Talking to dates?

[Peachyprincess0]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

 

[kreemi_pi]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Buy him the fucking machine

 

[tugger1987]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Sounds like fun, where do i sign up

 

[Primalex]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

 

[Utmale48]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Just tell him.

 

[Utmale48]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Show him some videos. Men love videos. And tell him “this could be us”.

 

[13Fantasies]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Be easier if its in your basement. Then if hes not into it, you can stay home while he goes out

 

[xxxCellar_Doorxxx]

I second showing him some videos and saying that you want to try that. I guarantee it will work.

 

[IdahoExec]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

You don't. Ever. You look for someone who is already into the bdsm play you crave and date him instead. What you never want to do is trust yourself to a total newbie who has no idea what you want, why you want it, or how to do it safely and well.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Just tell him straight up. It’ll help if you already have the machine.

 

[Peachyprincess0]

You don't. Ever. You look for someone who is already into the bdsm play you crave and date him instead. What you never want to do is trust yourself to a total newbie who has no idea what you want, why you want it, or how to do it safely and well.

How do I find a man like that?

 

[Wildfly11]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Wait a couple of dates and then introduce it a bit at a time

 

[xxxCellar_Doorxxx]

How do I find a man like that?

*Raises hand*

 

[Peachyprincess0]

*Raises hand*

In the real world lol

 

[xxxCellar_Doorxxx]

In the real world lol

I'm in the real world! But I assume you mean close to you.

 

[LuxIgnis]

In the real world lol

The most important thing, no matter what, is trust.

I hope you find your perfect partner. You seem like a wonderful woman and you deserve it.

 

[OralAllOver]

I’m into bdsm in theory but I haven’t really tried it totally

How do I tell my next date that I’d rather be hooked up to a fucking machine in his basement than go to the movies?

Just like that!

You both don't waste time or feel manipulated

 

[Noor]

You don't. Ever. You look for someone who is already into the bdsm play you crave and date him instead. What you never want to do is trust yourself to a total newbie who has no idea what you want, why you want it, or how to do it safely and well.

This!

 

[Noor]

How do I find a man like that?

Check out a local munch?

 

[Liberia]

You don't. Ever. You look for someone who is already into the bdsm play you crave and date him instead. What you never want to do is trust yourself to a total newbie who has no idea what you want, why you want it, or how to do it safely and well.

I had good experiences in the past with exploring new things together, no basement and machine obviously, but light restraints, spanking etc. That can work.

 

[MasterDamien]

That's kind of how I feel when it comes to being a Master, looking for a slave. I hint at it before the date, and then, in a sense during the date I mention it. But lately its been hard because I don't want everyone and their mom knowing what I am into. So what would people advise on that?

 

[TheWorldBuilder]

I had good experiences in the past with exploring new things together, no basement and machine obviously, but light restraints, spanking etc. That can work.

I've never found the extreme form to be arousing, preferring the symbolism of control and coercion to the actual force.

 

[Liberia]

I've never found the extreme form to be arousing, preferring the symbolism of control and coercion to the actual force.

Depends. Role-playing certain things could be fun.

 

[TheWorldBuilder]

A safe, secure environment but one where you know you have no control. Rôle playing can be added as desired.