My domme side

[lindahotstuff]

Hubby and I just returned from a holiday in Las Vegas. We enquired about some BDSM fun and heard about a private party. We spoke with the organisers. usually they only accept people on recommendation but as we were visiting from Australia they invited us along. It was in a huge house on the outskirts of LV. Fortunately we had brought along our gear in the hope of finding somewheer to wear it.
In our relationship I am the domme and I like to humiliate and use my man. I dressed in my leather corset which doesn't cover my large tits. I also wore a very short skirt, fishnet stockings with a cutout bum and fanny and long leather boots. Hubby wore a string vest, tiny gstring that barely covered his cock and balls and a studded collar that was attached to a chain I carried. We entered the house and hubby got on his hands and knees. I led him around like a dog, whipping his butt occassionally to keep him in check.
I had great fun chatting and meeting new friends with similar interests. Hubby was at eye level with lots of bulging cocks, pulsating pussies and bare bums. Every now and again I would lift my skirt and pull his chain so his face was against my crotch. I enjoy being eaten and this is what my dog is for. I even shared him with new friends and he tasted several cocks, cunts and arseholes that night.
I was particularly taken by a young sub female and during the evening I strapped her to a bedpost and borrowed a strapon dildo to fuck her until she came many times. As I was fucking her, hubby sat below me, lapping at my clit until i too came in a gush.
We enjoyed the party thoroughly and invited anyone visiting Melbourne to come and stay with us. I'm not a full-time domme so when hubby and I got back to the hotel, I satisfied his aching cock by straddling him and giving him a memorable fuck as he buried his face between my breasts.
This was one of manys exy experiences we enjoyed in the US of A over Christmas/New Year

 

[pillowshade]

I got so wet hearing that. Can we talk?

 

[smotherman]

Hubby and I just returned from a holiday in Las Vegas. We enquired about some BDSM fun and heard about a private party. We spoke with the organisers. usually they only accept people on recommendation but as we were visiting from Australia they invited us along. It was in a huge house on the outskirts of LV. Fortunately we had brought along our gear in the hope of finding somewheer to wear it.
In our relationship I am the domme and I like to humiliate and use my man. I dressed in my leather corset which doesn't cover my large tits. I also wore a very short skirt, fishnet stockings with a cutout bum and fanny and long leather boots. Hubby wore a string vest, tiny gstring that barely covered his cock and balls and a studded collar that was attached to a chain I carried. We entered the house and hubby got on his hands and knees. I led him around like a dog, whipping his butt occassionally to keep him in check.
I had great fun chatting and meeting new friends with similar interests. Hubby was at eye level with lots of bulging cocks, pulsating pussies and bare bums. Every now and again I would lift my skirt and pull his chain so his face was against my crotch. I enjoy being eaten and this is what my dog is for. I even shared him with new friends and he tasted several cocks, cunts and arseholes that night.
I was particularly taken by a young sub female and during the evening I strapped her to a bedpost and borrowed a strapon dildo to fuck her until she came many times. As I was fucking her, hubby sat below me, lapping at my clit until i too came in a gush.
We enjoyed the party thoroughly and invited anyone visiting Melbourne to come and stay with us. I'm not a full-time domme so when hubby and I got back to the hotel, I satisfied his aching cock by straddling him and giving him a memorable fuck as he buried his face between my breasts.
This was one of manys exy experiences we enjoyed in the US of A over Christmas/New Year

Ah, yes. I know Las Vegas quite well. I've extensive knowledge of BDSM parties in Vegas. For the most part, You'll need an invite to attend the parties and a few Domme friends of mine hosts the events.

The next time You visit Las Vegas, let me know!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hope you didn't bring home any unexpected souveniers with all that unprotected sex with strangers. Personally, I am not willing to take those risks with either my or my partner's life and health, but sounds like you had fun.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

Hope you didn't bring home any unexpected souveniers with all that unprotected sex with strangers. Personally, I am not willing to take those risks with either my or my partner's life and health, but sounds like you had fun.

Catalina

You should read about what happened on the flight home...THAT is over in the GLBT forum!

 

[catalina_francisco]

You should read about what happened on the flight home...THAT is over in the GLBT forum!

LOL, I can only imagine, and be sure I will not be emulating it on my way home to Oz next week. Guess I'm just too boring.


Catalina

 

[shy slave]

I went to Vegas and never went to any parties like that, in fact never went to any parties.

But ADR did put me to bed and kiss me goodbye, does that count??

 

[Netzach]

I got out of bed on my Domme side this morning.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I went to Vegas and never went to any parties like that, in fact never went to any parties.

But ADR did put me to bed and kiss me goodbye, does that count??

Did she slip you the tongue ?

She did, didn't she : sighs :

Damn that ADR can't take her anywhere.

 

[unfoundiamond]

Hey.... that's funny...

So...

I was also feeling rather domme-ly on NYE...

I didn't get to go to a play party... since I don't do the whole sex party thing

(no offence... don't take any... but do be careful... I think I saw a statistic that said one in four people has HIV/AIDS in america...and maybe since you aren't from here... you didn't know...)

But, I did go to a Goth Club... and I took my dog too... *giggle*

But your story gave me some great new ideas... thanx a lot...

And I love your, (I guess you'd call it dialect, the way you say somethings, and choice of words is diffrent than most), I can almost hear that accent in your writting...

I love accents...

 

[Etoile]

(no offence... don't take any... but do be careful... I think I saw a statistic that said one in four people has HIV/AIDS in america...and maybe since you aren't from here... you didn't know...)

Actually, according to the CDC, there are fewer than 1.2 million people in the U.S. living with HIV/AIDS. The U.S. population just topped 300 million, so it's more like 1 in 300 people, not 1 in 4. Perhaps the statistic you saw was referring to STDs in general?

 

[Bill3250]

Actually, according to the CDC, there are fewer than 1.2 million people in the U.S. living with HIV/AIDS. The U.S. population just topped 300 million, so it's more like 1 in 300 people, not 1 in 4. Perhaps the statistic you saw was referring to STDs in general?

I'm glad my early sexual years were spent in an era when a shot in the butt would cure virtually all STDs.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Did she slip you the tongue ?

She did, didn't she : sighs :

Damn that ADR can't take her anywhere.

Yea and I made sure the guy traveler with shy, didn't notice.

 

[Chicklet]

Actually, according to the CDC, there are fewer than 1.2 million people in the U.S. living with HIV/AIDS. The U.S. population just topped 300 million, so it's more like 1 in 300 people, not 1 in 4. Perhaps the statistic you saw was referring to STDs in general?

or perhaps a very specifically selected group to test... for instance if they took their statistics from people being treated for STD's and found that 1 in 4 of those STD's was HIV...

just a random thought. i'm in a mood.

 

[Adakgirl]

Lindahotstuff, you say that "in our relationship I am the Domme" Yet later you say you are not a full time Domme. Are you saying that being a Domme means that you give up your Dominance when you fuck him but not when you are humiliating him or leading him around on his leash?
Being the Dominant in a D/s relationship means you are always the Dominant, no matter how you are having sex. You may ask him to Dom you for fun, but he would be simply obeying you. Giving him great sex does not make you a "part time Domme" it makes you a Dominant who enjoys great sex with her submissive. Unless of course, you are switches who take turns giving up and taking control of each other.

 

[myinnerslut]

Lindahotstuff, you say that "in our relationship I am the Domme" Yet later you say you are not a full time Domme. Are you saying that being a Domme means that you give up your Dominance when you fuck him but not when you are humiliating him or leading him around on his leash?
Being the Dominant in a D/s relationship means you are always the Dominant, no matter how you are having sex. You may ask him to Dom you for fun, but he would be simply obeying you. Giving him great sex does not make you a "part time Domme" it makes you a Dominant who enjoys great sex with her submissive. Unless of course, you are switches who take turns giving up and taking control of each other.

or it means they are not in a 24/7 TPE relationship.

 

[Adakgirl]

Ok, well I am confused then. They are a married couple in the BDSM lifestyle are they not? Oh, are you saying they only live the lifestyle sexually? If so then they are not really living this lifestyle, but are merely playing at it. So...Ok well, I can't quite get my head around that. Will someone please explain it to me?

 

[myinnerslut]

Ok, well I am confused then. They are a married couple in the BDSM lifestyle are they not? Oh, are you saying they only live the lifestyle sexually? If so then they are not really living this lifestyle, but are merely playing at it. So...Ok well, I can't quite get my head around that. Will someone please explain it to me?

i can try. not everybody involved in BDSM is in a TPE relationship. that doesnt necessarily mean they are roleplaying or playacting. power ist always laid out 100%PYL/0%pyl. for some relationships the balance is better set at 60%/40% or 78%/22% or whatever it is. while being "in the lifestyle" may mean a 24/7 M/s relationship in your definition of the term, it does not for everybody. just like "master", "dom", and "sub" all have definitions (as seen on the "label me this" thread) so does "the lifestyle".

 

[lindahotstuff]

Lindahotstuff, you say that "in our relationship I am the Domme" Yet later you say you are not a full time Domme. Are you saying that being a Domme means that you give up your Dominance when you fuck him but not when you are humiliating him or leading him around on his leash?
Being the Dominant in a D/s relationship means you are always the Dominant, no matter how you are having sex. You may ask him to Dom you for fun, but he would be simply obeying you. Giving him great sex does not make you a "part time Domme" it makes you a Dominant who enjoys great sex with her submissive. Unless of course, you are switches who take turns giving up and taking control of each other.

What I meant was that there are two sides to my relationship with my man. One is the BDSM aspect where i am always the domme. The second aspect of our relationship has nothing to do with BDSM. We have 3sums and 4sums and in those 'kinky-str8' relationships, my man and I are equal sexual partners. I don't have to be in control in these situations, not in a B&D sense anyway, although as I always have the final say about who I fuck and how I fuck, I guess in that way I am always the dominant one. That is what I meant abouyt being a P/T domme, but I am never a sub to any man.

 

[lindahotstuff]

Ok, well I am confused then. They are a married couple in the BDSM lifestyle are they not? Oh, are you saying they only live the lifestyle sexually? If so then they are not really living this lifestyle, but are merely playing at it. So...Ok well, I can't quite get my head around that. Will someone please explain it to me?

I never meant to imply that I was living the BDSM lifestyle. Yes, we play at it for sexual fun and enjoy what we do immensely, but I/we enjoy so many different types of sex that I/we could never limit ourselves to a single lifestyle. That is not to demean those who do adopt the lifestyle fully, I absolutely respect that, it just isn't me/us.

 

[Etoile]

i can try. not everybody involved in BDSM is in a TPE relationship. that doesnt necessarily mean they are roleplaying or playacting. power ist always laid out 100%PYL/0%pyl. for some relationships the balance is better set at 60%/40% or 78%/22% or whatever it is. while being "in the lifestyle" may mean a 24/7 M/s relationship in your definition of the term, it does not for everybody. just like "master", "dom", and "sub" all have definitions (as seen on the "label me this" thread) so does "the lifestyle".

Great response, mis. There is no True Way to do any of this stuff. There are no absolutes. Even TPE relationships can be different from one another. Stating that something is or isn't so is a recipe for having a lot of people tell you that's not the case.

 

[SweetErika]

I never meant to imply that I was living the BDSM lifestyle. Yes, we play at it for sexual fun and enjoy what we do immensely, but I/we enjoy so many different types of sex that I/we could never limit ourselves to a single lifestyle. That is not to demean those who do adopt the lifestyle fully, I absolutely respect that, it just isn't me/us.

I understand how it might seem limiting, Linda, but I've never seen D/s that way for us, at least.

Hard limits aside, everything we do falls under me having the final say, but there's a virtually limitless territory under that umbrella. We have sex like teenagers, babymaking sex, sex where there's no clear power difference, mutual masturbation, give to each other in every way, play with toys, occasional threesomes or involvement w/ other couples, anal, oral and just about every other kind of sex open-minded people have. There can be BDSM overtones or activities, but that could be anything from me clearly being in charge, to me bottoming for him, or having just a few twists on conventional sex.

Our non-sexual life is similarly varied. The only reason we're D/s is because we've agreed I have the final say. But he takes care of a lot of our responsibilities and takes care of me in many ways. I take care of him in some of the same, and many other, ways. I see us as serving each other.

The only thing we don't do is give him overriding control, sexually or otherwise.

It's not limiting for us. It's nearly limitless.

 

[Etoile]

I understand how it might seem limiting, Linda, but I've never seen D/s that way for us, at least.

Hard limits aside, everything we do falls under me having the final say, but there's a virtually limitless territory under that umbrella. We have sex like teenagers, babymaking sex, sex where there's no clear power difference, mutual masturbation, give to each other in every way, play with toys, occasional threesomes or involvement w/ other couples, anal, oral and just about every other kind of sex open-minded people have. There can be BDSM overtones or activities, but that could be anything from me clearly being in charge, to me bottoming for him, or having just a few twists on conventional sex.

Our non-sexual life is similarly varied. The only reason we're D/s is because we've agreed I have the final say. But he takes care of a lot of our responsibilities and takes care of me in many ways. I take care of him in some of the same, and many other, ways. I see us as serving each other.

The only thing we don't do is give him overriding control, sexually or otherwise.

It's not limiting for us. It's nearly limitless.

Could somebody put this in the Inclusive Calendar of 2008? I'm on my cell phone so it's a little awkward for me to manage it.

 

[FurryFury]

Could somebody put this in the Inclusive Calendar of 2008? I'm on my cell phone so it's a little awkward for me to manage it.

Your wish, is my command.

 

[Etoile]

Your wish, is my command.

Yeah? Maybe there's something to this domme stuff...