joining a swingers group?

[dude50]

what is everyones input on joining a swingers group ? What are the pros and the cons and how do you go about joining one, what about being discret.....

 

[UKHorn]

Swing

what is everyones input on joining a swingers group ? What are the pros and the cons and how do you go about joining one, what about being discret.....

Depends on the group I think. The ideal 'discrete' route is a group like 'Fever' (www.feverparties.com) in the UK. There must be something similar where you are if you look hard enough. Failing that, you could get a taste via swinger magazines or sites like adultfriendfinder.com. Hope that helps.

 

[dude50]

I like to let my wife have as much as i can when it comes to pleasing I try real hard. Thanks for your input on the question I put out.Some times I think people get bored and they tend to stray. I'm pretty open minded so I thought that this would be a way to let some stress out.

 

[MistyS]

Most important: Be sexually safe!

I met a woman who got all sorts of incurable diseases.

Yech, I like the works, but you gotta be careful.

 

[koalabear]

Most important: Be sexually safe!

I met a woman who got all sorts of incurable diseases.

Yech, I like the works, but you gotta be careful.

It's for idiots, like she says you will most likely end up with an STD.

 

[bubbliebabs]

We have been members of a club and loved it. You have to find the right club and the right people. if you just want to fuck and nothing else, there are those types and if you want to take it slow, build some friendships as well as some fun partners, there are those as well.

It has to be something you both want. You have to set ground rules, code words or motions, and you have to be honest with each other! Trust is a BIG thing in a lifestyle relationship. (lifestyle = swingers)

 

[Rayne&Wayne]

We took a considerable length of time to decide and we're open to this,
with boundless enthusiasm. "purely medicinal of course"

Now if we could only find others involved or wanting to get involved,
in our area... .. Lower main land Abbotsford BC Canada.

Any info would be appreciated.

 

[bubbliebabs]

Look for online groups...aol chat room, yahoo chat, AFF is a decent site, Swing Life Style online...there are numerous places to start out looking where you can view peoples profiles, pics, chat, without the "risk". Many places have get togethers with members of an online group in a public place, like clubs, and just have a good time and if you click with someone great, or if you just have a good time, that is all that matters!

We were embers of a club for 2 years before we ever "played" with another couple. We went monthly to the gatherings and had a great time with other couples, friends, and no pressure. The biggest plus was the open-mindedness of the group. No one was there to judge on looks, age, clothing style, dance style....everyone was there to enjoy themselves.