First threesome - help

[phunkyphresh]

I'm chatting with a couple to meet them for a MMF threesome. It will be my first threesome of any kind. I'm very excited but also have high anxiety about it. I want to be good, lol.

I feel like I have several things working against me ...

• Infrequent sex. Since I'm traveling full time, I don't have sex on the regular. I'm worried about cumming in the first 2 minutes
• I'm uncut and very sensitive. sometimes this ends up having the opposite effect, where i get over stimulated and then can't get off. i'd honestly rather have this happen so i can keep going, but sometimes it can be too much.
  • also this requires me to use a condom most of the time just to control stimulation. not a huge deal since i'll wear one anyways in this situation for general protection, but still
• Performance anxiety. again, i want to be good, or at least decent

Hoping some of y'all have some good advice for me on how to last a bit longer and not be so nervous i can't perform and have fun.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Just jerk off in the morning and at night.

Don’t worry about being good, just have fun. Even if you blow your load too early, you still have a mouth and butthole!

You’re going to be fine. Enjoy!

 

[NightL]

Over thinking things will just heighten your anxiety. Just go with the flow. If you are actually heading for a mfm, which is very different to a mmf, then it will likely be the woman who is the center of attention, this will give both males the opportunity to take some time out to watch and catch breath occasionally.

Take your time, see how many orgasms for the female you can assist with before intercourse. Slow and steady with lots of sensual massage and touch.

Now if it is indeed a mmf and you are the centre of attention, well as hotwords229_A mentioned "you still have a mouth and butthole!"

 

[phunkyphresh]

just as a quick follow up... as one would expect, its wasn't anything like what i imagined or fantasized that it would be.

fun and i'm glad i did it, but also so many other things too

 

[MiaBabe23]

just as a quick follow up... as one would expect, its wasn't anything like what i imagined or fantasized that it would be.

fun and i'm glad i did it, but also so many other things too

Good that it was a positive experience
What were the ‘other things’?

 

[phunkyphresh]

Good that it was a positive experience
What were the ‘other things’?

just trying to manage thoughts and vibes and ideas of 3 people is harder than expected.

also being in mfm was interesting. being around another cock in a sexual situation. his energy didn't match mine or hers as much. the pacing was hard to get, since everyone wants something different

 

[MiaBabe23]

just trying to manage thoughts and vibes and ideas of 3 people is harder than expected.

also being in mfm was interesting. being around another cock in a sexual situation. his energy didn't match mine or hers as much. the pacing was hard to get, since everyone wants something different

Certainly sounds like a fun learning experience at the very least

 

[phunkyphresh]

Certainly sounds like a fun learning experience at the very least

super fun, would do again ... lots of learning too

 

[MiaBabe23]

Bit envious now lol. Look forward to hearing about it!