Your Xenophilia or Race Fetish

[PierceDe]

Hey,


I’m in the middle of writing a short story that centers largely on Asian fetish, and it’s had me reflecting a lot on the whole world of race fetish and xenophilia (love of the foreign; sometimes applied to sexuality).

It made me wonder about how readers and writers here think about it too. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their cultural background, nationality, skin color, or accent? Maybe you’ve had a thing for Asian women/men, French lovers, Black people, Latinos/Latinas, Celtic redheads, Muslims, or any other exoticized trait? Or maybe you're not White and you have a thing for White people? Maybe you're hooked on JAV, Blacks-on-blondes, foreigners-takes-the-woman erotic novels? Have you yourself ever been the subject of a such a fascination?

I invite you to really get into the nature of your xenophlilia or race fetish. Or oppositely, that you've had or have intimate relations with someone of another race or culture without it being about that really.

Thanks!

(please keep it respectful to people of various backgrounds, at least not intentionally insulting)

 

[MamaBitte]

For me it's black
I'm totally into black women ...
https://titis.org/xxx/uploads/posts...is-org-p-busty-black-women-nude-erotika-5.jpg
https://titis.org/pics/uploads/post...is-org-p-black-women-nude-pics-erotika-13.jpg
... and I love black porn ...
https://t3.ftcdn.net/jpg/04/12/62/58/360_F_412625842_rBXaBHwM0MoXKL9fDIneG4T3tYxiE44v.jpg
https://ic-vt-nss.xhcdn.com/a/MmI2Z...:1440),webp/021/910/574/v2/2560x1440.256.webp
One of my fantasies is to spend a night with a hot black couple (m/f).

 

[PierceDe]

For me it's black
I'm totally into black women ...
https://titis.org/xxx/uploads/posts...is-org-p-busty-black-women-nude-erotika-5.jpg
https://titis.org/pics/uploads/post...is-org-p-black-women-nude-pics-erotika-13.jpg
... and I love black porn ...
https://t3.ftcdn.net/jpg/04/12/62/58/360_F_412625842_rBXaBHwM0MoXKL9fDIneG4T3tYxiE44v.jpg
https://ic-vt-nss.xhcdn.com/a/MmI2Z...:1440),webp/021/910/574/v2/2560x1440.256.webp
One of my fantasies is to spend a night with a hot black couple (m/f).

Are you a White female? By your links you like them extra-dark too. How did this start and have you just fantasized or have you lived the dream yet?

 

[Cob083]

Im a white, anglo american guy what have you. I tend to find Latina women and Indian women extremely attractive. I love tan/brown skin, long dark hair and dark eyes, curves etc. Since I moved to another part of the country I have definitely found myself having more relations with Latina women.

Have I ever been a fetish ? Possibly you can call it that. I briefly went out with an Indian woman who was born here in the US however her parents were from India and more on the traditional side. She told me preffered to date white men over the men from her own group though it was against her parents wishes. They preffered her to settle down with a man from her own culture.

 

[PierceDe]

Im a white, anglo american guy what have you. I tend to find Latina women and Indian women extremely attractive. I love tan/brown skin, long dark hair and dark eyes, curves etc. Since I moved to another part of the country I have definitely found myself having more relations with Latina women.

Have I ever been a fetish ? Possibly you can call it that. I briefly went out with an Indian woman who was born here in the US however her parents were from India and more on the traditional side. She told me preffered to date white men over the men from her own group though it was against her parents wishes. They preffered her to settle down with a man from her own culture.

It's hotter when they have a race preference for you and their parents would disapprove if they knew... isn't it?

I have a buddy who went to a top-tier university filled with Indian students and had precisely the same experience, plus getting stares from Indian boys when out and about with her. A lot of Indian girls are going back to their families to marry Indian men without their families or their Indian husbands ever knowing what they got up to in the West.

 

[MamaBitte]

Are you a White female? By your links you like them extra-dark too. How did this start and have you just fantasized or have you lived the dream yet?

I'm a white male. (I often wish I were female ...)

 

[EboniMidnite]

Hey,


I’m in the middle of writing a short story that centers largely on Asian fetish, and it’s had me reflecting a lot on the whole world of race fetish and xenophilia (love of the foreign; sometimes applied to sexuality).

It made me wonder about how readers and writers here think about it too. Have you ever found yourself drawn to someone because of their cultural background, nationality, skin color, or accent? Maybe you’ve had a thing for Asian women/men, French lovers, Black people, Latinos/Latinas, Celtic redheads, Muslims, or any other exoticized trait? Or maybe you're not White and you have a thing for White people? Maybe you're hooked on JAV, Blacks-on-blondes, foreigners-takes-the-woman erotic novels? Have you yourself ever been the subject of a such a fascination?

I invite you to really get into the nature of your xenophlilia or race fetish. Or oppositely, that you've had or have intimate relations with someone of another race or culture without it being about that really.

Thanks!

(please keep it respectful to people of various backgrounds, at least not intentionally insulting)

I find that a lot of white guys are very, very attracted to black women, sometimes to the point of obsession. I guess I'm pretty open about race, and can be attracted to a wide range. But I do run into many white guys and some girls that are absolutely intoxicated with the idea of mixed race sex or even just companionship.

Some guys tell me it's as simple as the skin color (I'm pretty dark). Other guys believe black women are more sexual or more in tune with their bodies or move differently. Others are almost mystical about it, like one guy who's obsessed with eating my pussy because he believes black pussy juice gets him harder.

Based on my experiences with women, I think the individual differences are more significant than the racial

 

[EboniMidnite]

I should add, I'm not into race play usually, but sometimes dirty talk can get me going, and I've done it with a coupla guys pretty limited basis. Guys I know, and they know to follow my lead. It's more just mentioning color, like fuck my black pussy, gimme that white cock, that black pussy feels so good, etc

Also, white guys who are into black girls seem to be pretty aggressive about trying for bareback and talking about breeding and stuff like that.

 

[EboniMidnite]

Ok one more thing and I'll shut up. One guy i knew had a theory that it's a meta-Darwinian thing. Within a population, most men will seek women physically like them (he called thrm "Legacies"). But populations need an influx of genetic variety, so every viable population must have some "scouts" who are predisposed to breed with people who look very different.

Probably bogus. But interesting to consider.

 

[PierceDe]

Ok one more thing and I'll shut up. One guy i knew had a theory that it's a meta-Darwinian thing. Within a population, most men will seek women physically like them (he called thrm "Legacies"). But populations need an influx of genetic variety, so every viable population must have some "scouts" who are predisposed to breed with people who look very different.

Probably bogus. But interesting to consider.

I will be borrowing this bro-theory of legacies and scouts. Psuedoscience into psychosexual is gold.

 

[EboniMidnite]

I will be borrowing this bro-theory of legacies and scouts. Psuedoscience into psychosexual is gold.

Lol.

 

[Cob083]

It's hotter when they have a race preference for you and their parents would disapprove if they knew... isn't it?

I have a buddy who went to a top-tier university filled with Indian students and had precisely the same experience, plus getting stares from Indian boys when out and about with her. A lot of Indian girls are going back to their families to marry Indian men without their families or their Indian husbands ever knowing what they got up to in the West.

Oh yeah I think that it is more common than people think or maybe even care to admit. Race especially when it pertains to dating can be a pretty touchy subject.

I have found in my experience as a white man that it is very easy to attract non white women. It is especially the case if youre tall, well built and have a sense of humor.

 

[Thomas_Hardy]

I spent some time in Tokyo during the Shibuya golden days, where it was still a thing to be a gaijin white tall Westerner and I felt definitely objectified by a few Japanese women, early twenties, who had it about us (tall fit white guys) that we have these big cocks so they would go to incredible subterfuge to get a feel for 'it', seemingly by accident. Yep I was groped in Tokyo gentle reader. More than once. Alcohol always played a role, as did Karaoke for some reason.

Perhaps it was this what freed me, later in life, to fetishize racial features, from a sub perspective. In particular voluptuous Indian and athletic black women. I once was targeted, in a good way, by a voluptuous black woman and we ended up entangled for a while but hand on heart, that was just boy girl love at first sight kind of stuff and our skin colour or size of body parts played no role in it.

 

[PierceDe]

I realized I invited people to share without talking about the OP himself.

White male. I constantly use food analogies when discussing sexuality, so I'll use it here too. I love my home cuisine, White women, but not anymore than I've hungered for foreign menus. I've drooled for the 2nd gen Pashtun immigrant girl, the nightclub going Lebanese, the demure East Asian, the mom next door South Asian, the dark black and slender Nilotic, the hourglass Gran Colombiana, slutty pretty-faced French women, Irish accents, All American caramel-colored mulattas. Being a blue-eyed blond I've never seen the special attraction, seeing it in the mirror daily de-exoticizes anything, and instead I've idealized the dark-eyed, black-haired, women with starkly non-Caucasian facial metrics; epicanthal folds, everted lips, body types more common to Asians and Africans than Europeans, and of course the accents.

And then living abroad I had foreign women giving me the most cringeworthy and complimentary flirtations about my racial features, my accent in their language, my Western way of dressing (which I never noticed) and so on. I had one woman tell me in bed some off the wall stuff, about White men vs men of her country, that would have to qualify as race worship and would piss people off for me to repeat, I had to tell her to give me break because she went on and on. The fetishization goes both ways, hard.

There.

 

[EmmAgain]

I don’t think this would count as a fetish, but I def developed an appreciation for Indonesian girls during the time we spent in Java and Bali. Such beautiful slim bodies - and wow they knew how to turn up the heat.

A lot were married to expats and doing the whole hotwife thing, so I’m sure they weren’t exactly typical of your average local village girl.

Edit: some fun with locals https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME168DGZ

 

[Kolejdayz]

Jewish women

 

[PierceDe]

I don’t think this would count as a fetish, but I def developed an appreciation for Indonesian girls during the time we spent in Java and Bali. Such beautiful slim bodies - and wow they knew how to turn up the heat.

A lot were married to expats and doing the whole hotwife thing, so I’m sure they weren’t exactly typical of your average local village girl.

Edit: some fun with locals https://www.imagebam.com/view/ME168DGZ

You remind me of a former buddy who I convinced to come stay in Korea for a year, young White guy. He spent the first couple months with no luck but once he got how to meet locals he was off on a marathon of Asian women. When he got back to the US he spoke like he was having withdrawal symptoms.

 

[PierceDe]

Jewish women

What about them does it for you? How'd this start?

 

[Thomas_Hardy]

You remind me of a former buddy who I convinced to come stay in Korea for a year, young White guy. He spent the first couple months with no luck but once he got how to meet locals he was off on a marathon of Asian women. When he got back to the US he spoke like he was having withdrawal symptoms.

Precisrly my Shibuya experience, except that I imposed celibacy.

 

[Kolejdayz]

What about them does it for you? How'd this start?

Their enjoyment and lack of guilt about sex.

 

[PierceDe]

Their enjoyment and lack of guilt about sex.

Are you coming from a Catholic background yourself?

I've never been with a Jewish woman, but the few I've known were much more open about sexuality and their agency in it. A lot of guys can't handle it, but some can't get enough. Good for you!

 

[Kolejdayz]

Are you coming from a Catholic background yourself?

I've never been with a Jewish woman, but the few I've known were much more open about sexuality and their agency in it. A lot of guys can't handle it, but some can't get enough. Good for you!

I'm Jewish so I got used to it early on

 

[BillyWalrus]

Jewish women

I love Jewish women. I have been involved with several of them and married to a woman who was part Jewish.

 

[Kolejdayz]

What do you love about them?

 

[PierceDe]

I'm Jewish so I got used to it early on

Then you don't need me to tell you there's a lot of variety among Jews. I have a little thing for the Hasidic moms, there's a lot there to exoticize... more so than the secular Jewish women anyway. You got a type of Jewish woman that does it for you?