Guys: arousal at 50 plus

The erections aren't quite as intense or numerous as 30 years ago (back in those days, the proverbial stiff breeze), but I still do all right in that department. It does take me longer to orgasm though, either during sex or masturbation.

As for what arouses me these days, it's definitely a wider variety. Back then, one or two pictures of nude women would do the trick, now many sorts of photos, stories (including going both ways), videos of all sorts of different sex acts & fetishes, or even just memories of past experiences. My libido definitely casts a much wider net these days.
 
I’m just creating the hill towards 50.

My interest is still there, but I was blindsided by bisexual curiosity about 5 years ago, and almost 50 the urges are just as strong, if not stronger.

Don’t get me wrong, I was watching the news this morning and one of my favourite newscast anchors, Quinn Ohler, was on there and my cock immediately got hard. I still get aroused with women, but when it comes to instant ball draining I’m watching more bi and gay porn than ever.

It depends on the situation I guess. No problems getting hard and aroused, just depends on the day and the person!
 
Constantly aroused. I usually don't get hard unless I'm trying to, though.

I went through a period where I was having a lot of trouble getting hard. But then I realized that I was maturating all the time... lots of weak-erection orgasms. One a day, basically. I've cut that almost completely out. Now that I'm down to one or two orgasms a month, I get very hard when in action.
 
Mine is as strong as ever. Love fantasizing about my wife and I with a very sexy man. Also find the older ladies very intriguing. I do have recurring excitement with the thought of entertaining younger women who like older
Please serious honest responses is preferred.

What are you like at 50 plus?

Losing your hardons?
What arouses you these days?
Etc.
Mine is as strong as ever. Love fantasizing about my wife and I with a very sexy man. Also find the older ladies very intriguing. I do have recurring excitement with the thought of entertaining younger women who like older, fit somewhat furry men to explore sexuality with. Mmm. Also love fantasizing about exploring man on man sex thoroughly. Cheers 🥂
 
Mine is as strong as ever. Love fantasizing about my wife and I with a very sexy man. Also find the older ladies very intriguing. I do have recurring excitement with the thought of entertaining younger women who like older

Mine is as strong as ever. Love fantasizing about my wife and I with a very sexy man. Also find the older ladies very intriguing. I do have recurring excitement with the thought of entertaining younger women who like older, fit somewhat furry men to explore sexuality with. Mmm. Also love fantasizing about exploring man on man sex thoroughly. Cheers 🥂
Whoops. Sorry for the double.
 
I'm 70 and still get hard enough to satisfy my wife, although it's not like it was when I was younger. It takes longer to orgasm. I am turned on by my wife's stories of her sex with other men, and porn has little effect on me.
 
I'm 64 and have no trouble getting or maintaining an erection. I haven't noticed any decrease in libido. My wife was really hit hard by health issues and has become practically celibate. I still bet an occasional hand job but I masturbate just about every day.
 
I’m just creating the hill towards 50.

My interest is still there, but I was blindsided by bisexual curiosity about 5 years ago, and almost 50 the urges are just as strong, if not stronger.

Don’t get me wrong, I was watching the news this morning and one of my favourite newscast anchors, Quinn Ohler, was on there and my cock immediately got hard. I still get aroused with women, but when it comes to instant ball draining I’m watching more bi and gay porn than ever.

It depends on the situation I guess. No problems getting hard and aroused, just depends on the day and the person!
Sounds interesting
 
My husband is 48, so a couple of years off 50.

Honestly, he’s almost more horny now than when we met. He’s still as hard as when he was younger. There is more time between ‘rounds’ and if we’re being honest one round is pretty normal now .
His ejaculation is not as hard, meaning it doesn’t spurt as far if he is finishing outside, but if we take our time and build up it’s still possible.
But the sex is probably the best we’ve ever had.
 
71 as of today, hard to believe. Yes it shrinks, oh fucking great. Doesn't get as hard sometimes I cheat and take a half of a pill. Need more mental foreplay than I used to but still fuck 3 or 4 times a week. Is it as exciting..no I'm sure she feels the same but it does take the edge off
 
My husband is 48, so a couple of years off 50.

Honestly, he’s almost more horny now than when we met. He’s still as hard as when he was younger. There is more time between ‘rounds’ and if we’re being honest one round is pretty normal now .
His ejaculation is not as hard, meaning it doesn’t spurt as far if he is finishing outside, but if we take our time and build up it’s still possible.
But the sex is probably the best we’ve ever had.
Taking your time to warm up the machinery definitely helps!

Good for the both you.
 
71 as of today, hard to believe. Yes it shrinks, oh fucking great. Doesn't get as hard sometimes I cheat and take a half of a pill. Need more mental foreplay than I used to but still fuck 3 or 4 times a week. Is it as exciting..no I'm sure she feels the same but it does take the edge off
3 or 4 times a week!

Amen brother!
 
I’m just creating the hill towards 50.

My interest is still there, but I was blindsided by bisexual curiosity about 5 years ago, and almost 50 the urges are just as strong, if not stronger.

Don’t get me wrong, I was watching the news this morning and one of my favourite newscast anchors, Quinn Ohler, was on there and my cock immediately got hard. I still get aroused with women, but when it comes to instant ball draining I’m watching more bi and gay porn than ever.

It depends on the situation I guess. No problems getting hard and aroused, just depends on the day and the person!
I like your post. I can identify with it. I feel the same.
 
Two months shy of 52..
No problems getting hard...whether its my wife being naked or the various beautiful women of Lit sharing themselves..hardness is not the problem
Libido has seemingly increased over the years..perhaps due to the various stimulus from being on here..

Takes a bit longer to cum, which isn't a bad thing...but too much stroking off can lead to not cumming when being with the wife. Issue here is her Libido is almost non existent so I turn to manual relief.
Like above the spurts have lost their distance while in my younger days pulling out and shooting could hit her chin and tits..now spurt a puddle around the belly...
 
Please serious honest responses is preferred.

What are you like at 50 plus?

Losing your hardons?
What arouses you these days?
Etc.

I'm 67 (never married, fuck that!) and still get as hard as a rock. The past couple of years I've been into really female looking trannies with nice cut cocks. They get me SO HARD! I still love regular females of course but that's been my fetish the past few years.

My problem is my refractory periods are now 3-4 days long. A bit frustrating but I deal with it.
 
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