Wife seduction

[Sarmad_bi]

Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over past few months. initiall I took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed she plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet crossing and uncrossing alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
Now I have thoughts of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.

Update 8th of October:
Last night we were making love. while sucking on her and she holding my cock, she told me how hard it was.
I told her HE is very hard because HE wants you ( referring to my cock)
then I asked her, do you want HIM inside you... she moaned and said Yes I want HIM deep...
I looked to her but her eyes were close.
for me, it felt like she was thinking of someone and wants him inside her... i got so hard.

Update 9th October:
After all the discussion here and on chat, I decided to bring some Roleplay to our bedroom.
Last night, while we were making love, she was riding my hard ck, I was holding her ass and I told her:" oh baby I wish i had more hands to play with your clit and nipples at the same time".
she smiles and nod.
Then immediately I told her:" maybe we need to bring someone to help with that ."
She moaned so loud and increased her bounce up and down on top of me.

any further advice appreciated
I will keep in touch

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over oast few months. initiall i took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed ahe plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
now I have fantacies of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.DM me

Introduce her to me…

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Introduce her to me…

I honestly just want to know how to proceed! how to know what is in her head? is she willing or not?

 

[jenpage]

I don't think there's any way to know what's in her head except to ask her after telling her what you've observed. Without any judgement.

 

[paulboulder]

Playing with hair is a classic sign of attraction.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Playing with hair is a classic sign of attraction.

Thats what i have read recently.
but how do I know if it is just attraction or she is willing to proceed further.

 

[paulboulder]

As Jenpage said above, just ask. "I've noticed that......are you curious about....?"

 

[Sarmad_bi]

I don't think there's any way to know what's in her head except to ask her after telling her what you've observed. Without any judgement.

I thought about that, but I was worried she denies anything and then try to hide and supress her behaviour in front of me.
Now she is doing that in my present thinking I am not aware of her looks.

 

[jenpage]

Try not to overthink this.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

it is bugging me
cant stop thinking of that
and it is huge turn on for me

 

[Luvloosepussy]

Ask her and tell her she can me honest with you because you have something to tell her.

 

[TravisAW]

Are you prepared for the answer whatever it might be? Even something as devastatingly brutal as "I'm not attracted to you anymore"? Whatever the answer is, it sounds like the two of you need to talk sooner rather than later.

 

[CumInMyWifemmf]

mine did the same thing and when i asked her, she confessed she wants to be fucked by other men and have me take care of her afterwards

 

[Sarmad_bi]

Are you prepared for the answer whatever it might be? Even something as devastatingly brutal as "I'm not attracted to you anymore"? Whatever the answer is, it sounds like the two of you need to talk sooner rather than later.

you are right.
I wanted to open the topic but not sure how exactly

 

[Sarmad_bi]

mine did the same thing and when i asked her, she confessed she wants to be fucked by other men and have me take care of her afterwards

I wish i have the courage to be that direct.

 

[Holisticman85]

Hi all,
I noticed my wife (42 yo) checks out some guys over oast few months. initiall i took it as a normal habit. but then I noticed ahe plays with her hair and sometimes move her legs and feet alot while looking .
I am not sure what is in her head.
now I have fantacies of her being seduced and had pleasure. please I need realistic advice.DM me

I don't think what you described is enough to know with high certainty what she might be thinking. Sure, it's possible she could be thinking about how attractive another man might be, maybe not.

I think it would be quite a jump to ask or approach her about it unless you get more of a regular patter, noticing its certain type of men she reacts this way to, lingering eyes, distracted losing focus if you are talking to her when you think she is noticing a man.

I'd be much more inclined to have her out where you can see her reactions more. If you think you know her type, trying to find places and opportunities where you get a better chance to observe.

If you are really wanting her to eventually do something with another man. I'd probably encourage opportunities without you being present so she feels less guarded. Circumstances where she can either be hit on, or where she actually has to engage in conversations with men. Maybe that's booking her a massage with a good looking male masseuse if that's something she would be comfortable with, some type of exercise classes, a hobby she has, girls night, etc.

Then if you notice her more indicators, perhaps she would be less guarded having a conversation about it. Then things would be up front with both you knowing, acknowledging and exploring it without being secretive,

If you are truly wanting her to explore without you, I suppose it could develop from things listed above, though probably not likely to happen quickly. You could possibly try to find someone local that would be interested in trying to flirt with her and finding out how she responds.

I'm no pro, but those are things that come to mind.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

I don't think what you described is enough to know with high certainty what she might be thinking. Sure, it's possible she could be thinking about how attractive another man might be, maybe not.

I think it would be quite a jump to ask or approach her about it unless you get more of a regular patter, noticing its certain type of men she reacts this way to, lingering eyes, distracted losing focus if you are talking to her when you think she is noticing a man.

I'd be much more inclined to have her out where you can see her reactions more. If you think you know her type, trying to find places and opportunities where you get a better chance to observe.

If you are really wanting her to eventually do something with another man. I'd probably encourage opportunities without you being present so she feels less guarded. Circumstances where she can either be hit on, or where she actually has to engage in conversations with men. Maybe that's booking her a massage with a good looking male masseuse if that's something she would be comfortable with, some type of exercise classes, a hobby she has, girls night, etc.

Then if you notice her more indicators, perhaps she would be less guarded having a conversation about it. Then things would be up front with both you knowing, acknowledging and exploring it without being secretive,

If you are truly wanting her to explore without you, I suppose it could develop from things listed above, though probably not likely to happen quickly. You could possibly try to find someone local that would be interested in trying to flirt with her and finding out how she responds.

I'm no pro, but those are things that come to mind.

Thank you very much for your reply.
I will try to reply to each point.
I noticed she stare more towards specific type of guys ( well built, athletic, and sporty) especially if they wear tattoos.

and yes I noticed she get comletely lost about whatever we are talking about when she stare ( happened twice before)
once we were in holiday and a guy flirted with her while I was far watching . he was a bit touchy and ahe was happy but did not show any sign of sexual hit
I think I like the idea of taking her out more where there is a chance to be chatted to or even dance.
Thank you again.

 

[Tallcajun]

Next time you notice and are in a situation to discuss, simply say “Penny for your thoughts? Ok…a nickle. (Pause) I notice you figit a bit and play with your hair when you look a certain men.” See where it goes

 

[MamaBitte]

it is bugging me
cant stop thinking of that
and it is huge turn on for me

I definitely wouldn't ask her directly, because she probably won't give you an honest answer. First and foremost, you should ask yourself what you want. Are you just turned on by the thought? Or do you really want her to make love to another guy.
If it's just the thought, then just enjoy it as it is. And be a little careful so nothing happens...
But if you really want her to do it, then you should discreetly support her. Create opportunities, maybe leave her alone at the crucial moment... whatever. As the saying goes: Opportunity makes love.
https://64.media.tumblr.com/837a73c.../eb15a6465f10115ec5b13ed63e7c15523bfbf0d6.gif
I wish you the best of luck! For many, many years, I've wanted nothing more than for my wife to make real love to someone else.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

I definitely wouldn't ask her directly, because she probably won't give you an honest answer. First and foremost, you should ask yourself what you want. Are you just turned on by the thought? Or do you really want her to make love to another guy.
If it's just the thought, then just enjoy it as it is. And be a little careful so nothing happens...
But if you really want her to do it, then you should discreetly support her. Create opportunities, maybe leave her alone at the crucial moment... whatever. As the saying goes: Opportunity makes love.
https://64.media.tumblr.com/837a73c.../eb15a6465f10115ec5b13ed63e7c15523bfbf0d6.gif
I wish you the best of luck! For many, many years, I've wanted nothing more than for my wife to make real love to someone else.

thank you very much
at this stage i am not sure if she is willing or not.
yes the thought turns me on a lot, but i want her to be enjoying it as well.
once I am sure about her feeling, I am certain I will be more eager for her to get all the pleasure .. and it will be my pleasure too for real.
yes i will try to take her out more so better opportunity to see the real world
i appreciate your good advice

 

[Bryan_C]

The next time you notice it you could open with something like "think he's cute?" -- in a playful, very non-accusatory tone. But as others have said, the only way to know is going to be to talk to her. If you can't or won't do that then just let it go.

 

[Sarmad_bi]

The next time you notice it you could open with something like "think he's cute?" -- in a playful, very non-accusatory tone. But as others have said, the only way to know is going to be to talk to her. If you can't or won't do that then just let it go.

i think in the right moment I ll have the courage

 

[MamaBitte]

thank you very much
at this stage i am not sure if she is willing or not.
yes the thought turns me on a lot, but i want her to be enjoying it as well.
once I am sure about her feeling, I am certain I will be more eager for her to get all the pleasure .. and it will be my pleasure too for real.
yes i will try to take her out more so better opportunity to see the real world
i appreciate your good advice

I hope it works out for you! And lots of fun on the way there.
https://s1.dmcdn.net/v/Jmbny1d5zaIOPs76d/x720

 

[Sarmad_bi]

I hope it works out for you! And lots of fun on the way there.
https://s1.dmcdn.net/v/Jmbny1d5zaIOPs76d/x720

Thank you

 

[Vitriolhack]

mine did the same thing and when i asked her, she confessed she wants to be fucked by other men and have me take care of her afterwards

Wow, , this sounds like it must have been a hell of an exciting conversation!