What is your defination of...

[CuriousSweetness]

What is your defination of sex?

A friend defines it as "sex is more so the act of of the insertion af the mans penis into the womans vagina and stimulated until orgasm", but if some men can have sex without cumming, and vice versa for some women, then what is sex?

 

[fathom7]

Physical enjoyent of one or more people involving the stimulation of physical and phisiological aspects of the beings involved -- typically stiulating at least one portion of the reproductive system.

 

[otter09]

sex

sweetness sex is so much more then that dear it can be physical or emotional or it can just be a craving we have at the time

 

[JamieB]

Sex is

I suppose sex alone is masturbation. If someone else is involved, it's sex, be it aural, oral, anal, vaginal, cyber or whatever.

J

 

[Dreamliner]

I suspect it more depnds on the view and outlook of an individual. Logically, it is more than just the insertion of a penis into a vagina. What about oral, what about heavy petting, especially where orgasm is attained?

 

[quietlyhorny]

Good topic..

a further question could be, does the emotional attachment achieved during "cybersex" count as cheating, or is cybering even sex at all?

 

[ticketyboo]

sex is sex

lovely

 

[ReadyOne]

Sex is in the head (or heart)

Sex happens when you let down your shields and become vulnerable to your partner while sexually aroused.

It's not the mechanics, but the spiritual merging with your partner. Hands alone can be enough, even hugs and kisses.

You can just straight "fuck" and not have sex, even if you both get off.

 

[CuriousSweetness]

Sex happens when you let down your shields and become vulnerable to your partner while sexually aroused.

It's not the mechanics, but the spiritual merging with your partner. Hands alone can be enough, even hugs and kisses.

You can just straight "fuck" and not have sex, even if you both get off.

I get where your going with the "sex" versus "fuck" bit, but then where does making love fall in?

And also, if both parties do get off during cybering, that can that be added to the possible catergories of what sex is.

 

[yogiforlife]

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I don't think you can really define sex. Every time you try, someone else will find a way to contradict it. You could say when a penis is inserted in a vagina, thats sex or when it orgasm's in said vagina, thats sex, it just leads to people having anal sex or limiting themselves to oral sex or heavy petting in order to maintain some crazy idea that they're still a virgin. If you have to theorize and defend what you've done as it pertains to being a virgin, chances are you are "sexually active", which is a better term that encompasses a wider area.

 

[rawkchik]

I'm in serious disagreement with those who voted for agree.

 

[lindahotstuff]

My definition of sex is two or more people coming together in a very sensual and erotic way that involves the mutual pleasuring of each other's bodies without inhibition or any necessary emotional attachment. Sex can take place with the hands, tongue, etc and does not need insertion to be extremely satisfying sex. neither does it involve loving the person you are enjoying sex with, which is what we have in a relationship. Relationships involve sex, but sex can take place outside any relationship that is other than a sexual one.

 

[Barbarian_Bride]

I don't think it has to do with a penis into a vagina... look at gay sex
There's also oral sex,
And you don't have to orgasm... look at tantra, or a half a dozen other philosophies

 

[ReadyOne]

I get where your going with the "sex" versus "fuck" bit, but then where does making love fall in?

And also, if both parties do get off during cybering, that can that be added to the possible catergories of what sex is.

When "making love" there's the connection between you that makes you both into a combined "hybrid" where there is neither of you and both of you, all at the same time. Very hard to get there unless you're having sex (in addition to fucking).

Cyber is basically fucking, not sex -- remember that you can get off without having sex. However couples who are connected can use it as a way of having sex. Physical contact isn't required, just extremely useful.

 

[Pixxie]

Its like a story I heard on the news about teens engaging in oral sex because they promised their parents/church that they wouldn't have sex.

So here is a vague answer, "You'll know it when you see it."

 

[Visfun]

Its like a story I heard on the news about teens engaging in oral sex because they promised their parents/church that they wouldn't have sex.

So here is a vague answer, "You'll know it when you see it."

When I was 15 I did not think giving a blow job was sex. I gave my boy friend blow jobs to save my virginity....I never promised my Church or Parents I wouldn't have sex, but when asked I told them I was a virgin.

 

[OKC553]

Sex is an individual thing. It doesn't need a definition as we all consider it differently. I enjoy sex with my wife and also on my own or while watching her on her own. Great topic though.

 

[Mebulbous]

Any form of sexual contact (visual, manual, physical etc) is sex