Do you like the attention your boobs get you?

[MrsDeathlynx]

The idea for this thread was given to me by a post in another thread. But the main question is...

Do you really like the attention your breasts get you? I'm talking about guys staring at your breasts when talking instead of looking at you and that kind of thing.

 

[Carnevil9]

This poll is sexist. What about the women who stare at my crotch instead of my face when talking to me?.......Carney

 

[Guest]

The idea for this thread was given to me by a post in another thread. But the main question is...

Do you really like the attention your breasts get you? I'm talking about guys staring at your breasts when talking instead of looking at you and that kind of thing.

It's all relative.

If I'm at work, in business attire, I do not dress for "cleavage" attention. It still happens.

If I'm out with my family, my children, I do not dress for it. It happens here, too.

When I do not make a deliberate attempt to showcase my chest I don't expect that sort of attention. I don't want it. I'm furious when I get it. It's rude and it's wrong.

When I dress in a revealing top and I'm obviously flirting, it is expected. If I become uncomfortable with the attention I've drawn to myself it's my own problem.

But when I'm not trying for attention, if I'm not returning the flirts and the stares, I'm not wearing anything remotely revealing, why do some men still feel the need to talk to my tits?

It's embarrassing when it happens in front of my children, my parents (we were at a restaurant not too long ago with extended family and this happened).

Why can't some men figure out the difference?

 

[tickledkitty]

It's a love-hate thing, depending on where the attention is coming from.

 

[English Lady]

Mostly I don't mind, actually, mostly I don't notice -my husband will point it out to me later and I'll be totally clueless. I can't recall a time wher I've noticed and it's really pissed me off -it's freaked me out a time or two, but generally, my boobs like the attention

 

[buxxxom]

It's all relative.

If I'm at work, in business attire, I do not dress for "cleavage" attention. It still happens.

If I'm out with my family, my children, I do not dress for it. It happens here, too.

When I do not make a deliberate attempt to showcase my chest I don't expect that sort of attention. I don't want it. I'm furious when I get it. It's rude and it's wrong.

When I dress in a revealing top and I'm obviously flirting, it is expected. If I become uncomfortable with the attention I've drawn to myself it's my own problem.

But when I'm not trying for attention, if I'm not returning the flirts and the stares, I'm not wearing anything remotely revealing, why do some men still feel the need to talk to my tits?

It's embarrassing when it happens in front of my children, my parents (we were at a restaurant not too long ago with extended family and this happened).

Why can't some men figure out the difference?

Also, you have to consider your age. When I was young (and I got developed early and well!) and insecure about my ample amount of cleavage, I would be absolutely mortified when my boobs got more attention than they deserved. Teenagers oughtn't be subjected to leers and stares at their cleavage. Now that I'm older, I'm only irritated. Still, it happens often enough.

 

[buxxxom]

When I do not make a deliberate attempt to showcase my chest I don't expect that sort of attention. I don't want it. I'm furious when I get it. It's rude and it's wrong.

When I dress in a revealing top and I'm obviously flirting, it is expected. If I become uncomfortable with the attention I've drawn to myself it's my own problem.

Bottom line, this is what it all boils down to.

 

[Guest]

Also, you have to consider your age. When I was young (and I got developed early and well!) and insecure about my ample amount of cleavage, I would be absolutely mortified when my boobs got more attention than they deserved. Teenagers oughtn't be subjected to leers and stares at their cleavage. Now that I'm older, I'm only irritated. Still, it happens often enough.

Yes.

My daughter is in that situation now. Middle school age, developing early, very uncomfortable with the attention she is beginning to receive.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

The idea for this thread was given to me by a post in another thread. But the main question is...

Do you really like the attention your breasts get you? I'm talking about guys staring at your breasts when talking instead of looking at you and that kind of thing.

definitely not. manboobs suck.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

Looking is fine. That's the nature of the beasts. Staring is a different thing altogether and it's just creepy. Unless the person staring has a mental disorder, I make no allowance for staring (even then it's iffy as to how acceptable staring is).

 

[Guest]

definitely not. manboobs suck.

Coffee spew.

 

[3113]

This poll is sexist. What about the women who stare at my crotch instead of my face when talking to me?.......Carney

Oh, Carney, Carney, Carney...how nice of you to give us such a lovely opening...so many ways to answer that....

 

[MagicaPractica]

I'm currently a DDD, have been a DD for about fifteen years, and have never noticed a guy talking to my chest or even looking at it. *shrug*

 

[TxRad]

Oh, Carney, Carney, Carney...how nice of you to give us such a lovely opening...so many ways to answer that....

He's been told time and again not to peel the Banana before sticking it in his pants. But does he listen, nope not even a little bit.

And I agree on the manboobs thing also.

 

[sr71plt]

definitely not. manboobs suck.

Actually, they don't suck, which is one of the main differences, isn't it?

But truthfully, in my early "shopping" days, I put mine to good use too.

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

Ok... I'm a C cup. But it doesn't matter. If guys want to stare at the sweat shirts I wear continuously, year round... then they must be weirder than I am. Few have seen my boobs and I don't draw attention to them. That seems like a terrible waste of time.

 

[Chantilyvamp]

I dont draw attention to my boobs on purpose, well most of the time. If out to impress and leave the husband with wobbly legs then yes. Doesnt seem to matter though with me, small breasts even covered up and I still get people staring at them. *shrugs*

Sometimes the attention is amusing and sometimes quite flattering once I adjusted to it. But really depends on the person doing the oggling...if your gross (attitude and such) or your attention has completely shifted and your loosing track of whats being said (work training etc) then I get peeved and will switch your attention to the subject at hand.

 

[kbate]

I don't care. In my normal dress, you would have to be under my body armour and sports bra to even realise that I have boobs, and even then - mosquitos have raised larger bumps than nature granted me.

 

[Tarakin]

I'm currently a DDD, have been a DD for about fifteen years, and have never noticed a guy talking to my chest or even looking at it. *shrug*

I'm sure they're speechless

 

[Stella_Omega]

I remember a friend of mine coming home from work, with her face streaked with her mascara. She'd been crying in the car as she drove, from something that had happened at work-- and then some guy pulled up next to her, rolled his window down and said; "Great rack!"

She said it was VERY difficult to resist the urg to turn and ram the side of his car.

 

[Vermilion]

You know, I'm more than adequately endowed (DD to E cup depending on make of bra) and I don't recall one single situation where a man has been unable to maintain eye contact. Even when I wa younger, and foolish and had them offered up on a plate.

The only man I get (and want) such attention from is the Fiance, who is very appreciatve in all the right ways.

That being said, I wish they were smaller and pointed forwards rather than down. When it came to figures - all aspects - my sister got the good genes and I got the shabby ones. If you go for uantity over quality, though, I'm your gal.
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[Liar]

This poll is sexist. What about the women who stare at my crotch instead of my face when talking to me?.......Carney

You're taking this carnie thing a little too far if you're walking around on stilts all day long.

 

[Just-Legal]

I have a F/G also depending on where I buy them, and I feel like tattooing "Hey, I'm up here!" on them. People talk to my chest all the time, even when its completely covered (which it is most of the time, I'm damn insecure about my figure as it is).

 

[starrkers]

I'm kinda in the EL category - I rarely notice Hubby notices people staring, but I'm clueless.

And you lot should feel highly privileged. I don't flash 'em around. They are usually well covered and hidden under big t-shirts and sloppy sweatshirts.

 

[wyf]

I like it. it makes me feel happier about being older, and not as perky, as i used to be.