Small cock psychology

It could happen by accident if you let yourself get into such a condition. You might cum so hard just by having someone see you all worked up.
There's been times after three or more weeks of constant teasing but denial that I've been close to spontaneous cumming from getting so excited reading or looking at porn. Especially if I let myself spend any time looking at beautiful cocks... :p
 
Late 50s, 100% bisexual here, with a small cock.

I find it very interesting that over the years, I've always been a little self conscious about my size with a new female partner but it absolutely never bothered me with a male.

In reality, I never had any complaints and I had plenty of repeat girlfriend fuck buddies, so I don't think the sex was lacking. Never the less though, the slight mental discomfort of being smaller than average never left me when I was fucking girls. Pure conditioning, I know, but there you go.

By contrast, with men, my size seemed to fuel the arousal for both parties and therefore I've always felt super comfortable about it.

I guess that with my gay side generally manifesting as being a cocksucker and bottom by true nature, I was always happier to drop into the role of the sub with the smaller cock, submitting to the bigger alpha. My hard little cock and the size difference between us, was actually part of the thrill for some of my bigger male partners and thus made me feel sexy too.

Sexual psychology is so interesting.

That's all :)
100 percent agree and true from my perspective too!
 
I admit I used to be very self conscious when I was in the locker room with my swim team. Everyone and I mean, everyone was much larger than me by a factor of 3 to 5. Then, when a bunch of us would be lifting weights at my friend's backyard pool, we would all be naked and hard it was very obvious i have a tiny cockette. If we're going back to the psychology of it all, I feel much better now that I realize I am a feminine being, and belong in panties.
 
My first time with another man was a black gym bro. I never measured him but he was huge, and I thought his body was perfection. He was my first for sucking and getting fucked. He told me once that I had penis envy gone wild. He never touched my dick and we had well over 30 sessions. He said that he just wasn't attracted to me like that. I think the only reason that I was ok with it was my little dick.
 
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I've accepted that mine is small at 4 1/2 inches and my wife needs a bullet vibe to get off when I fuck her. We laugh about it's smallness...hence my fascination with cocks bigger than mine.
I’m about the same, I’d love if my wife would acknowledge it’s small size- gently tease etc
 
My ex wife fucked at least 4 younger men (that I know of) in their early 20’s . They all had bigger cocks and she’d let them know. I’m about 4 1/2 inches erect. I overheard her talking to one of her boy toys thinking I wasn’t around and she glorified his cock and how much bigger he was compared to me. She mentioned how when he would fuck her he would make her moan and scream in a way I didn’t and she couldn’t wait to fuck him. Surprisingly I was so turned on listening to the conversation.

I think that really got to me psychologically.
 
My ex wife fucked at least 4 younger men (that I know of) in their early 20’s . They all had bigger cocks and she’d let them know. I’m about 4 1/2 inches erect. I overheard her talking to one of her boy toys thinking I wasn’t around and she glorified his cock and how much bigger he was compared to me. She mentioned how when he would fuck her he would make her moan and scream in a way I didn’t and she couldn’t wait to fuck him. Surprisingly I was so turned on listening to the conversation.

I think that really got to me psychologically.
I can SO relate to you!! My own micro penis is slightly over 3 inches, FULLY ERECT!! I'm unable to sexually satisfy a woman PIV, so I must stimulate her orally. I'd love to watch my wife fucking other men, or even better, getting throat fucked by them.
 
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I can SO relate to you!! My own micro penis is slightly over 3 inches, FULLY ERECT!! I'm unable to sexually satisfy a woman PIV, so I must stimulate her orally. I'd love to watch my wife fucking other men, or getting throat fucked by them.
With my ex wife I did it in secret. I knew I was her cuck and didn’t do nothing. With this specific boy toy she’d fuck him at his place. She had a work boy toy. I knew that when her location pinged her in the parking lot across from work late at night she was in either ones back seat. She once fucked me in the driver seat of her car and that took me buy surprise too.
I had access to her phone with out her knowing. I remember seeing the videos and photos she would send them of herself. The lingerie I bought her that she never wore for me she wore it for one of them.

Now with my current wife I’m open about it. I let her have her boy toys here and there
 
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I’ve always been small when soft. When I was younger, my cock would get much, much larger when hard, 7.5x6, sometimes a little bigger. But I was always self conscious of it’s flaccid state. I got many comments on the amazing size differences. Then at 45 or so, ED began and quickly got worse. Now in my 50s, the best I can manage is about 4.5 semi hard inches, and maybe 3” around, even with yellow or blue meds. My balls have really shrunk too. Urologist says my cock is good. Prob doesn’t believe how big I used to get.

I’m still self conscious about it’s flaccid size. I mean, it looks like a micro penis. Good thing I’ve found happiness as a bottom. But I miss those rock hard thick hard ons that I couldn’t even get my thumb and middle finger around.

The only prob with being that thick, with a fat head to go with it, was that there wen’t many asses I could get into, and fewer who tolerated it. Pussy was mostly a good fit, some were uncomfortably small, but no pussy is near as exciting as drilling a willing ass, or fucking a hungry mouth. Now I’m the willing one, and too self conscious to even try and vers activity. The last guy who sucked me off, asked If I came after I shot my load. That was a confidence bust.

Now, I know my cock is small. I mean really small. Don’t know why it atrophied so much. These days I love looking down and seeing a big dick in my ass, while my little limp dick does nothing. I’ve gladly accepted my role as a limp dick cocksucker who takes it up the ass.


I miss those younger days as well when I could get an erection that could drive nails. Youth is wasted on the young.

Showing your doctor your erection sales like an interesting start to a story
 
Jesus Christ I am in tune with the psychology of sex, but this thread... This thread makes me sad. I wish all of you were larger.
 
Jesus Christ I am in tune with the psychology of sex, but this thread... This thread makes me sad. I wish all of you were larger.
Some of the large enjoy their more diminutively endowed friends. A little clitty gushing thru their panties over you can be very validating and a hoot
 
i don't agree with most on this. there is no small dick. there are small dicks and bigger dicks. and the reverse scale, there is bigger dicks and there are smaller dicks. while i admit it's a kinky act to take a male dick in and so far you feel the head of his dick in your throat. my best friend was about avg. when he was here, by the time we got around to playing he had ED real bad. he weighed i'd say 300+ and carried it well he was then maybe 4 in total and being limp i could pull it with my mou. i couldn't dt but i could stretch him out limp then quickly swalloww his head with him stretched. he'd always comment women don't know how good a limp dick is do they? he said that was the best dicksuck he'd ever gotten and he did always cum after about 2 min. and although he had ED bad he'd still bust a big nut. we always used condomes and he'd fill one with a big load as i sucked.
 
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