina

 

[Primalex]

Oh I fear for you that you are stuck here.

You still owe me a picture of your boobs.

As to the blowjob question, F would have the same response, actually to any sex act as it holds no interest for him if it is not intertwined with D/s or SM on some significant level. Perhaps this is the answer for you also.

Not really. I would give the same answer for a "D/s Blowjob" - well, not always, but I feel the wind of change and I'm worried enough that I'm looking for a windmill...

 

[catalina_francisco]

You still owe me a picture of your boobs.

LOL, haven't you got signatures switched on?

Catalina

 

[Primalex]

LOL, haven't you got signatures switched on?

Public domain boobs don't count.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Public domain boobs don't count.

Well mine are in the public domain in places, but they are all mine...oh, and they aren't really blue, but I liked the effect.

Catalina

 

[Primalex]

Well mine are in the public domain in places, but they are all mine...oh, and they aren't really blue, but I liked the effect.

Back on topic. Maybe I should do the 40 days thingie.

 

[FurryFury]

Back on topic. Maybe I should do the 40 days thingie.

Yeah, that's a great idea.

One I'd save for a time when there are no other possible choices though.

LOL.

 

[RJMasters]

I think sherlock homes did drugs as a means of diversion...though I am not recommending that I just mention it because perhaps what you lack is a sense of challenge.

Often part in parcel of being dominant...at least for me....is that I like the challenge. Right now you may have reached a plateau of sorts in certain areas of your life.

The choices are to re-examine new and deeper ways to expereince what you already have, or to perhaps pursue new and different things in the hopes of finding and igniting new passions.

one things is for certain however, if you have the outlook of been ther done that, nothing new under sun...then you might just remain on that plateau for a very long time. So my suggestion is to open your mind to the possibilty that new things and expereinces are possible and be open to try new things. I am not just referring here to sexual things either.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Maybe you have just been playing with the wrong women. A change is as good as a holiday they say.

Catalina

 

[Homburg]

I'm the same way with blow jobs. Okay for foreplay, but not for any sort of serious effect. Not really interesting enough.

Are you experiencing this ennui in other areas of life, of just your BDSM practices? Not saying that boredom or erosion of interest is not the problem, but losing interest in something you once truly enjoyed can be emblematic of various forms of depression. Another possibility, if you are of an age, is a possible slacking off of testosterone levels. There's a lot more research out on it these days. If you've other symptoms such as trouble with weight, lack of drive in other areas, etc, it could be a bobble in T-levels.

Not giving you medical advice, just saying that it could be a sign of something else. Personally, I would kind of hope it is. I'd rather think it were a correctable chemical imbalance than truly ceasing to enjoy BDSM.

 

[Netzach]

If your D/s game is off, it's liable to be stagnation elsewhere that's really the reason. When I've got some outside fascination it tends to give me ideas in other areas in my life.

The phrase only boring people are bored is an annoying trusim, but when I've been bored I've usually been boring myself.

 

[Netzach]

Homburg, jinx.

Creepy simul-post.

 

[Primalex]

Well, I will be in Croatia during the Easter holiday, if this doesn't add some new outside impressions... *ponders*

 

[Homburg]

Homburg, jinx.

Creepy simul-post.

It would've been creepier had our topics been more similar.