Online Dom/sub dynamics

[GayGuyForFun]

As a gay guy who likes primarily to be Dom in dynamics online, it can be hard to make it work purely digitally. Any tips? Subs, what have been the best online Dom/sub dynamics you've enjoyed and why did they work?

 

[TrinityTrap]

You must love yourself above all others and express that love through your attitude in responding to others---You always come first as you are the most worthy of love and adoration.

 

[OralAllOver]

Hi GayG, glad u real, u seem very cool

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[OralAllOver]

55 bi white male in NoCal, bttm sub
pm and phone great

 

[summerose]

Such a good question! As a sub the best things for me have been where the expectations from the Dom/me have been clear and consistent over a long period of time. Building up a sense of ownership over me that plays on my reactions to authority. Nothing turns me on like my owner wanting something from me *squirms*

 

[KindredFlame]

Online sub/submissive. Why not real world stories?

 

[AZeroticist]

It is difficult to build that relationship between sub and domme, if it comes across as impersonal or just 'lazy'.

As mentioned above, be clear, give defined expectations and be intentional in how you treat your sub. As you build the relationship, consider phone calls and set specific times where you can both be comfortable.

 

[KindredFlame]

It is difficult to build that relationship between sub and domme, if it comes across as impersonal or just 'lazy'.

As mentioned above, be clear, give defined expectations and be intentional in how you treat your sub. As you build the relationship, consider phone calls and set specific times where you can both be comfortable.

Yes you are right. This is a contract between the persons involved. You do not have to go as far as my wife and I did and having a full blow slave contract drawn up by a lawyer, with help from a shrink, who is a personal friend of my wife’s also, so she knew the lifestyle we were going for. But a simple declaration of do’s and don’ts musts and must nots expectations of both parties. It is about trust and if you get it right in the first place it will last for ever.

 

[KindredFlame]

My wife is the dominant one in our relationship. I love her have control over me always and forever. However since we have been married the defined roles have become a little blurred and or relationship has evened out somewhat. But I do believe that there is always a dominant and a submissive partner in any and all relationships, regardless of how subtle it is, or am I wrong and an equal arrangement can be made?

 

[AZeroticist]

As your relationship within the lifestyle grows, it is possible for a sub to want to switch things up.
My wife is very submissive, but a few years ago we went out to an adult movie theater. She was naked under a jacket as usual. As we entered she just asked if , for once, she could lie back and just enjoy being touched. She asked nicely and accepted any punishment for speaking out of turn.

Respecting her wishes, I saw her experience a new dimension and she began to want new boundaries. She began to pique an interest in being more dominant with her female friends and this in turn broadened our lives

I hope it answers your query a little