Ok, I will never advocate suicide as a good idea for anyone, but this is kinda sweet

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in a twisted sort of way.

To have that kind of love for each other after 60 years together that you can't bear to be apart.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,325233,00.html



An elderly couple in England used a suicide manual and plastic bags to kill each other because they couldn't bear the thought of any circumstance that would cause them to be apart, the Daily Mail reported.

Hilda Bedell, 76, and her husband, James, reportedly used the book "Final Exit" by Derek Humphry to help them take their own lives, the newspaper reported.

Retired war veteran and milkman James Bedell had been taking medicine for anxiety and receiving treatment for a tremor, which he feared was caused by Parkinson's disease.

Hilda Bedell had been prescribed morphine for pain associated with arthritis and osteoporosis.

The couple, who had been together for more than 60 years, drank whisky before they tied plastic bags around their heads using elastic bands, according to the Daily Mail.

They laid in bed listening to music as they suffocated to death, according to the report.

The two openly spoke to family and friends about one day "ending it together," fearing one of them would become ill or disabled, and with the help of their son made a living will in case they were found while still alive, the Daily Mail reported.

"I was aware of what they had done, they had long said they would commit suicide and it was a well-known fact between their family and friends," said neighbor Janet Wardell, who found the two dead.

Another statement from the couple's son Andrew, said: "Some years ago they had made it clear they didn't want to lose their quality of life and end up being nursed in a hospital or a home.

"They were reading and talking about ending it together but I spoke to them around October 15 and they made no mention of when or how."
 
Suffocating to death doesn't seem like a very nice way to go.

I can understand the sentiment after watching my grandfather and then my father suffer and I wouldn't want to live like that just to extend my life. At a certain point you do lose the quality of life.
 
Suffocating to death doesn't seem like a very nice way to go.

I can understand the sentiment after watching my grandfather and then my father suffer and I wouldn't want to live like that just to extend my life. At a certain point you do lose the quality of life.

I don't know that any way would be a "good" way to go. I just feel sorry for their family.
 
I don't know if I'll be doing it with or without a partner at the time, but I'll be ending it my way as well, if I live that long. There is no way in hell I'm going into some kind of home, having people give me enemas and change my adult diapers, or feed me. Won't happen. I'll eat a few bottles of sleeping pills first.
 
People can do with their lives what they want.. Just remember there are others that care about you and will bear the burden of the loss once you are gone.....

I think it has a lot to do with your belief/faith in the afterlife.........

I can't imagine this would ever be an option for me...
 
I don't know if I'll be doing it with or without a partner at the time, but I'll be ending it my way as well, if I live that long. There is no way in hell I'm going into some kind of home, having people give me enemas and change my adult diapers, or feed me. Won't happen. I'll eat a few bottles of sleeping pills first.

Me too. It's gonna be a sweet heroin overdose.
 
I think it's sweet. Too bad they had to resort to plastic bags though. Wouldn't it be nice if they could have just told their doctor and he could have given them a pill?

I think I should have every right to end my own life when and how I desire. And I plan to.
 
Never! It's a beautiful love story...........

bleh................. My girlfriend way back when in like 1990 made me go see "Steel Magnolias" with her.. I asked her several times if she could please ask someone else....

She told me "But J.R. I wanna see it with you"

I told her ok... but I don't think I'd enjoy the movie.....

So we went to it..... I sat in the theater in agony...... the scenes just became so stupid to me with all the female female relationships that I began to laugh at all the maudlin hystrionics despite the serious nature of the film at the time....

She hit me several times during the movie and was furious with me afterwards...

I said " I told you I didn't want to see that movie"

I know romantic huh? but, I'd never make a woman go with me to see "Saw IV" or "The Stink of Flesh"
 
bleh................. My girlfriend way back when in like 1990 made me go see "Steel Magnolias" with her.. I asked her several times if she could please ask someone else....

She told me "But J.R. I wanna see it with you"

I told her ok... but I don't think I'd enjoy the movie.....

So we went to it..... I sat in the theater in agony...... the scenes just became so stupid to me with all the female female relationships that I began to laugh at all the maudlin hystrionics despite the serious nature of the film at the time....

She hit me several times during the movie and was furious with me afterwards...

I said " I told you I didn't want to see that movie"

I know romantic huh? but, I'd never make a woman go with me to see "Saw IV" or "The Stink of Flesh"



The Notebook is about a couple and it's a love story. Not about a bunch of broads in a beauty parlor my dear J.R.

Big difference, you'll watch it and cry along with me, damnit! ;)
 
The Notebook is about a couple and it's a love story. Not about a bunch of broads in a beauty parlor my dear J.R.

Big difference, you'll watch it and cry along with me, damnit! ;)

can't I just fall asleep next to you and fuck you when you finish watching it?:D
 
can't I just fall asleep next to you and fuck you when you finish watching it?:D


NO! It's about soul mates, and finding each other again and........ don't you want to know what is making me cry?

You are just NOT mushy are you? C'mon I swear there's some romance deep down in you......... where'd you hide it?
 
Suffocating to death doesn't seem like a very nice way to go.

I can understand the sentiment after watching my grandfather and then my father suffer and I wouldn't want to live like that just to extend my life. At a certain point you do lose the quality of life.

Is that why they promote euthanasia?
 
NO! It's about soul mates, and finding each other again and........ don't you want to know what is making me cry?

You are just NOT mushy are you? C'mon I swear there's some romance deep down in you......... where'd you hide it?

Oh it's there definitely... but you would be the inspiration for it and not a movie:rose:
 
I enjoyed the movie the notebook. It is a real movie about life and love. Not a movie about dual suicide.
 
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