How long do you keep trying before calling it quits?

[Moanique]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

 

[KRCummings]

You keep trying in different ways.

Fuckin' quitters piss me off.

 

[TurdFergeson]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

Depends on what you are attempting.

 

[OscarTheGrouch]

You keep trying in different ways.

Fuckin' quitters piss me off.

Failure is not an option.


And no never means no it means try harder

 

[christophe]

depends on what you are trying and how realistic your expectations

 

[thør]

Depends on what you are attempting.

ditto

 

[shoulderblade]

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

I think when you come up with a different strategy. You realize that a particular plan won't work and you decide that maybe a new plan will. you have the experience to try it.

 

[fluttertongue]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

It does depend on what you are trying to achieve. However, that you've used the insanity reference in your first sentence leads me to speculate that perhaps deep down you know you won't get different results. You might try approaching what it is you're trying to do from a different angle or perspective. Perhaps bring in a neutral party to critique what you are doing and give feedback. Change the "doing the same thing over and over again" to "trying it in a different way."

Good luck.

 

[TurdFergeson]

I'd say it if ever gets boring.

Then why bother?

 

[Xander]

Well, if it's really THAT important to you. It better kill ya before you quit.

 

[george55]

Failure is not an option.


And no never means no it means try harder

I bet here's a person who has turned the other cheek on numerous occasions.

 

[Moanique]

It does depend on what you are trying to achieve. However, that you've used the insanity reference in your first sentence leads me to speculate that perhaps deep down you know you won't get different results. You might try approaching what it is you're trying to do from a different angle or perspective. Perhaps bring in a neutral party to critique what you are doing and give feedback. Change the "doing the same thing over and over again" to "trying it in a different way."

Good luck.

*light bulb moment* Thanks, FT.

 

[coastal-boy]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

another 'quote' from a place where that is commonly said "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...the courage to change the things I can...and the wisdom to know the difference."

When you are tired of failing, you will let it go. Quitting is not a sign of weakness unless it is done to save face or it is your first choice. Other people think they can do anything and be anything. Personally...I doubt it...talk is cheap.

 

[great lover]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

I agree, it is confusing. there are times, when quitting is the wiser option and times when pursuing is the smarter choice.

 

[Javagirl]

We've all heard this one: “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

But then some people say that quitting is showing signs of weakness.

So if you keep trying something and that it doesn't work, no matter which way you try or how many times, at what point do you call it quits?

I think it really depends on the situation and what is your end result and what you are trying to achieve. I think if you've tapped all your resources and strategies and action plans, you might need to scrap it altogether and take the loss. I think if you've really tried to make the effort and it didn't come to fruition, then you should stop wasting your time and energy on it and move forward to something else. I think quitting is a weakness when you give up too early and haven't tried different tactics and haven't used all your resources.

 

[Moanique]

another 'quote' from a place where that is commonly said "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...the courage to change the things I can...and the wisdom to know the difference."

When you are tired of failing, you will let it go. Quitting is not a sign of weakness unless it is done to save face or it is your first choice. Other people think they can do anything and be anything. Personally...I doubt it...talk is cheap.

I'm exhausted...

 

[Moanique]

I think it really depends on the situation and what is your end result and what you are trying to achieve. I think if you've tapped all your resources and strategies and action plans, you might need to scrap it altogether and take the loss. I think if you've really tried to make the effort and it didn't come to fruition, then you should stop wasting your time and energy on it and move forward to something else. I think quitting is a weakness when you give up too early and haven't tried different tactics and haven't used all your resources.

Thanks JG.

 

[coastal-boy]

I'm exhausted...

then save yourself...no one else will

 

[blondedreamz]

If you find you are becoming more frustrated each time then quit and give yourself a break. Look for something else when you are ready to accept another challenge.

 

[thør]

then save yourself...no one else will

Good point!

Even if she's trying to help another, she can't help if she's too tired.

 

[Moanique]

then save yourself...no one else will

I think that step will hurt, but it will hurt less than staying the course. Funny how that works...

 

[coastal-boy]

I think that step will hurt, but it will hurt less than staying the course. Funny how that works...

yea....one thing I do is always give myself an option. Dont make any decision tonight. If you feel the same way tomorrow...or a week from now...then do what is best for you. You can only give what you have.

 

[TurdFergeson]

yea....one thing I do is always give myself an option. Dont make any decision tonight. If you feel the same way tomorrow...or a week from now...then do what is best for you. You can only give what you have.

Good advice..always sleep on it.

 

[Moanique]

yea....one thing I do is always give myself an option. Dont make any decision tonight. If you feel the same way tomorrow...or a week from now...then do what is best for you. You can only give what you have.

Yeah... Thanks.

 

[OscarTheGrouch]

I think that step will hurt, but it will hurt less than staying the course. Funny how that works...

there is a difference between in a relationship quitting, and moving on/forward.