What words can turn you off?

TheUKGent

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I saw a thread recently about what words would send you over the edge (I can't find it now, otherwise I'd reference it), and it got me wondering if there was anything that someone has said in the heat of the moment that has really killed it for you, possibly even to the point of you giving up.

This example came to mind for me: Whilst away at university, I worked as a barman at one of the many pubs in the city. There were a regular group of women who would come in on a Saturday night before heading off to the clubs. I would flirt and chat with them every time, and it became clear that one of the group had taken a liking to me.

The flirting became a little heavier each time, and eventually (and inevitably) she invited me back to her house one evening.

It got pretty heated very quickly, and not long after we'd started kissing we were naked. At this point all was, well, going fantastically. She was skilled and attentive, and seemed to enjoy my going down on here.

It was at this point she pulled me up and said the following:

"I need a good fucking, plough me like a farmer's field!"

Now, I don't know if it was the fact that was the first bit of dirty talk uttered, or the fact that her up till then reasonably plummy voice had reverted to a much thicker Lancaster accent. It just caught me off-guard and completely destroyed the mood.

I'm not taking the higher ground here, and being the horny 20 year old I was, it would have taken more than that to put me off completely, but from that point forward it was all just mechanical, and it was all about getting it over and done with and getting out of there as quickly as possible.

I saw her at the pub several times after that, but never took it any further again.

Anyone out there have similar stories?
 
Stuff like that would definitely put me off, in any context. Has nothing to do with sex and is just bad metaphor writing.

I don't like any language that is degrading. I'm vers, slightly top, don't like it when the behaviour and language is so openly and clearly top/bottom.
 
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