Would people be surprised you are here?

[bmrtex7]

People would be very surprised. Disappointed probly.

 

[Naughtylo]

God yes.
A ldy in public and a whore in the bedroom.

 

[hugh_jarce69]

God yes.
A ldy in public and a whore in the bedroom.

I often think there are clues if you look hard enough. Some people are quiet cos they’re in their fantasy in their head. Others have a glint in their eye which gives them away. Usually it’s only those who have similar fantasies who can pick up on it

 

[PartyMart]

God yes.
A ldy in public and a whore in the bedroom.

Isn't that the best kind?

 

[ICantLeafYou]

Maybe my landlady, but none of my friends would bat an eye.

I don't hide that I've been writing smut for ~18 years or that I used to be a hooker, I carry no shame for either of those facts.

 

[MrMannson]

Nobody knows I’m here, especially not my semi conservative wife.

My bisexual urges and sexual adventures live here, away from my personal life. I live in a city where things spread like wildfire, and if my bisexual wants were to get out, my high profile job would be destroyed.

I live here and it’s nice, although sometimes I wish I could act on it more. Maybe one day, who knows.

This is an escape place I like very much….

 

[LeSabreur]

Most people would be surprised, I think. With my close friends I have never discussed sex at all, so they have no knowledge of that aspect of my life. This in itself is odd, as sexuality is an enormous part of who I am.

At work I am well known and well respected, a father figure, mentor, teacher to many. As most of my coworkers are female and I enjoy a privilege of emotional closeness with many of them, I have always been scrupulous about not taking advantage of my position of trust, so I am perhaps seen as extremely upright and proper by most. My wife works for the same employer and is extremely well respected and well liked, too. Her closest friends know that she has a wild side...women talk about things that most guys don't...but in general she is seen as perhaps a bit matronly by coworkers. Accordingly, they would be astounded to learn about some of our sexual experiences.

I have had the experience on a handful of occasions of revealing my true sexual self to coworkers, but only when we found ourselves accidentally in the same chat room, the same club, house party, etc. In those cases we were both certainly surprised but, each being in the same position of accidentally disclosing this private aspect of our lives, very quickly normalized it. Probably the one time where someone was the most surprised was when I was chatting online (anonymously) with a woman about swinging...she and her husband were interested in the lifestyle. When she sent me nude photos I saw that it was someone that I actually knew quite well at work, and felt awkward. I told her of this discovery and her response was to request that we even things up, since I now had her at a disadvantage. Although embarrassed by it, I reciprocated and sent her my own nudes. While it quickly became a bonding experience that raised our friendship to a new level, she was very surprised at first!

The closer I get to retirement, the less I care about maintaining my image. In fact, a part of me is thrilled by the possibility of discovery. I love being naughty!

 

[Rodlicker57]

I think that others would be shocked that I am here. They would also be surprised at the things that I say that I have done and all my deep desires and urges.
However it is why I am here. Lit allows me to shout out my experiences and my sexual fantasies. And yet it allows me to keep my thoughts and actions hidden.

 

[lucy_anne21]

Absolutely. Shocked would not be a strong enough word to describe it. A few know, because I write their stories for them, but most have no idea, and think I’m a bit of an ice maiden.

Lucy.

 

[Dada88]

Yes, they will be very surprised except a friend of mine who knows haha

We are very happy to have you here though

 

[PixiePrincess1]

Very. Everyone believes I'm such an innocent good girl.

 

[PierceDe]

People know I like writing & reading, and I'm often making spicy comments serious, flirty, and joking. So they wouldn't be surprised.

They would be surprised to read my comments and stories though!

 

[Shygentleman2]

Absolutely. Shocked would not be a strong enough word to describe it. A few know, because I write their stories for them, but most have no idea, and think I’m a bit of an ice maiden.

Lucy.

I think quite a few of us have "alter-egos" in comparison to our personas in real life. It's a safe place to explore.

 

[LittleGreene]

I think almost everyone I know would be shocked at the stories I’ve posted and the things my husband and I have discussed and experienced (one friend knows a little bout that but definitely not everything)

 

[Foxed]

They don’t know, but wouldn’t be surprised. I play down the pics I’ve posted

 

[HornyKatie1979]

I think most would be surprised, yes...

 

[ernesthornimann]

Most would be surprised. One definitely knows – she's the one who encouraged me to write some stories.!

 

[Japansurfer]

I don’t think anyone I know would expect this.
Senior leader with large company, family orientated (until separation) and now whilst outgoing very career focused. Think all my friends now think I am sexually dead!

 

[Foxed]

I think most would be surprised, yes...

My wife’s friends know more than mine do

 

[IAmHerEmma]

My partner doesn't know I visit the site. Or what my pen name is. She would never really understand this side of me. I have been with her for almost 2 years now. If its just for visitng the site my partner might understand but who my fantasy identity is, what I write about, the kinks and some of the fetishes. Its going to ruin the good thing that I have going on.

From my social circle if they knew I read erotica I dont think they would mind. If I told them I wrote it I'm not sure the reaction I'll get. And my alter-ego well I am pretty sure I'd have no more friends left. Even the female friends I have.

 

[Unapologetic_Bull]

Short answer yes. The question I get most often from wel-meaning friends is, 'Why aren't you married?' And then offers to set me up with someone.

Having a wife or gf would make the current relationships I enjoy with my two primary couples untenable.

I look like a hot geek according to most women I know. Not like a guy who is sexually involved with married women whose husbands don't want their wives to lack sexually.

 

[jassybb]

We are very happy to have you here though

haha thankyou

 

[jonnoback]

I think quite a few of us have "alter-egos" in comparison to our personas in real life. It's a safe place to explore.

So very true. IRL risqué jokes but that’s about it. Shame really…

 

[Mike130]

I think that others would be shocked that I am here. They would also be surprised at the things that I say that I have done and all my deep desires and urges.
However it is why I am here. Lit allows me to shout out my experiences and my sexual fantasies. And yet it allows me to keep my thoughts and actions hidden.

Exactly the same for me.

 

[Nightbloom50]

I think some would be surprised and some wouldn't.