Shaved or not shaved

So, I shave my sac and shaft but trim everything else then fade surrounding body hair so as to not look silly. Or at least that’s what I try for.

Funny thing about shaving the sac. It’s great when it’s cold-to-cool outside. The second it’s hot or swampy—the same time women are getting “schwoops” and swamp crotch—the sac when clean shaven turns into one of those sticky toys you throw against a wall.

*thack* against your thigh. And then the skin sits there, stuck like glue. Step, awkward shuffle, you may convince it to unstick only to swing and stick again the opposite thigh.

I guess talcum would be a good solution to shorn, non-tacky scrote but I can’t bring myself to do it.
 
So, I shave my sac and shaft but trim everything else then fade surrounding body hair so as to not look silly. Or at least that’s what I try for.

Funny thing about shaving the sac. It’s great when it’s cold-to-cool outside. The second it’s hot or swampy—the same time women are getting “schwoops” and swamp crotch—the sac when clean shaven turns into one of those sticky toys you throw against a wall.

*thack* against your thigh. And then the skin sits there, stuck like glue. Step, awkward shuffle, you may convince it to unstick only to swing and stick again the opposite thigh.

I guess talcum would be a good solution to shorn, non-tacky scrote but I can’t bring myself to do it.
shorn.jpeg
 
I have this routine in which, during automn-winter, i like to let it all grow (with a degree of control). Usually, from January to march, i have a full on bush. After, I progressively trim down to nothing in june and keep it closely shaved all summer. My husband likes all the degrees of this yearly variation.

However, I have to admit to prefering shaved on men, which is more pleasurable for me during oral. Hairy cocks and balls will not stop me from doing anything however!

Xxx

-C
Can we see the current state of your bush?
 
The wife and I both like the shaved option. Oral is so much better without the pesky hairs getting in our mouths. 😜
 
I have a well-maintained full bush that's kept neat and tidy.
I prefer my men to look natural too
For conversations sake, to clarify

How far does the natural look go?

Facial hair on either m/f
Arm pits
Nipple hair m/f
Grooming/manscaping

As George Carlin said;

Don’t despair
It’s only hair
 
In my case, my gf's request that I shave my cock & balls completely smooth came as a bit of a surprise. It wasn't about her "demanding" that I do it; she just said she preferred that look.

I didn't think too much about it and certainly had seen shaved cocks before, in porn films and occasionally at the nude beach. I guess I always bought in to the stereotypical connection between lots of hair and masculinity so, the absence of hair conveyed less masculinity.

It really wasn't my cup of tea and I couldn't imagine being smooth down there and, God forbid, anyone know about it! But the more I thought about it I figured no one will ever know and if I don't like it, it'll grow back. Besides, if she preferred it that way, I might get more sex. 😁

So one day, before my gf came to town I decided I'd give her a surprise. I didn't have a trimmer at that time so I used a pair of scissors to trim away as much as I could safely remove, stepped into the shower with a disposable razor, lathered up and carefully went to work .....

It was surprisingly easy and the warm water helped. By the time I had finished my cock was rock-hard! When I stepped out of the shower and had dried off, I looked in the mirror ..... my dick was pointing straight up and leaking copious amounts of pre-cum! 💦

It was at this instant that I realized that part of what I was feeling was the realization that my gf had urged me to remove my pubic hair for her pleasure and that , going against my instincts, I had complied. It felt somewhat submissive. It was a new and odd sensation.

I couldn't wait to reveal my new look to her later but what I really couldn't wait to do was jackoff. And I did!

Looking back, I recognize this as the beginning of an exploration of my submissive side. It was strange too, because NO ONE, including my gf of 15 years, would ever suspect me of having these feelings.

These days, the best part of our sex life is when I lick her pussy and make her cum. I have only once eaten her pussy after cumming inside her and I loved it. It also felt .... submissive.

Sometimes I think about the different guys she's fucked & them cumming inside her while I'm doing it and it's a huge turn on for me.

She will sometimes indulge me in my (what she calls) "stories" while we're fucking but is not receptive to the idea of her taking other lovers and she would never understand me even having a submissive side! If only she knew what she awakened by suggesting I shave off my pubic hair ..... 🤫

Apologies for the long post and taking you down my path. But the simple act of shaving my pubic hair opened a door for me that I didn't know was there ...... 😉
 
I enjoy keeping myself shaved, my wife is completely indifferent. When I am watching blowjob videos I much prefer it if the guy is smooth.
 
I’m completely smooth.
My wife is all natural. The couple times that she was with another man (I was there with her), she would shave her pussy smooth, but leave a small landing strip on her mons.

We no longer have sex, but I once saw her pussy smooth (with the landing strip) after we stopped having sex and figured some other lucky guy is enjoying her snug pussy!
 
I’m completely smooth.
My wife is all natural. The couple times that she was with another man (I was there with her), she would shave her pussy smooth, but leave a small landing strip on her mons.

We no longer have sex, but I once saw her pussy smooth (with the landing strip) after we stopped having sex and figured some other lucky guy is enjoying her snug pussy!
Tom, I have read your posts and have empathy for you. It sounds as if you'd like to have a sexual relationship either your wife but she has checked out. Is that true? It also sounds like you'd accept or even desire a cuckold arrangement with her.

The bit about you keeping your cock smooth and shaved, despite your wife's not attending to your sexual needs is intriguing to me. I take it you do not have or seek others with whom you have sexual relations. That seems unfair but perhaps you are good with it.

Anyway, I hope you are content with the arrangement. I'm curious if thoughts of your wife's outside liaisons are the subject matter of your sexual thoughts and fantasies .... 🤷‍♂️
 
Tom, I have read your posts and have empathy for you. It sounds as if you'd like to have a sexual relationship either your wife but she has checked out. Is that true?
True. I wanted to, but no need anymore (I’ll elaborate later in this response).
It also sounds like you'd accept or even desire a cuckold arrangement with her.
I have wanted her to bed other men, but in no way am I submissive or want to be ridiculed, belittled, or bullied.
The bit about you keeping your cock smooth and shaved, despite your wife's not attending to your sexual needs is intriguing to me. I take it you do not have or seek others with whom you have sexual relations. That seems unfair but perhaps you are good with it.
I like the feel of being smooth. I have met someone here on Lit and we have started a serious relationship. We are exclusive to one another, but she is open to exploring my “kinks” & “fetishes”.

She has fulfilled more of my sexual needs over the past 3 months than my wife has in the past 10 years!
Anyway, I hope you are content with the arrangement. I'm curious if thoughts of your wife's outside liaisons are the subject matter of your sexual thoughts and fantasies .... 🤷‍♂️
For years I had hoped that my wife would share details (or even acknowledgement) of her having extramarital affairs, but she has not.
Yes, I’ve fantasized and masturbated to the thought many times.
 
True. I wanted to, but no need anymore (I’ll elaborate later in this response).

I have wanted her to bed other men, but in no way am I submissive or want to be ridiculed, belittled, or bullied.

I like the feel of being smooth. I have met someone here on Lit and we have started a serious relationship. We are exclusive to one another, but she is open to exploring my “kinks” & “fetishes”.

She has fulfilled more of my sexual needs over the past 3 months than my wife has in the past 10 years!

For years I had hoped that my wife would share details (or even acknowledgement) of her having extramarital affairs, but she has not.
Yes, I’ve fantasized and masturbated to the thought many times.
You sound like a very thoughtful & centered person. I admire your resilience and attitude. Bravo! 👏🏼
 
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