For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...

I'd like it to be a case of 'give this guy the best bj he's ever had and swallow all the cumload, and next he'll screw your wife bareback while you watch'
 
I have a different perspective on this topic. After 20+ years of no sex at home, or anywhere else for that matter, I posted an ad and was contacted by a very fine man who offered to introduce me to some more-than-gentle bondage (a long-felt fantasy) and his talented mouth. He was so patient with me, tried many positions and worked my cock for hours. I could not maintain a steady erection, and although it felt quite nice I never felt any sexual thrills. He really tried, and I apologized sheepishly. He gave me a hug and a peck on the cheek and said "You gave it a fair shot." A good man he was.

Since then I've been so frustrated with my home situation that I've tried again, twice. Same non-reaction. It just doesn't work. Ironically, I spent a miserable set of high school years as a big, burly, sensitive, non-athletic kid who was routinely called a "faggot" by the typical assholes (including by dad). Turns out I'm the most non-homoerotic man I know.
Sorry you aren't having any successes - so far. But at least, like your ID says, you are exploring. Perhaps there are other variations you could try? Maybe a transwoman who, on the surface, could appeal to the libido you have experienced so far, but also have the cock you want to suck?
 
I have a different perspective on this topic. After 20+ years of no sex at home, or anywhere else for that matter, I posted an ad ... I could not maintain a steady erection, and although it felt quite nice I never felt any sexual thrills. .... Turns out I'm the most non-homoerotic man I know.
I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. As I understand it, the very fact that you place the ad implies that you do have a homoerotic side. But being tormented and called “faggot” at that age can create a very powerful block. I know from experience. I hope you find your way past this.
I spent a miserable set of high school years as a big, burly, sensitive, non-athletic kid who was routinely called a "faggot" by the typical assholes (including by dad).
In this culture, “sensitive male” = “faggot”. Simple as that. This also, I know.
 
Sorry you aren't having any successes - so far. But at least, like your ID says, you are exploring. Perhaps there are other variations you could try? Maybe a transwoman who, on the surface, could appeal to the libido you have experienced so far, but also have the cock you want to suck?
In response to the response…a CD or TG is an absolutely great option. We can look and act femme enough to keep you focused😉 It also works on our side…we can be assume the female role (and I only mean that in how many men view women…softer, sexier, more desirable) in the encounter, without being gay, a faggot, a sissy, a gurl, etc. We can be an aggressive slut, or lay back and let him explore? But, my end game is always the same…I want the opportunity to suck his cock💋😈
 
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The only regret I had after sucking my first cock was waiting for so long to give it a try-I wish I had known how hot it felt to have a thick throbbing cock between my lips
Exactly. I regret waiting so long, for something that feels so natural ... a hard cock in my mouth.
 
I did it as part of a dare. Was supposed to just take a photo but turned into more. Wife shocked I put in my mouth, doesn’t know it went on a little longer…
Was it she who dared you? I can't wait you hear what her next dare is.
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
Why have you become gun shy?
 
I always loved looking at cock...then around 50 I was tired of being 'curious'..and finally did the deed...a few times ;-) including bottoming a bunch of times. Then I hit a few year lull and now I'm totally gun-shy to actually meet someone. I've met some men on-line and then at the last minute I literally nearly panicked. Love to just jerk one...and be safe from fluids...but after a few minutes of jerking one...the urge to put my mouth on it is overwhelming...
I am like you... I will jerk off with other guys but I have no desire to suck
 
I suspected as much. The odds of getting HIV are much less for oral sex than anal sex but the risk is still there.
You can catch many other things from sucking a man’s dick that you definitely wouldn’t want to take home to your wife. I have even heard stories of a guy getting VD from having his dick sucked.
 
You can catch many other things from sucking a man’s dick that you definitely wouldn’t want to take home to your wife. I have even heard stories of a guy getting VD from having his dick sucked.
That has got to be very rare but a possibility. Better safe than sorry!
 

For straight men who have sucked a cock or want to...​


Imho, you're not a straight man if you have either sucked or want to suck another man's cock. You're either gay or bi-sexual, and there's nothing wrong with that - both are NORMAL and healthy sexual orientations.

So, why does it matter? ..Why get hung up on definitions and labels? Because our partners deserve to know the truth about our sexuality.

If you're in a serious relationship with a woman and you're contemplating marriage, your bi-sexuality may matter a great deal to her . ..She doesn't have the right to shame you for it but she does have the right to factor it into her decision to marry you. Likewise, she should be honest with you about HER sexual orientation.

People need to be honest with themselves and their partners about their sexuality. It's that simple.
 
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