Sharing Intimate Pics Safely

[Psych9791]

I would love to share some pics but worried. What is safest way to do it? X

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I would love to share some pics but worried. What is safest way to do it? X

It’s ALWAYS risky.

 

[EMPTYSTAR]

If you post up on an image sharing site, do it using an account that you log in to. This will allow you to pull the image down when you need to.

This is only from the other person seeing it, depending on the sites TOS, it will be in their ownership to use those images perceptually for their owm usecase, so its a gamble lol~

Imgbb for one has a very dubious TOS so avoid that one lol

 

[EMPTYSTAR]

I would be good to know how they all compare. I suspect all of the image hosting services are a bit vague on privacy and data protection. Maybe there are differences? Some better than others?

postimg.cc is slightly better as they "claim" that its only on their servers until you have them up and deleted when you delete it off your account

How much you trust that, is upto your competence and discretion

The only way I'd trust would be self hosting my own cloud storage and sharing pics through an encrypted channel lol~
even that would take a lot of convincing so lolol~

you have to chose between "Are you horny and desperate enough to not care about where your intimate pictures end up" and "Only for this person eyes and I'm willing to put effort to make that happen" lol

 

[barefootgirl69]

• Never show your face
• Never show identifying marks, ie tattoos
• Never show a background
• Use a watermark because people WILL steal it and put it on another website

 

[Britva415]

Don't post a picture straight from your camera or phone. Delete metadata from the image file first, because the metadata automatically included by the phone or camera can include any number of personal details:

The GPS location where the picture was taken (potentially your home),
potentially your device name ("Marcie Jackson's Canon D700"),
potentially your username on the system ("billybogan1994"),

and other exploitable personal data.

 

[Britva415]

If you post up on an image sharing site, do it using an account that you log in to. This will allow you to pull the image down when you need to.

You can't pull it back from people who already scraped it (deliberately downloaded a copy) from the hosting site before you deleted it, though.

Much, much better to only post images which can't be traced back to you in the first place.

No faces, no metadata, no identifiable bedrooms or living rooms, no identifiable tattoos, etc.

 

[Britva415]

you have to chose between "Are you horny and desperate enough to not care about where your intimate pictures end up" and "Only for this person eyes and I'm willing to put effort to make that happen" lol

There is no way to control that second choice, though. Once the person has access to it, there is no amount of effort you can make to ensure they haven't kept a copy and won't re-transmit it.

 

[barefootgirl69]

No faces, no metadata, no identifiable bedrooms or living rooms, no identifiable tattoos, etc.

I have seen challenges on other social media sites where they try to locate where a picture was taken by one small glimpse of something, so be careful about what they can see if there's a window behind you!

It's a crazy world.

 

[Melodi24]

Pay close attention to little details in your pictures. I was sitting in my car and took a really close-up pic of my eyeball and didn't realize you could make out the street sign in the reflection. I showed one of my sons and he pointed out an almost complete license plate number.

 

[EMPTYSTAR]

There is no way to control that second choice, though. Once the person has access to it, there is no amount of effort you can make to ensure they haven't kept a copy.

Well yes, that's true lol~

 

[Psych9791]

I think there are so many factors! I’m assuming these are pics of yourself? If they’re going on the forums? Or privately?

Firstly, I’m not a fan of sending unsolicited images… so you know, randomly sending an unsolicited ‘intimate’ pic of yourself on a PM to someone. I don’t know anyone worth knowing that doesn’t see this as a red flag. Some people want them… and they clearly say they do. In which case, consider it! Other people’s mileage may vary, but that’s how I see it and hear about it from the most beautiful, worth knowing people.

For god’s sake hide your face. Face recognition on AI is going to get much better, and it’s possible to put a face up on a web search and get social media accounts result back. You will get found by anyone who decides to find you. Be very careful! No faces.

What if someone you trust has their files compromised/stolen and your pics are there? Consideration. Is the person you send the image to going to look at it and enjoy it in a moment, or will they save it or screen grab it? Set boundaries before you send and make sure the other person knows and respects them. My naughty friend and I use Telegram and send each other private pictures with a time limit on them (1 minute) and then they’re gone. I would NEVER screengrab, don’t even know if it would work if In tried.

Trust is a massive thing. You absolutely must trust the person you send your stuff to. You may *think* they’re trustworthy, you know… because you’ve known them for a week now and your messaging is so intimate, and they’re so lovely and sweet. Just… be careful. I have had people trust me and send me beautiful intimate things. I see it as one of the greatest privileges a woman could give me. Really, I cherish those people for showing that level of trust in me and knowing that the trust is mutual. I hold them tight and tell them how much they mean to me. I can’t stress this enough really!

You won’t be able to send an intimate pic of yourself without any risk. It’s just out there… and once you send it, it’s not within your control anymore. You hand it over. There are image share sites that advertise that no personal stuff is stored with the picture. You make a call on that. I wouldn’t use them to send anything with my face on it.

Storage. I store anything like this in a separate folder, with its own password in my personal images folders. If anything happens to me, no one will see them, family, etc. You may not want them to know this part of your life. And if something happens and you’re gone, it won’t be a part of their memory of you.

Think again. Just as you’re about to send an ultra naughty pic, stop before you hit the send button. If your impulse will allow, sleep on it and decide to send it tomorrow instead. It’s possible to hit send and then have an instant regret in the reality of what you just did. Don’t do that to yourself. Adult common sense should prevail over our more child-like impulsiveness.

If you post up on an image sharing site, do it using an account that you log in to. This will allow you to pull the image down when you need to.

That’s all the things I could think of. Hope it helps. Good luck, you naughty thing! If you do send them, I hope you get some nice feedback from your cheeky pictures and maybe some nice ones back too.

thank your so much, all of this makes so much sense. Sense that shouldn't be overruled in moments of over excitement. I'll take time to ensure I do the things suggested and or developed good relationships! Thanks again x

 

[Psych9791]

That totally frames how easy it could be to get it wrong wow

Pay close attention to little details in your pictures. I was sitting in my car and took a really close-up pic of my eyeball and didn't realize you could make out the street sign in the reflection. I showed one of my sons and he pointed out an almost complete license plate number.

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Unsee.cc has some good tools such as watermarking, auto delete etc

I would love to share some pics but worried. What is safest way to do it? X

 

[overdrive243]

Had a scare recently. Shared a little too much general info about me with someone I thought was local. Had many positive interactions with others for a while and was too trusting. Sent a few naughty photos and felt something was up with their responses. Turns out they were scammers and found my identity. Blocked them and nothing came of it but please be careful sharing anything.

 

[SadieGirl06]

Ready to share

 

[Japansurfer]

Had a scare recently. Shared a little too much general info about me with someone I thought was local. Had many positive interactions with others for a while and was too trusting. Sent a few naughty photos and felt something was up with their responses. Turns out they were scammers and found my identity. Blocked them and nothing came of it but please be careful sharing anything.

Take care friend

 

[Darty20]

That totally frames how easy it could be to get it wrong wow

It sure does , I use Google chat & send pics there

 

[Michael_Keaton]

Had a scare recently. Shared a little too much general info about me with someone I thought was local. Had many positive interactions with others for a while and was too trusting. Sent a few naughty photos and felt something was up with their responses. Turns out they were scammers and found my identity. Blocked them and nothing came of it but please be careful sharing anything.

That is freakin' scary! I'm glad you escaped with your hide.