Anal anyone?

dyadya

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Sorry not an offer... could be lol no, not really.

But seriously I think I may want to try it. But I'm still kinda iffy... Does it hurt? I mean I'm sure it probably does but how bad? Does it even feel good that way? I just figured I'd get opinions from chicks that have already experienced it.
 
OKey, as an experienced Chick! I have to say that if done properly, and by that I mean with care and caution, anal can be a wonderful experience. Lube is the key, patience and being slow. If you try to stick it in fast its gonna really hurt. AND BAD but take your time, show the little hole some attention, use your fingers, use lube and only do what your other is comfortable with.

Hope that helped
 
Totally Agree with what SC replied.

And will add it is awesome if done with respect to your body and not rushed. Relax, breathe deep, get comfortable.

I can totally orgasm from anal :D

Ooh and don't use desensitizing products, you will pay for it later. Not personal experience, but have been told. :)

 
love anal sex it feels soooo good once u get used to it u can get more then one cock up there belive me lol xxxx
 
I feel a little silly but I have recently bought a “training kit” am VERY inexperienced.
Would like to one day though so I thought I would take it 1 step at a time.. ok I confess I am a coward! (Blushing)
 
It feels almost as good as my pussy. It's important to go slow and use lots of lube until whatever you're using is in. After that its easy.
 
Patience is its own reward

I dated this Nordic goddess for two years. She was a sexual machine. She had small boobs but a lower body from heaven. Long, silky legs featuring magnificent thighs, strong and vibrant. A sweet-tasting pussy fringed by whisps of lovely blonde hair, and a firm, protuding butt that almost made me cry.

More than a year into our relationship we began discussing anal sex, based upon my overwhelming desire to cum in those muscular cheeks. A few session spent spreading lube across and into her tight hole ultimately led to me mounting her. Afraid that my thick dick would be too much for her to take, I leaned up to her era and whispered, "Just relax. Go with it. I won't hurt you."

My encouragements were immediately met with a loosening of her muscles, a further thrust into her, and an ecstatic moment for us both. A combination of further whispers, thrusts and ultimate orgasm brought us off.

Afterwards, she kept telling me how much she appreciated my words of encouragement, and how her ass would always be available.
 
love to give it to my girl friend when i have my strapon and i slide it between her pussy lips making my stapon all wet wid her yummy juices. then putting the head of the strapon cock at the entrance of her tight yummy lil ass when i just push it half way in then begin to fuck her tight ass fast and hard making her scream my name. love it xxxx
 
I would definitely recommend an anal beginner kit. Just take your time. I find anal extremely pleasurable. Great orgasms! Good luck.

:kiss:
 
I feel a little silly but I have recently bought a “training kit” am VERY inexperienced.
Would like to one day though so I thought I would take it 1 step at a time.. ok I confess I am a coward! (Blushing)

No need to blush. It can be painful if not done right. The training kit might help.
 
Sorry not an offer... could be lol no, not really.

But seriously I think I may want to try it. But I'm still kinda iffy... Does it hurt? I mean I'm sure it probably does but how bad? Does it even feel good that way? I just figured I'd get opinions from chicks that have already experienced it.

Well...it *can* hurt if you don't do it properly, or you're not ready - but don't be deterred. As several people have said, you need to take it very slowly and carefully, and use loads of lubricant. And if it doesn't feel right at any stage, call a halt.

I recommend you start by first getting your partner to caress or stimulate your anus from the outside - with fingers or, if they're brave, their tongue, which is really nice - without penetrating. This will help you find out whether you enjoy the sensations, and whether your anus is sexually responsive. If you do like it, then you'll have a little more courage and appetite for your partner to actually get inside you.

Personally, I find anal sex extremely pleasurable, but it's very much a matter of personal taste. For me, the the taboo-ness, and naughtiness is a turn on; I'm naturally very sensitive down there; and I like the feeling of fullness inside my bum.
 
Sorry not an offer... could be lol no, not really.

But seriously I think I may want to try it. But I'm still kinda iffy... Does it hurt? I mean I'm sure it probably does but how bad? Does it even feel good that way? I just figured I'd get opinions from chicks that have already experienced it.

if you're doing it right, it shouldn't hurt at all, in fact it should feel REALLY good.
 
Sorry not an offer... could be lol no, not really.

But seriously I think I may want to try it. But I'm still kinda iffy... Does it hurt? I mean I'm sure it probably does but how bad? Does it even feel good that way? I just figured I'd get opinions from chicks that have already experienced it.
It hurts for a couple minutes but then....SOOO GOOD...It's uncomfortable where you won't want him to move but just go nice & easy.ENJOY!The BEST sex is anal:)
 
i suggest you try it first with her lying face down- she is more relaxed and you can't go as deep so it may be helpful for her
or on her side- similar reasons but easier to reach her pussy that way as well

also good recomendation is to slide up and down her buttcrack for like 15-20 minutes and tease the area with the tip. that long amount of foreplay will definately help bring pleasure to the area and get her far more interested for step 2
women i have been with says it really helps the experience be one they enjoy- even the ones who had tried it before and not enjoyed it
...or maybe its just me :D...
 
It depends...

If you like the thought of it and it appeals to you, it's worth experimenting with. As others have said, plenty of lube is key. If you're especially nervous, you might want to work your way up to it with toys ahead of time... experiment on yourself. Just make sure you're very aroused before you introduce anything to your ass... dildo or otherwise!

I always wanted to try anal and eventually did for the first time a few weeks ago. He was gentle, yet very turned on by being with someone who'd never experienced it, so it worked out well. I liked it in the end and definitely want to experience more of it.

My one bit of advice is to make sure you do it only because it appeals to you and be with someone who is sensitive to how you feel about it... gentle and patient will make it feel good in the end... and I suppose the next time will be that much simpler. (I hope)!

:)Good luck.
 
Sorry not an offer... could be lol no, not really.

But seriously I think I may want to try it. But I'm still kinda iffy... Does it hurt? I mean I'm sure it probably does but how bad? Does it even feel good that way? I just figured I'd get opinions from chicks that have already experienced it.
From a man's view, it's hard to enter, and must be lubed well and go very slow. Tenderness to the lady is a must. A lot of foreplay is a great primer! My ex-wife and I only did it twice, but it was awesome for both of us! Again, tenderness is the key that unlocks that door!!
 
Mutual masturbation nights and I used “anal ease” I think that helped a lot.
I was still tender but it made it desensitized a bit so it (my toy) could go in easier.
I am looking forward to trying a larger toy, but I cum so much using a bullet (by myself 3-4 times) that by the time we have sex at night my clit is a little desitized and it makes it harder to cum.

I need to do a little better planning for sex together and NOT cum all day.

Angel
 
The angle of penetretion seems to be very improtant. I think its moreso if the female can't relax totally. If the angle is wrong and she's tense it hurts like blazes. I would love to do my partner up the ass doggy style but it just doesn't seem to work for her as well as when she is on her back. In that postiion, if I go slow and easy she loves it. She won't let me do any thrusting in and out, but again I think its because she can't relax. She's pretty uptight when it comes to sex, so that's probably why.

Yes - in my experience, it's easier, if you're new to anal sex, to be on your back. Angles are important - your anus and sphincter are neither straight not penis/dildo shaped. Also, psychologically, being able to see your partner's face, and more of what's going on, can be more reassuring that having your face crushed into the bed.

I probably prefer it from behind, overall - but I suggest you try that later, when you have a little more confidence.
 
A woman I see is totally addicted to anal. she absolutely loves when I do her ass while she uses a vibe around her pussy
 
Yes - in my experience, it's easier, if you're new to anal sex, to be on your back. Angles are important - your anus and sphincter are neither straight not penis/dildo shaped. Also, psychologically, being able to see your partner's face, and more of what's going on, can be more reassuring that having your face crushed into the bed.

I probably prefer it from behind, overall - but I suggest you try that later, when you have a little more confidence.

I didn't give the position a whole lot of thought ahead of time... kind of assumed it would be from behind, but what you said makes perfect sense... I don't know if he sensed being on my back would make it easier for me my first time or not, but in retrospect, I think that did help a lot. It was reassuring to be able to see his face my first time and it helped me relax, I'm sure. Maybe the next time it will be from behind, but either way, my first time was easier (and actually enjoyable) while laying on my back.
 
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