late-30s Bi BBW interested in exploring an online D/s dynamic

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i’m completely new to this lifestyle but i’ve been wanting to experience this dynamic for a while. married and my husband has not shown much interest though i’ve tried introducing the idea. i’m very ambitious and successful irl and my husband defers to me too much in leading our relationship/ life. i want to turn my brain off and be free to explore my more submissive side for sexual satisfaction. if you might be interested in teaching me the ropes ;) lmk
 
Welcome and congrats for taking the plunge! It’s not something that many will do - but you have opened a (figurative) door that I hope will lead to real awakening. There are many here who look to have the experience to show you the ropes - possibly binding you en route- so you can explore. Have a great time.
 
i’m completely new to this lifestyle but i’ve been wanting to experience this dynamic for a while. married and my husband has not shown much interest though i’ve tried introducing the idea. i’m very ambitious and successful irl and my husband defers to me too much in leading our relationship/ life. i want to turn my brain off and be free to explore my more submissive side for sexual satisfaction. if you might be interested in teaching me the ropes ;) lmk
Domdaddy bull here with plenty of experience using/training dirty girls like you
 
i’m completely new to this lifestyle but i’ve been wanting to experience this dynamic for a while. married and my husband has not shown much interest though i’ve tried introducing the idea. i’m very ambitious and successful irl and my husband defers to me too much in leading our relationship/ life. i want to turn my brain off and be free to explore my more submissive side for sexual satisfaction. if you might be interested in teaching me the ropes ;) lmk
I think this is very normal to have these feelings and good on you for looking for a way to experience it. I'm much like you, successful and leader at work and home. And eventually you just want a space to completely let go not be in charge follow. An outlet, relief, so that you can continue to have to be in charge in other aspects. Wishing you the best on your journey.
 
i’m completely new to this lifestyle but i’ve been wanting to experience this dynamic for a while. married and my husband has not shown much interest though i’ve tried introducing the idea. i’m very ambitious and successful irl and my husband defers to me too much in leading our relationship/ life. i want to turn my brain off and be free to explore my more submissive side for sexual satisfaction. if you might be interested in teaching me the ropes ;) lmk
Welcome to Lit.
You probably have a good chance of finding someone, but take your time to get to know them and what they are willing to offer and commit to the relationship.
I completely get how having a successful and stressful career can lead you to a place where you just want to be able to turn off and let someone take control.
 
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