What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

As someone who has had a compliment or two (which makes me feel cringe to even say but... it's one of my few and rarely used talents.)

I think seeing it as a movie in your mind, focusing of details, not rushing to the actual sexy stuff, braiding emotion and description and effect together helps. My best sext sessions haven't been while I've been simultaneously masturbatating but, together, creating the fantasy we will cum to later. I also think chemistry makes good sexting - understanding style and matching energy. (ETA I have only found this with so so few people.) When it's good, it's SO good. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! Im sure you're doing great 😉

If it's going to be simultaneous, usually thats for audios or phone calls.
Great sexting requires a degree of intelligence (enough to put words and thoughts together for the sake of clarity), an ability to listen (which is often in short supply), empathy, and a mutuality of interests to satisfy a happy ending for both parties. 😉
 
As someone who has had a compliment or two (which makes me feel cringe to even say but... it's one of my few and rarely used talents.)

I think seeing it as a movie in your mind, focusing of details, not rushing to the actual sexy stuff, braiding emotion and description and effect together helps. My best sext sessions haven't been while I've been simultaneously masturbatating but, together, creating the fantasy we will cum to later. I also think chemistry makes good sexting - understanding style and matching energy. (ETA I have only found this with so so few people.) When it's good, it's SO good. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! Im sure you're doing great 😉

If it's going to be simultaneous, usually thats for audios or phone calls.
👍 Good advice, well said!
 
Great sexting requires a degree of intelligence (enough to put words and thoughts together for the sake of clarity), an ability to listen (which is often in short supply), empathy, and a mutuality of interests to satisfy a happy ending for both parties. 😉
I agree.
 
My fiancée and I recently started this new lifestyle where she’s seeing another guy. She keeps me in the loop about everything, and honestly, that part excites me. But lately I can’t help noticing a stronger bond forming between them, and it makes me feel a bit threatened… even though, weirdly, it also excites me more. I know it sounds unusual, but it’s been on my mind a lot and honestly it’s eating at me. Normally I’d talk this through with someone I trust, but right now I’m just feeling really lonely. If anyone’s open to chatting in DMs, I’d appreciate it.
 
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