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[derekisderek]

So here I am... new to this board and I'm already posting. Look out Literotica!

Anyways I'm kinda in a predicament. I'm what you would call a younger guy (26 years old), but I have a thing for older women. I guess it was one night when I was out with a few friends and I ended up talking to a recently divorced 45 year old woman.

Well we hit it off pretty well and one thing led to another. Of course I guess I should leave the details to one of the story threads lol. But needless to say it was hot. Really really hot. She had explained that it was more of a one time thing that night (well there were a few more "rendezvous" over the next couple of weeks if you know what I mean). Of course it was really the only time I had done something like that but my excuse is "Hey, opportunity knocked and I was drunk "

The thing is that she got back together with her the dude she was getting the divorce with. I'm totally cool with that. I mean hey, reconciliation is totally cool with me!

But now on to the predicament I'm in. I can't look at girls my age any more because that's what I think of them as... girls. I mean I don't even find them attractive anymore. But the moment I see an older lady, game on. So I've decided to resort to the internet (gasp!). Anyone out there have any suggestions as to good sites to find an older lady that may be interested in a younger guy?

 

[frostyred]

you can specify your tastes in your profile on any hookup, or dating site. And you could always spend more time here in the personals.

 

[derekisderek]

So any good recommendations or does this site have a strict "Don't post any sites" policy?

Of course I may have to post a "help me! looking for hot, older chicks" post here

The unfortunate part is I have to think of something good to post and my creative side is falling asleep right now lol

 

[NoLeafClover7]

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[frostyred]

I don't know if they want me posting personal site URL's, so check your PM's. I have a site that may help some.

Send it to me, too.

 

[KarenDee]

So any good recommendations or does this site have a strict "Don't post any sites" policy?

Of course I may have to post a "help me! looking for hot, older chicks" post here

The unfortunate part is I have to think of something good to post and my creative side is falling asleep right now lol

As an older woman myself (I'll be 53 in a few days) I find that trying to be "creative" often works against you. A woman will see right through any concocted story and she can spot an act from 10 miles away. Much better to be yourself, use manners and common sense, respect and dignity. Put in a little humor, but don't try to act like Jerry Seinfeld. And develop something first. One night stands can often happen quickly, but for something more meaningful, you're going to have to become a conversationalist with some substance. Don't bring up sexual innuendo in the first 5 minutes and maybe not in the first 5 meetings. You have the rest of your life in front of you, why blow a good opportunity by being too hasty.

Good luck!

K

 

[chelleb]

Like another said, I'd post an ad in the Personals. Be honest and specify what it is that you're looking for. You never know what can happen.

I posted one, wasn't entirely sure what would come of it or what to expect. I'm not creative, and wasn't trying to be. I just typed what I felt and what I was looking for, and what I wouldn't/couldn't deal with. I was hesitant about doing it, especially on a porn site, but I am very pleased with the results of it thus far.

So, give it a shot. What do you have to lose? You just might find the best thing that's happened up till now.