Why do nice guys finish "LAST"?

why do nice guys finish last

  • Too nice

    Votes: 21 40.4%
  • prefer asshole

    Votes: 12 23.1%
  • too scary

    Votes: 2 3.8%
  • don't know

    Votes: 17 32.7%

  • Total voters
    52
  • Poll closed .
Having been with both I'll take the nice guy everytime. Being nice doesn't always mean being a pushover. To me it means someone who respects me and treats me as a person and not an object.

I totally agree with you! Once an asshole, always an asshole.
 
You broke up with him and dated the "bad" guy. He was exciting! And he was an asshole.

They usually smell bad and have bad hygene. That's what makes a lot of men wonder about the whole thing. When you can have a man who showers and does basic grooming, why would you be physically turned on by the human equivalent of a barnyard pig (no offense to real pigs, they are sweet animals).

I've know these so-called bad boy types and it makes no sense. The one dude's bathroom was worse than a public restroom, but girls didn't seem to mind. Can't say it made me think more highly of the female gender when they do that.
 
It's bullshit. A bunch of passive-aggressive self-absorbed pricks call themselves 'nice guys' and then whine when women dump their asses.

Real nice guys are rare, and usually enjoyed.
The faults you can dream up about 'nice guys' pale in comparison to the fairly deadly faults that many guys have that have women flocking all over them.

Why is that?
 
The faults you can dream up about 'nice guys' pale in comparison to the fairly deadly faults that many guys have that have women flocking all over them.

Why is that?

Women in general like pricks. They love to be told. Nice guys always ask them.

I read this in a book on psychology.
 
Good men don't whine. I'm fortunate that way.

:heart:

Major pet peeve of mine. I find these "girls never go for nice guys" threads demeaning to good men and good women, in almost equal measure.

Bah, I'm done here.
 
i asked a very good and at one time an on and off girlfriend about this and she said that she liked to play with the "Bad boys" and in deed she did go out with a lot of 6' plus tall dark headed large men and when she "got serious" it was always with someone like me. Shorter , blond, brown or redheaded and a nice person by and large.

I had never notice that before, but all them guys that had wanted to kick my ass and kill me over the years did meet that description to the point that I expected trouble from anyone who looked like that and was anywhere around her out in public.

I wonder how often this happens?
 
Women in general like pricks. They love to be told. Nice guys always ask them.

I read this in a book on psychology.
I'm not sure if you can call them women, but yeah, lots of females like pricks.

Then they whine about pricks and call for the extermination of men, all men are dogs, all sex is rape, etc.

And Tortoise is never, ever there to call these females "whiners".



Because females get sympathy, and men don't.

Oh and please step to the left. Moanique and a few other harpies are coming by and they have jihad on their minds. :)
 
Agreed.


Good men don't whine. I'm fortunate that way.
Unfortunately we men have to listen to females whine all the time. We're unfortunate that way, especially considering that we're pressured to give you all kinds of sympathy that you never give us in return. :rolleyes:
 
I complain all the time. I am proud to speak out against injustices, real and perceived in my head, at every opportunity. It is part of who I am and I like it. I don't have to complain (whine most likely in some people's terminology). Yet, I do it because I think its better than seeing a crappy situation and ignoring it.
 
I complain all the time. I am proud to speak out against injustices, real and perceived in my head, at every opportunity. It is part of who I am and I like it. I don't have to complain (whine most likely in some people's terminology). Yet, I do it because I think its better than seeing a crappy situation and ignoring it.
LOL....
 
Wow, I would have never

I did not think that starting this thread would have created such an outcome although I am very pleased to see the various opinions all the same.
 
It seems to me though that people who believe that "nice guys" are pussies and lack the ability to stand up for themselves, suffer from lack of better judgement or are trying to defend themselves knowing they are not a "nice guy".
 
It seems to me though that people who believe that "nice guys" are pussies and lack the ability to stand up for themselves, suffer from lack of better judgement or are trying to defend themselves knowing they are not a "nice guy".

Perhaps including your definition of "nice guy" at the start may have helped alleviate some of this.
 
I'm not sure if you can call them women, but yeah, lots of females like pricks.

Then they whine about pricks and call for the extermination of men, all men are dogs, all sex is rape, etc.

And Tortoise is never, ever there to call these females "whiners".



Because females get sympathy, and men don't.

Oh and please step to the left. Moanique and a few other harpies are coming by and they have jihad on their minds. :)

Eww. I feel slimed. Leaky SoftOn Jacquelope keeps mentioning me in every dumbass post that he makes, gross.
Face it, LT: you were never meant to be anything more in life than a mad cow's Tampax, and I am being nice.
But then, what else could be expected of a loser cursed with the IQ of his dick size?
 
It seems to me though that people who believe that "nice guys" are pussies and lack the ability to stand up for themselves, suffer from lack of better judgement or are trying to defend themselves knowing they are not a "nice guy".

Damn, you're like Dr. Phil or something.
 
well, it doesn't really matter, Flutter. I knew everyone has their own interpretation. Like I had said in the beginning everyone is entitled to their own opnion, including my own. But, I didn't expect such a variety.
 
Hey, moanique, are you always this much of a jerk why not pick on someone your own size...lol Children please play nice. This is still a free forum last i checked
 
well, it doesn't really matter, Flutter. I knew everyone has their own interpretation. Like I had said in the beginning everyone is entitled to their own opnion, including my own. But, I didn't expect such a variety.

If you're going to do any kind of survey or poll, everyone has to start off with the same information, the same definition. Not that these polls are valid or reliable...but that could be why you're getting all this back and forth stuff. On the other hand, it makes for interesting discussion.
 
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