What Are You Thinking? Continued 14

[MindYaBitness]

I am genuinely happy that they are getting some but I don’t want to know the details of it. That isn’t because of jealousy though. I am not a jealous person by nature. I don’t even want to hear details of my friends’ sex life. They can say they are getting sex, but don’t give me all of the ins and outs.

Then again, I am happy if anybody is getting sex. I haven’t had any in 12 years so I am pleased there are people out there still experiencing it

I agree, I'm happy when he gets some, though I wouldn't mind if he shared details, or didn't. That's up to his comfort level. I'm not jealous, but I also know my place. I can care, have genuine affection, but keep keenly in mind that we're not real life, we're online fun, an escape, a little pocket we carve out that makes the monotony of real life bearable. Caring for him also means hoping he has a fun & full sex life, even if I can't be a part of that.

 

[peekingone]

Will be a hot one at the stadium later.

Tell me about it. Still be will a great time.

 

[TwoTaTango]

I am thinking some concerts just never get old , After watching Bryan Adams Rock the Crowd at Rogers Last Night

 

[morelikeasong]

I’m wondering if anyone ever gets jealous when they hear that their online/text fwb is getting some hot kinky sex fairly regularly whilst you’re stuck with the same old same vanilla routine once every 3-4 months - if you’re lucky….

Or are you genuinely happy they’re getting some and enjoy hearing about it with 0 jealousy?
Does it depend on the person? The relationship? How much you feel for them vs it being a strictly platonic fwb situation?


There’s a lot going on in my noggin’ at the moment I need to shut it down lol

Genuinely happy for them. I want them to feel desired and fulfilled and all the good things in their IRL relationship.
Also jealous. Can’t help it.
Also reminded of how I haven’t had sex in so long .
It’s not a jealousy that I ruminate over or anything.

It doesn’t depend on the person. I mean… if it’s someone I just had an online quickie with once, then sure I’m not jealous. But if it’s someone I’m actually involved with online… yeah. It’s hard for me to say if that would change if I was also getting laid regularly. Maybe it would? But also maybe not.

 

[Justabaldguy70]

Genuinely happy for them. I want them to feel desired and fulfilled and all the good things in their IRL relationship.
Also jealous. Can’t help it.
Also reminded of how I haven’t had sex in so long .
It’s not a jealousy that I ruminate over or anything.

It doesn’t depend on the person. I mean… if it’s someone I just had an online quickie with once, then sure I’m not jealous. But if it’s someone I’m actually involved with online… yeah. It’s hard for me to say if that would change if I was also getting laid regularly. Maybe it would? But also maybe not.

Still my dream

 

[SimplyMsT]

I'm thinking ....

WAY out of my comfort zone but I did it any way.

 

[deft]

Now... or later?

 

[CuriousRick]

My timing sucks

 

[Cogan]

Also reminded of how I haven’t had sex in so long .

I'm thinking: I've seen your pics and is truly surprised about this!

 

[Xerxes82]

Now... or later?

Why not both?

I’m wondering if anyone ever gets jealous when they hear that their online/text fwb is getting some hot kinky sex fairly regularly whilst you’re stuck with the same old same vanilla routine once every 3-4 months - if you’re lucky….

Or are you genuinely happy they’re getting some and enjoy hearing about it with 0 jealousy?
Does it depend on the person? The relationship? How much you feel for them vs it being a strictly platonic fwb situation?

I've not done the online fwb thing in a looong time. But the last woman I chatted with regularly where things would get spicy from time to time had a real life live-in boyfriend.

I don't personally feel jealousy in that situation. Of course she's fucking her man. It might be different if there was the potential to be in person lovers. But when that isn't remotely a possibility, I was happy for her. I would HOPE her sex life is awesome.

But I'm also the guy who would love to hear details. The more, the better. I found her so sexy that thinking about her having sex at all was a turn on.

 

[deft]

Why not both?

Sometimes the waiting is... good.

 

[LaisDeMarieDeFrance]

I’m wondering if anyone ever gets jealous when they hear that their online/text fwb is getting some hot kinky sex fairly regularly whilst you’re stuck with the same old same vanilla routine once every 3-4 months - if you’re lucky….

Or are you genuinely happy they’re getting some and enjoy hearing about it with 0 jealousy?
Does it depend on the person? The relationship? How much you feel for them vs it being a strictly platonic fwb situation?


There’s a lot going on in my noggin’ at the moment I need to shut it down lol

I rarely get sex, so I am genuinely happy for them. Don't want details though, that's not my place to know about their relationship. And it might make me jealous.

If it's me getting lucky for the third time this year, I would want them to be happy for me. Definitely wouldn't want them to ask for details. Also don't want to feel like telling them would make them depressed or sad.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

High-pressure shower jets are truly a gift, especially after a workout.

Pretty good pre workout too.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I am genuinely happy that they are getting some but I don’t want to know the details of it. That isn’t because of jealousy though. I am not a jealous person by nature. I don’t even want to hear details of my friends’ sex life. They can say they are getting sex, but don’t give me all of the ins and outs.

Then again, I am happy if anybody is getting sex. I haven’t had any in 12 years so I am pleased there are people out there still experiencing it

Same about being happy for them but I do love hearing the details.

12 yrs huh? I sadly have that beat which is probably why I love hearing the details and live vicariously through them.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I should be seeing productive, but it's rather lay in a towel reading smut all morning

I love seeing production.
Being productive however? Meh

 

[CuriousRick]

Now or later?

 

[Sunlover102]

Hoping a friend is doing OK atm.
Sending her lots of good vibes.

And thinking is to be kept to a bare minimum today for tomorrow it is back into last weeks shit storm.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I agree, I'm happy when he gets some, though I wouldn't mind if he shared details, or didn't. That's up to his comfort level. I'm not jealous, but I also know my place. I can care, have genuine affection, but keep keenly in mind that we're not real life, we're online fun, an escape, a little pocket we carve out that makes the monotony of real life bearable. Caring for him also means hoping he has a fun & full sex life, even if I can't be a part of that.

This is basically my view. I don’t lose sight of what this is. The fantasy is wonderful but I want their reality to be even better.

I don’t tend to share details. Nor do I want any. Not because I’m jealous, but because intimacy is intimate for a reason. It’s not for anyone else besides the participants in my mind.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Oh, well, now it’s going to rain - I guess I can’t do the outdoor stuff now!

 

[Apisto42]

I should be seeing productive, but it's rather lay in a towel reading smut all morning

I support this statement.

 

[Apisto42]

Oh, well, now it’s going to rain - I guess I can’t do the outdoor stuff now!

If it’s warm enough doing the outdoors stuffing is great when it rains.

 

[cheekygirl75]

If it’s warm enough doing the outdoors stuffing is great when it rains.

Shush, you!

 

[morelikeasong]

My dopamine shopping is going off the rails.

I don’t need this.. right?

 

[GoNorth2Camp]

Ummmmm, I don’t know, it is coming on winter. You could waterproof it.

 

[Susurration]

I really should be asleep.