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[tollboothjack]

Some of you guys might remember me from several weeks back. I'm the one with the girlfriend with whom I recently got back together with,... but would not give up her other boyfriend. For anyone who doesnt remember, she claims that this man is the best sex she has ever had, but that is the extent of their relationship. No emotional attachment, just pure sex and pleasure and fun.

At first, I was leary and even jealous somewhat. But now, but now.... it's a different ballgame (sort of). Let me explain.

The thought of her with this man actually gets me off and is becoming a huge turn on, in spite of the jealousy and initial unsure feelings. When she tells me about their sexual encounters, I cant control myself at all. This is not what I was expecting, but its turning out pretty ok.

 

[pellso27]

Some guys like being used and there is nothing wrong with that but at least have her hose out her cunt before you are asked to eat her out!

 

[RawHumor]

You're not the first man in the world to enjoy being cuckolded... it's definitely not a kink of mine, but I wouldn't mind being in the other guy's shoes.

 

[tollboothjack]

Yeah, I've checked out some of the cuckold forums, but most of the posts on there seem to be guys posting pics of their cocks and asking everyone on the forum to tell them how small they are. No thanks... but to each their own

 

[Netzach]

I should have started that betting pool.

 

[_kiana_]

So, I've got a question.

People are using the word "cuckolding" and that some men enjoy being "used" in tollboothjack's type of situation.

My husband allows me to have sex with others and he loves hearing the details. It drives him mad and makes him as horny as he ever gets. But we still have sex and we both love it. There's no denial, there's no putting him down or anything. (In fact, I get called the names.)

That doesn't fit seem to fit with "being used" or cuckolding to me.

Is that similar to your situation tollboothjack? Or are you denied the intimate affections of your partner?

Maybe because I'm simply not wired to feel like monogamy should be the norm that I really don't see my situation as having anything to do with cuckolding. *shrug*

Any comments or insights?

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[_kiana_]

The simplest definition of a cuckold is a husband who's wife is unfaithful.

But I'm not being unfaithful. This must be where I'm just too different in mindset. He knows the people I get together with, when I'm with them, and can ask for any details he wishes. He actually encourages me. Being married does not equal monogamy to me and I'm not lying or omitting details so it's not unfaithful.

Unless he sleeps with other women too, in that case I think it becomes more of a gray area as to whether it is cuckolding.

If he could find anyone he wanted to fuck (he needs an emotional relationship with someone before being physical) he would be doing it too.

 

[plesmone]

I don't know about this one. I have never been with a guy who wanted to share me. How does that kind of situation come up without the other partner wanting to leave?

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[Netzach]

So, I've got a question.

People are using the word "cuckolding" and that some men enjoy being "used" in tollboothjack's type of situation.

My husband allows me to have sex with others and he loves hearing the details. It drives him mad and makes him as horny as he ever gets. But we still have sex and we both love it. There's no denial, there's no putting him down or anything. (In fact, I get called the names.)

That doesn't fit seem to fit with "being used" or cuckolding to me.

Is that similar to your situation tollboothjack? Or are you denied the intimate affections of your partner?

Maybe because I'm simply not wired to feel like monogamy should be the norm that I really don't see my situation as having anything to do with cuckolding. *shrug*

Any comments or insights?

That's pretty much how my rel. works. He's submissive to me, and I love to humiliate, but not my husband and not for that reason. It's purely about me getting what I like and him liking me happy.

 

[tollboothjack]

I'm not sleeping with anyone else. I don't want to, and it's understood that I am not going to. I like it that way. She (my gf) has the power in this relatioship, and I'm not submitting to anything that is making me miserable. Just the opposite.

I absolutely get off on knowing that she is getting it on the side, in a way in which apparently Ive never. I enjoy being her emotional partner, and romantic partner, but when it comes to her having all out harcore sex, it's about him, not me. Although... we do still have sex, and it's great.

 

[FurryFury]

Sounds like things worked out well for you and your lady. Congrats.

 

[TallGentleman27]

I wish my wife would enjoy this, I would love it if she would be with other men and tell me.

So, I've got a question.

People are using the word "cuckolding" and that some men enjoy being "used" in tollboothjack's type of situation.

My husband allows me to have sex with others and he loves hearing the details. It drives him mad and makes him as horny as he ever gets. But we still have sex and we both love it. There's no denial, there's no putting him down or anything. (In fact, I get called the names.)

That doesn't fit seem to fit with "being used" or cuckolding to me.

Is that similar to your situation tollboothjack? Or are you denied the intimate affections of your partner?

Maybe because I'm simply not wired to feel like monogamy should be the norm that I really don't see my situation as having anything to do with cuckolding. *shrug*

Any comments or insights?

 

[subwannabe]

Congratulations. As the saying goes, "Whatever floats your boat!"

 

[Stegral]

I don't know about this one. I have never been with a guy who wanted to share me. How does that kind of situation come up without the other partner wanting to leave?

I am about the same here. I normally do not share well at all.
I have a dilemma present itself as I am step into the Domme pool. Suddenly poof out of the blue, an old flame appears that wants to step back into my life & I want him in it again (he is military so he moves around alot) but how can I be a Mistress & a lover to different guys?? My mind can't wrap around having both & demands I choose. I am trying to figure out how to broach the subject with the subbie/slave first to see if he could be into this & then ask the lover if he thinks he could handle having the subbie/slave in my life. FYI the subbie/slave is into chastity, watersports (recieving), oral servitude to his Mistress & forced Bisexuality (only ingests his own semen tho). The lover is beginner kinky (read here about my level) & interested in exploring the BDSM lifestyle, just not sure how far he would go with it.

*scampers back to the main search for "cuckolding" threads*

Edited to add :

from WIKI:
Cucquean
The term "cuckold" is exclusively used for a male whose wife takes other partners; a woman whose husband strays in such fashion is known as a cucquean. There are cases of women who enjoy being cucqueaned, although they are probably less common than male cuckoldry.

for those that wanted the term for the female side of it...
(found at the bottom of the cockold page )

 

[Lalah]

I'm not sleeping with anyone else. I don't want to, and it's understood that I am not going to. I like it that way. She (my gf) has the power in this relatioship, and I'm not submitting to anything that is making me miserable. Just the opposite.

I absolutely get off on knowing that she is getting it on the side, in a way in which apparently Ive never. I enjoy being her emotional partner, and romantic partner, but when it comes to her having all out harcore sex, it's about him, not me. Although... we do still have sex, and it's great.

I know if I was in your position I'd want to know what that guy is doing that she like his sex so much. Bring a notebook, maybe a camera.