Why do women like anal sex?

I'm not convinced we can entirely control our sphincter with the power of thought as we can with our breathing. If anything, we've mastered keeping it tightly closed to avoid embarrassing accidents. Sure, we can 'push out' to aid penetration, but it doesn't exactly fully open up.

I see the sphincter more as a muscle bound bouncer who's easily confused about which direction he's controlling. With a little lubrication and gentle persuasion, it lets down its guard and goes for a coffee break.

Just as a good chef can take tough sinewy meat and hard dried inedible beans and turn it into a sumptuous feast, a good lover can take that tight dry unyielding cheerio and turn it into a cream filled doughnut.
 
I'm not convinced we can entirely control our sphincter with the power of thought as we can with our breathing. If anything, we've mastered keeping it tightly closed to avoid embarrassing accidents. Sure, we can 'push out' to aid penetration, but it doesn't exactly fully open up
It's not supposed to open, like your mouth. That's not what anyone is talking about. Of course it's going to take an object to fully open it up.

We absolutely can (learn to) control whether it's clamping shut tightly though, and stop fighting against the object until it practically gets sucked in. "Pushing" doesn't even come close to the sphincter control that's possible.
 
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I like it because of the way the guy gets so sexually excited as he does it to me.
Interesting perspective. And I suspect you’re right in many cases

conversley, the thing I enjoy about it, or at least watching it, (as I’ve never actually done it) is when the woman is absolutely turned on by it.

My wife is Really down for anything, but that’s the one thing that’s a hard no. So I’ve never enjoyed it. Perhaps in one of our swinging adventures, I’ll find a woman who would enjoy me in her ass and my wife will enjoy watching me. (she would have to be pretty experienced, as I am a little bit bigger than most.)
 
I gather you are a bit submissive and like it a bit rough. As long as I have used plenty of lube and once he gets the head of his cock past the opening, I have no problem. In fact I think I can take a longer cock in my ass than I can in my pussy. Like you I do like that moment when He grabs my ass and thrust deep and I can feel that cock pumping cum into my intestines.
My wife really enjoys that as I do. She loves to go really deep with anal. I think the deepest we have gotten so far is her 21" tapered plug. She loves it. Although the deepest end is only about the size of the end of my pinky. I think the deepest with any girth is her 17" double dildo that is about 1 1/2" in diameter. She has taken that one all the way to the head on the other end. She wanted it all the way, but I was afraid she would have problems pushing it back out once all the way inside.
 
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My wife really enjoys that as I do. She loves to go really deep with anal. I think the deepest we have gotten so far is her 21" tapered plug. She loves it. Although the deepest end is only about the size of the end of my pinky. I think the deepest with any girth is her 17" double dildo that is about 1 1/2" in diameter. She has taken that one all the way to the head on the other end. She wanted it all the way, but I was afraid she would have problems pushing it back out once all the way inside.
Those are a lot bigger than I would care to try. I am not much into fake cocks. The real ones are so much nicer. Plus I really enjoy helping him get off and have him give me his sperm.
 
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