For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...

[jimmyhedo]

Oh my gosh, I still remember my first time when D held M”s cock in her hand and invited me to join her in sucking it…I was so excited, and hooked, and I never hesitated again

I would love a woman or women to watch me suck cock ( and bottom too)! Just not my wife ;-)

 

[Mrman69]

I have a different perspective on this topic. After 20+ years of no sex at home, or anywhere else for that matter, I posted an ad and was contacted by a very fine man who offered to introduce me to some more-than-gentle bondage (a long-felt fantasy) and his talented mouth. He was so patient with me, tried many positions and worked my cock for hours. I could not maintain a steady erection, and although it felt quite nice I never felt any sexual thrills. He really tried, and I apologized sheepishly. He gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek and said "You gave it a fair shot." A good man he was.

Since then I've been so frustrated with my home situation that I've tried again, twice. Same non-reaction. It just doesn't work. Ironically, I spent a miserable set of high school years as a big, burly, sensitive, non-athletic kid who was routinely called a "faggot" by the typical assholes (including by dad). Turns out I'm the most non-homoerotic man I know.

ED with men or in general?

 

[Luvtoexplore]

ED with men or in general?

Just men. And I'm not certain I'd call it ED. There was just no thrill involved in any of it.

 

[liqueur]

Oh my gosh, I still remember my first time when D held M”s cock in her hand and invited me to join her in sucking it…I was so excited, and hooked, and I never hesitated again

A dream come true!

 

[liqueur]

you're not a straight man if you have either sucked or want to suck another man's cock. You're either gay or bi-sexual...

So, in your world, it's not a black and white matter? Instead, there's black, white, and one very specific shade of grey (defined by you)?

Real life isn't like that. Sexuality covers a broad spectrum, filled with every shade, and every color, of the rainbow.

Why do many men who have experienced MM sex call themselves straight? As has been discussed ad infinitum elsewhere,

• Some call themselves straight because there is still stigma in our society— and possibly, quite terrible stigma in their families— attached to the word “gay.”
• Some call themselves straight because they feel no romantic attraction to people of their own gender, and for many the labels “gay” and “straight” are focused on romantic attraction. Watch any mainstream film or show with gay or lesbian characters in it: it's always about the romance, never the sex. Fact follows fiction— or at least, people's beliefs about it do.
• And some, my friend, have been seduced or raped at a young age— or just tried it and didn't like it. In your world, even these men are perpetually “bisexual,” because of the one experience?

So, why does it matter? ..Why get hung up on definitions and labels? Because our partners deserve to know the truth about our sexuality.

Agreed, about the need for communication. But a person's sexually is far better communicated through their experience than through a few pat labels.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Imho, you're not a straight man if you have either sucked or want to suck another man's cock. You're either gay or bi-sexual, and there's nothing wrong with that - both are NORMAL and healthy sexual orientations.

I suck and get fucked by my trans gf and even though I consider her a woman, she has a man's equipment. So I don't see anything wrong with being labeled gay or bi.

 

[liqueur]

I don't see anything wrong with being labeled gay or bi.

I don't either. What I take issue with is when someone else wants to decide what the labels should be.

 

[LMWM321]

And some, my friend, have been seduced or raped at a young age— or just tried it and didn't like it. In your world, even these men are perpetually “bisexual,” because of the one experience?

Good Lord… I would never suggest somebody’s sexual preference is revealed by sex they were forced to engage in. No one should conflate victims with somebody who engaged in sex willingly. And yes… It is possible somebody experimented with gay sex, didn’t like it and considers themselves to be straight… Fine…But if they have an ongoing desire to have sex with men… Well… I think most people, including sexual therapists would say that person is bisexual. And again, there is nothing wrong with bisexuality.

And I don’t particularly care about labels so much as I think it’s very important people are honest with their partners about their sexuality. A woman contemplating making a lifelong commitment to a man she believes to be heterosexual has a right to know that he harbors a desire to have sex with men. And the fact that he doesn’t want a relationship with men, but just sex may be of little consequences to her, or maybe it makes all the difference. In any case, I think most people would want to know this about their partner. Male, female, straight or otherwise.... We are all owed honesty by our partner.

 

[LMWM321]

I suck and get fucked by my trans gf and even though I consider her a woman, she has a man's equipment. So I don't see anything wrong with being labeled gay or bi.

I don’t have an issue with that either… And i think if she calls herself a woman and her outward appearance is that of a woman…… Then she’s a woman.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I don’t have an issue with that either… And i think if she calls herself a woman and her outward appearance is that of a woman…… Then she’s a woman.

Yeah, she is a woman lol

 

[liqueur]

Yeah, she is a woman lol

Ooh, wow! She's a keeper!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Ooh, wow! She's a keeper!

Yeah, I have kept her for six years!

 

[Elliott62]

Totally with you on that. Be who you are, do what you like, and don't bother summarizing it into a label that will be misinterpreted anyway.

I am right there with you guys. Fuck the labels..be your authentic self...I have a very close group of gay friends. Some of best friends.. they're fun to be with..everyone is allowed to be themselves.. I've flirted with some and developed crushes on a few..but that was it because they had spouses and so do I... married for 19 years to a woman..love her to death...but as I've gotten older, I've become more open minded..all the guys are aware of it..they don't try to label..and neither do I
I say this I've been also thinking and fantasizing about sucking another man's cock. I've seen female pornstars..either in video or pictures suck these beautiful hard cocks . And many times my immediate thought is ...oh that looks so good...I wish/ want that beautiful cock head in my mouth..my lips wrapped around just the tip.. tongue licking the underside of the glans.. I'd even be happy to 69 with a guy...i would definitely swallow because I have tasted my own cum off my finger tips, and I'd love to experience w hg at it's like to have another man shoot his sperm into my mouth .I want to what all cocksuckers are experiencing
.do I have a desire to have a cock in my ass...no..I find nothing wrong with it for others.. it's just not something I want...I know who I am.. I'm me..I won't label myself because I don't care..if others feel they have to label me.. that's their problem ..not mine .or folks who sneer at others with the quip..."and you think" or "call yourself straight"...Who the hell are you to judge or label... where's the compassion and acceptance..I hope to experience this desire soon..I will come back and report it.

 

[liqueur]

Yeah, I have kept her for six years!

Good for you. More power to you (both)!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Good for you. More power to you (both)!

Thanks. We both know that we got a good thing (her - to fuck, me - to be fucked). Aside from that we always have a lot of fun together chatting and joking around.

 

[LMWM321]

Yeah, she is a woman lol

She is indeed beautiful. ..And your relationship raises an interesting, and perhaps relevant, question. How much of our sexual orientation is related to a partners genitals vs. their outward masculinity or femininity and vibe??

In my view, sexual orientation isn't necessarily about what type of genitals your partner has. Indeed, I was attracted to females LONG before I knew their genitals were different. Starting in 2nd grade, I had crushes on several girls at school. And I recall falling in love with my 2nd grade teacher. There was something about the softer features of her face, her smell, her long ponytail, her round butt and curvy body and her small, pretty feet. And then one day, while helping me with a math problem, she leaned over and I peered inside her blouse and saw cleavage. Holly crap! ..I was totally enthralled with her, and had a huge crush on her despite having NO idea that her genitals were different than mine. It wasn't until a few years later when a friend showed me a Penthouse magazine that I discovered how different women were "down there." ..And at the time, I wasn't very impressed - to me, a vagina looked like a severe crotch injury

IMHO, sexual orientation isn't so much about whether you prefer dicks or vagina's. it's more about whether you're sexually drawn to masculinity, femininity or both. If my very feminine, curvy, big-breasted, beautiful wife became the first woman on earth to inexplicably spring a penis overnight... I would still be incredibly attracted to her.... and would incorporate her new dick into our sex life as though it was always there. ..But that isn't because I have a latent sexual interest in dicks, it's because I am powerfully drawn to my wife's overall vibe and beauty - which is still very feminine, her new dick notwithstanding.

And I feel the same about Trans women. ..If I were single and developed a crush on a woman who fits my type - ie., curvy, busty, very feminine features - who said, "just so you know, I have a penis.." ..I would still be attracted to her.

 

[BillyWalrus]

But she'd have be very very feminine for me to have such an attraction.

You don't even have to see this person's face to know that she is very very feminine lol

 

[BillyWalrus]

She is indeed beautiful. ..And your relationship raises an interesting, and perhaps relevant, question. How much of our sexual orientation is related to a partners genitals vs. their outward masculine or feminine appearance and vibe??

In my view, sexual orientation isn't necessarily about what type of genitals your partner has. Indeed, I knew I was attracted to women LONG before I knew their genitals were different. Starting in 2nd grade, I had several crushes on girls at school. And I recall falling in love with my 2nd grade teacher. There was something about her face, her smell, her long ponytail, her round butt and curvy body and her small, pretty feet. And then one day, while helping me with a math problem, she leaned over and I peered inside her shirt and saw cleavage. Holly crap! ..I was totally enthralled with her. ..I had a huge crush on her despite having NO idea that she had different genitals than me. It wasn't until a few years later when a friend showed me a dirty magazine that I discovered how different women were "down there." ..And at the time, I wasn't very impressed - a vagina looked like a severe crotch injury

IMHO, sexual orientation isn't so much about whether someone has a dick or vagina, it's more about whether you're sexually drawn to masculinity or femininity or both. If my very feminine, curvy, big-breasted wife became the first woman on earth to inexplicably spring a penis overnight... I would still be incredibly attracted to her.... and would incorporate her new dick into our sex life as though it was always there.

And I feel the same about Trans women. ..If I were single and developed a crush on a woman who said, "just so you know, I have a penis.." I'd be okay with it and would still be attracted to her. ...But she'd have be very very feminine for me to have such an attraction.

Your post raises a lot of questions. Just what is femininity and why is it such a powerful attraction to those of us on the other side of the equation? You're right. It isn't even about genitals. It's like gravity. Or magnetism.

It's really kind of mysterious when you think about it. Why are you drawn to this feminine person? It's beyond your control but you know it's there - this force that you cannot resist. It's not like you even want to fuck. You just want to look at them. Be next to them. Feel their presence.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I am right there with you guys. Fuck the labels..be your authentic self...I have a very close group of gay friends. Some of best friends.. they're fun to be with..everyone is allowed to be themselves.. I've flirted with some and developed crushes on a few..but that was it because they had spouses and so do I... married for 19 years to a woman..love her to death...but as I've gotten older, I've become more open minded..all the guys are aware of it..they don't try to label..and neither do I
I say this I've been also thinking and fantasizing about sucking another man's cock. I've seen female pornstars..either in video or pictures suck these beautiful hard cocks . And many times my immediate thought is ...oh that looks so good...I wish/ want that beautiful cock head in my mouth..my lips wrapped around just the tip.. tongue licking the underside of the glans.. I'd even be happy to 69 with a guy...i would definitely swallow because I have tasted my own cum off my finger tips, and I'd love to experience w hg at it's like to have another man shoot his sperm into my mouth .I want to what all cocksuckers are experiencing
.do I have a desire to have a cock in my ass...no..I find nothing wrong with it for others.. it's just not something I want...I know who I am.. I'm me..I won't label myself because I don't care..if others feel they have to label me.. that's their problem ..not mine .or folks who sneer at others with the quip..."and you think" or "call yourself straight"...Who the hell are you to judge or label... where's the compassion and acceptance..I hope to experience this desire soon..I will come back and report it.

Perfect.

 

[write_or_wrong]

She is indeed beautiful. ..And your relationship raises an interesting, and perhaps relevant, question. How much of our sexual orientation is related to a partners genitals vs. their outward masculinity or femininity and vibe??

In my view, sexual orientation isn't necessarily about what type of genitals your partner has. Indeed, I was attracted to females LONG before I knew their genitals were different. Starting in 2nd grade, I had crushes on several girls at school. And I recall falling in love with my 2nd grade teacher. There was something about her face, her smell, her long ponytail, her round butt and curvy body and her small, pretty feet. And then one day, while helping me with a math problem, she leaned over and I peered inside her shirt and saw cleavage. Holly crap! ..I was totally enthralled with her. ..I had a huge crush on her despite having NO idea that she had different genitals than me. It wasn't until a few years later when a friend showed me a dirty magazine that I discovered how different women were "down there." ..And at the time, I wasn't very impressed - to me, a vagina looked like a severe crotch injury

IMHO, sexual orientation isn't so much about whether you prefer dicks or vagina's. it's more about whether you're sexually drawn to masculinity or femininity or both. If my very feminine, curvy, big-breasted, beautiful wife became the first woman on earth to inexplicably spring a penis overnight... I would still be incredibly attracted to her.... and would incorporate her new dick into our sex life as though it was always there. ..But that isn't because I have a latent interest in "Dick", it's because my wife's overall vibe and beauty suits my preferences.

And I feel the same about Trans women. ..If I were single and developed a crush on a woman who fits my type - ie., curvy, busty, very feminine features - who said, "just so you know, I have a penis.." ..I'd be okay with it and would still be attracted to her.

Also perfect.

 

[Elliott62]

I don't either. What I take issue with is when someone else wants to decide what the labels should be.

YESSS. Exactly..you want/need to label yourself..be my guest...but don't dare try to tell me who or what I am... that's for ME to decide..or not!!

 

[Elliott62]

Perfect.

Thank you

 

[Elliott62]

Yeah, I have kept her for six years!

Goddamn Billy walrus
.God bless your soul...a beauty like her..
I tell you this..if I saw her naked..I would drop to my knees instantly..and without question or hesitation...I would suck her cock until she blew her load down my throat..and then I would drop to all on all fours and let her pound my ass..I don't care what the equipment looks like .if you love someone... you'll do anything to keep them and please them!!

 

[Elliott62]

She is indeed beautiful. ..And your relationship raises an interesting, and perhaps relevant, question. How much of our sexual orientation is related to a partners genitals vs. their outward masculinity or femininity and vibe??

In my view, sexual orientation isn't necessarily about what type of genitals your partner has. Indeed, I was attracted to females LONG before I knew their genitals were different. Starting in 2nd grade, I had crushes on several girls at school. And I recall falling in love with my 2nd grade teacher. There was something about her face, her smell, her long ponytail, her round butt and curvy body and her small, pretty feet. And then one day, while helping me with a math problem, she leaned over and I peered inside her shirt and saw cleavage. Holly crap! ..I was totally enthralled with her. ..I had a huge crush on her despite having NO idea that she had different genitals than me. It wasn't until a few years later when a friend showed me a dirty magazine that I discovered how different women were "down there." ..And at the time, I wasn't very impressed - to me, a vagina looked like a severe crotch injury

IMHO, sexual orientation isn't so much about whether you prefer dicks or vagina's. it's more about whether you're sexually drawn to masculinity or femininity or both. If my very feminine, curvy, big-breasted, beautiful wife became the first woman on earth to inexplicably spring a penis overnight... I would still be incredibly attracted to her.... and would incorporate her new dick into our sex life as though it was always there. ..But that isn't because I have a latent interest in "Dick", it's because my wife's overall vibe and beauty suits my preferences.

And I feel the same about Trans women. ..If I were single and developed a crush on a woman who fits my type - ie., curvy, busty, very feminine features - who said, "just so you know, I have a penis.." ..I'd be okay with it and would still be attracted to her.

I am right there by your side brother..I feel like you just picked my brain.. I've seen many trans women porn stars..drop dead gorgeous..with a penis..I noted this to Billy Walrus..when you find someone you love ..the equipment doesn't matter..you do whatever you can to be with that person..I fell for my Mrs for who she is ( a BBW by the way) and whY she said at 2 darkest point in my life..and if she had said by the way..who cares...I would have dropped to my knees and sucked her dick as easily as I ate her pussy... because I loved her and needed her!!!

 

[BillyWalrus]

Goddamn Billy walrus
.God bless your soul...a beauty like her..
I tell you this..if I saw her naked..I would drop to my knees instantly..and without question or hesitation...I would suck her cock until she blew her load down my throat..and then I would drop to all on all fours and let her pound my ass..I don't care what the equipment looks like .if you love someone... you'll do anything to keep them and please them!!

Well what you described is exactly what I do lol. It keeps her happy.