Husband opening up — seeking men to connect with

Representingmyhotwife

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Hi everyone,

You can call me A, and my wife is B. I’m 41, she’s 30. Yes, there’s an age gap, but it doesn’t matter to us — we’re deeply in love and committed to each other.

Over time, we realized our trust is strong enough that we could be open about exploring. For me, that means I want to experience being with men. For her, she’s more comfortable keeping to men as well, just in a straight way.

So here I am, sharing this openly: I’m looking to connect with men who are also interested in men and open to exploring. If you’re in a similar situation — curious, open, maybe even engaged or married yourself — I’d really like to hear from you.
 
Hi everyone,

You can call me A, and my wife is B. I’m 41, she’s 30. Yes, there’s an age gap, but it doesn’t matter to us — we’re deeply in love and committed to each other.

Over time, we realized our trust is strong enough that we could be open about exploring. For me, that means I want to experience being with men. For her, she’s more comfortable keeping to men as well, just in a straight way.

So here I am, sharing this openly: I’m looking to connect with men who are also interested in men and open to exploring. If you’re in a similar situation — curious, open, maybe even engaged or married yourself — I’d really like to hear from you.
I’d love to explore more with men. My wife isn’t opposed but certainly isn’t proactive. Would love to include her.
 
This really resonates with me. I’m 30 and my fiancée is 24 — we’re engaged and deeply in love, but recently she’s been the one bringing up opening our relationship. She wants to experience being with another man while still keeping what we have together. At first, I felt confused and didn’t know how to take it, but she made me realize there can be more than just our usual path. Through our talks, she’s helped me start exploring new sides of myself, and I’ve begun to wonder if I might actually be comfortable making out with men too. It’s a strange mix of nervousness and curiosity, and I’m still trying to figure out what it means for me. Seeing others share their journeys here makes it feel less overwhelming. I’m also open to any kind of conversation with people in a similar situation — even better if you’re a guy into guys.
 
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