How much do you enjoy giving and receiving?

Out of an abundance of curiosity, does anyone want to score the following in terms of enjoyability both for receiving (R) and giving (G):

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

Please add anything else to the list too!

Here's what my list looks like so far as a female:

1. R 10/10, G unknown
2. G 10/10
3. G 6/10
4. R 9/10, G unknown
5. R 8/10
6. Sadly unknown
7. Unknown but a dildo feels great!
8. Unknown
9. R 9/10, G 8/10

Sex is a veritable mixed bag of pleasure but I'm wondering if some clear preferences will emerge. So, what about you?
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1. Eating her out/being eaten out / R: 10, G: unknown but eager to try
2. Blowjob / R: na, G: 10
3. Handjob / R: na, G: 8
4. Fingering / R: 9, G: unknown but eager to try
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina / R: 10, G: unknown
6. Rimming: R: unknown, G: unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass: R: 10 if the mood is there, G: unknown
8. Fisting: R: unknown, G: unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: R: 7, G: unknown but eager to try
 
1. Eating her out.
G = 10, especially if I can include a vibrator up her ass.​
2. Blowjob.
G/R = 10, though much depends on your partner and hers/his enthusiasm.​
3. Handjob.
G/R = 10, though once again, much depends on who you're with.​
4. Fingering.
G = 10. Memories of when I first got my driver's license.​
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina.
G = 10. It's so primal.​
6. Rimming.
G = 10, but it's gotta be clean.​
R = N/A. I've always wanted to be rimmed, but I've never been so lucky.​
7. Penetrative: penis in ass.
G with a woman = 10. She can be so tight.​
G with a man = 1. An ass is just an ass, I know. But fucking another man's ass doesn't work for me.​
R = N/A. I really want it, but I guess I'm a bit of a coward.​
8. Fisting.
G/R = N/A. I imagine I would do it on request with a pussy, but anally scares me.​
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples.
G with a woman = 10. I love to chew.​
G with a man = 0, though I'm sure I could be persuaded otherwise.​
R = 0. It just doesn't work for me.​
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out 10/10 Love eating pussy
2. Blowjob 10/10 Love giving head
3. Handjob 7/10
4. Fingering 7/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina 10/10
6. Rimming 0/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass 7/10 Had a few bad experiences
8. Fisting 0/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples 8/10
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out.
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
MY Answers as a Male
1. G 10/10 especially for foreplay. R No.
2. R 10/10 if she's able to/knows what's she's doing?
G No.
3. R 10/10 G No
4. G 10/10 if it helps with foreplay and getting to intercourse! R. No
5. G 10/10 R. No
6. G No R No
7. G 3/10 most likely it's a no from 99% females! R.No
8. One lady only ever tried for like 4 fingers and pushed for all and thumb and hell no. R. NO!
9. R 10/10 G 10/10
 
I'm curious as to #2 when you say if she knows what she's doing. Give us women some tips...and shafts, lol!

So here's what I like to try (if I can): licking the tip and taking just the glans in the mouth. I love the hole and just working the very tip of my tongue in it as if I'm trying to get inside. Licking along the shaft, especially the underside and sometimes there are particular spots there that need extra attention from the pointed hard tip of the tongue. Cupping, massaging the balls, maybe sucking on them. Licking the lips to make them nice and wet so they glide easily down the shaft hopefully all the way to the base so the head of the cock hits the back of the throat and stops your breath for a little while you gently move your head side to side slightly in a "no" head shake. Backing off. Teasing a bit in, back off, a bit more, back off, a bit more, and so on down to the base and repeating. After this process, taking the mouth all the way off leaving a trail of spittle and getting a deep breath. Massaging and gripping the thighs or the ass cheeks depending on positioning. Also, moving the tongue side to side while taking the cock inside your mouth. Sometimes with enough spit on the shaft you can cover your teeth with your lips and lightly apply more pressure than usual this way by using your jaw instead of just the lip muscles to squeeze while gliding along the shaft. This makes you look like you are a toothless weirdo, lol, but who cares. Sometimes sticking the tongue out over the bottom teeth and tongue while your mouth is down pretty far on the cock. This lets the tip of the tongue brush where the ballsack meets the base of the cock. It really helps to practice brushing the back of your tongue to lessen the gag reflex to be able to do this better.

Thoughts?
 
I'm curious as to #2 when you say if she knows what she's doing. Give us women some tips...and shafts, lol!

So here's what I like to try (if I can): licking the tip and taking just the glans in the mouth. I love the hole and just working the very tip of my tongue in it as if I'm trying to get inside. Licking along the shaft, especially the underside and sometimes there are particular spots there that need extra attention from the pointed hard tip of the tongue. Cupping, massaging the balls, maybe sucking on them. Licking the lips to make them nice and wet so they glide easily down the shaft hopefully all the way to the base so the head of the cock hits the back of the throat and stops your breath for a little while you gently move your head side to side slightly in a "no" head shake. Backing off. Teasing a bit in, back off, a bit more, back off, a bit more, and so on down to the base and repeating. After this process, taking the mouth all the way off leaving a trail of spittle and getting a deep breath. Massaging and gripping the thighs or the ass cheeks depending on positioning. Also, moving the tongue side to side while taking the cock inside your mouth. Sometimes with enough spit on the shaft you can cover your teeth with your lips and lightly apply more pressure than usual this way by using your jaw instead of just the lip muscles to squeeze while gliding along the shaft. This makes you look like you are a toothless weirdo, lol, but who cares. Sometimes sticking the tongue out over the bottom teeth and tongue while your mouth is down pretty far on the cock. This lets the tip of the tongue brush where the ballsack meets the base of the cock. It really helps to practice brushing the back of your tongue to lessen the gag reflex to be able to do this better.

Thoughts?
I think you got "it" down. (no pun intended) Your technique sounds excellent. :rose::rose::rose::rose:
 
I'm curious as to #2 when you say if she knows what she's doing. Give us women some tips...and shafts, lol!

So here's what I like to try (if I can): licking the tip and taking just the glans in the mouth. I love the hole and just working the very tip of my tongue in it as if I'm trying to get inside. Licking along the shaft, especially the underside and sometimes there are particular spots there that need extra attention from the pointed hard tip of the tongue. Cupping, massaging the balls, maybe sucking on them. Licking the lips to make them nice and wet so they glide easily down the shaft hopefully all the way to the base so the head of the cock hits the back of the throat and stops your breath for a little while you gently move your head side to side slightly in a "no" head shake. Backing off. Teasing a bit in, back off, a bit more, back off, a bit more, and so on down to the base and repeating. After this process, taking the mouth all the way off leaving a trail of spittle and getting a deep breath. Massaging and gripping the thighs or the ass cheeks depending on positioning. Also, moving the tongue side to side while taking the cock inside your mouth. Sometimes with enough spit on the shaft you can cover your teeth with your lips and lightly apply more pressure than usual this way by using your jaw instead of just the lip muscles to squeeze while gliding along the shaft. This makes you look like you are a toothless weirdo, lol, but who cares. Sometimes sticking the tongue out over the bottom teeth and tongue while your mouth is down pretty far on the cock. This lets the tip of the tongue brush where the ballsack meets the base of the cock. It really helps to practice brushing the back of your tongue to lessen the gag reflex to be able to do this better.

Thoughts?
Extremely Sexy and beautiful as well as quite well written as a true penis and oral sex connoisseur.
Coming from a penis owner who would more than enjoy those words put into action!

I wasn't implying that you didn't know how.
Not every woman is as versed (Experienced) in these manor let alone wanting to please a man in this way.
Each women especially in her own upbringing and life (religious issues) has the ability to learn or refuse to learn about the pleasure of her man (men) or others.

Other factors are her availability to take a penis with regard to her and his size of a possible mismatch.

From what you wrote puts me on note that you are a very wonderful woman and you appreciate having knowledge about a man and would be willing to learn or understand him (his penis) and also be willing to teach him as well to what would be best for your own pleasure.

Thank you for your reply, it's definitely something I could read every day!
 
I'm curious as to #2 when you say if she knows what she's doing. Give us women some tips...and shafts, lol!

So here's what I like to try (if I can): licking the tip and taking just the glans in the mouth. I love the hole and just working the very tip of my tongue in it as if I'm trying to get inside. Licking along the shaft, especially the underside and sometimes there are particular spots there that need extra attention from the pointed hard tip of the tongue. Cupping, massaging the balls, maybe sucking on them. Licking the lips to make them nice and wet so they glide easily down the shaft hopefully all the way to the base so the head of the cock hits the back of the throat and stops your breath for a little while you gently move your head side to side slightly in a "no" head shake. Backing off. Teasing a bit in, back off, a bit more, back off, a bit more, and so on down to the base and repeating. After this process, taking the mouth all the way off leaving a trail of spittle and getting a deep breath. Massaging and gripping the thighs or the ass cheeks depending on positioning. Also, moving the tongue side to side while taking the cock inside your mouth. Sometimes with enough spit on the shaft you can cover your teeth with your lips and lightly apply more pressure than usual this way by using your jaw instead of just the lip muscles to squeeze while gliding along the shaft. This makes you look like you are a toothless weirdo, lol, but who cares. Sometimes sticking the tongue out over the bottom teeth and tongue while your mouth is down pretty far on the cock. This lets the tip of the tongue brush where the ballsack meets the base of the cock. It really helps to practice brushing the back of your tongue to lessen the gag reflex to be able to do this better.

Thoughts?
My thought: Oh, wow!

I'm going to memorize this and hope I can remember every detail the next time I have a man in front of me.
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out
G-10/10 I love doing it
2. Blowjob
G-n/a, R- 6/10 I don’t get a lot out of the sensation but sometimes it’s really hot and act in general
3. Handjob
G-n/a, R-4/10 meh
4. Fingering
G-10/10 I love giving pleasure
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
10/10
6. Rimming
G/R- 7/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
G- 8/10 can be really fun but sometimes it’s stressful cause the top of my cock is thicker and can be tough to get in.
8. Fisting
G-10/10 amazing, R-n/a
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
G-10/10, R-3/10 feels like electricity in a bad way lol
 
1. Eating her out
10/10
2. Blowjob
R10/10, G Havent, yet
3. Handjob
R10/10, G Havent, yet
4. Fingering
G10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
G10/10
6. Rimming
both 10/10!!!
7. Penetrative: real penis in ass
G 10/10 R havent yet
8. Fisting
havent
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
10/10
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out
G-10/10 I love doing it
2. Blowjob
G-n/a, R- 6/10 I don’t get a lot out of the sensation but sometimes it’s really hot and act in general
3. Handjob
G-n/a, R-4/10 meh
4. Fingering
G-10/10 I love giving pleasure
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
10/10
6. Rimming
G/R- 7/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
G- 8/10 can be really fun but sometimes it’s stressful cause the top of my cock is thicker and can be tough to get in.
8. Fisting
G-10/10 amazing, R-n/a
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
G-10/10, R-3/10 feels like electricity in a bad way lol
Tell me about fisting. I'm curious. I don't think all of that would fit in me but I did give birth to two children so I'm clearly wrong, lol!
 
1. Eating her out
10/10
2. Blowjob
R10/10, G Havent, yet
3. Handjob
R10/10, G Havent, yet
4. Fingering
G10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
G10/10
6. Rimming
both 10/10!!!
7. Penetrative: real penis in ass
G 10/10 R havent yet
8. Fisting
havent
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
10/10
Do any couple of things stand out as being preferred over the others or is it just even across the board?
 
It was during a threesome and she went wild. it felt really good too for me, mental pleasure wise. It was a whole experience that just doesn’t happen often and it was really cool. Bonus was that she absolutely loved it and I think she saw it as like an achievement lol
 
It was during a threesome and she went wild. it felt really good too for me, mental pleasure wise. It was a whole experience that just doesn’t happen often and it was really cool. Bonus was that she absolutely loved it and I think she saw it as like an achievement lol
I'd say it's an achievement! Oh, it is just so good when someone absolutely loves what they're doing sex-wise whether it's giving or receiving. Being totally into it takes it to a whole other level!
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out
Both with women and men
2. Blowjob
Love giving
3. Handjob
Combined with BJ
4. Fingering
Feels great. Foreplay
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
Wow!!
6. Rimming
Sends me through the roof. He likes it too
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
Been there, done that quite often
8. Fisting
No, no, no!!
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
Drives me crazy
 
I love both, it's sexy on porn movies but in reality the excitement of her mouth on my cock means I can't twirl her clit in the earnest she deserves.
And vice versa as I intensify my tongue on her clit and folds she can't concentrate on my cock.
However, she cums over and over, so I get to enjoy her pussy and juices then she can suck me to completion
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out - adore both
2. Blowjob (G) - 10/10
3. Handjob (G) - 10/10
4. Fingering (G/R) - 10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina - (R) 10000/10
6. Rimming (G) 7/10 (R) 10/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass (R) 7/10
8. Fisting (G) 6/10 (R) 2/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples (G) 10/10 (R) 10/10
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out
Both with women and men
2. Blowjob
Love giving
3. Handjob
Combined with BJ
4. Fingering
Feels great. Foreplay
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
Wow!!
6. Rimming
Sends me through the roof. He likes it too
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
Been there, done that quite often
8. Fisting
No, no, no!!
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
Drives me crazy
You sound delicious, my dear!!!🔥
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out
Both with women and men
2. Blowjob
Love giving
3. Handjob
Combined with BJ
4. Fingering
Feels great. Foreplay
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
Wow!!
6. Rimming
Sends me through the roof. He likes it too
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
Been there, done that quite often
8. Fisting
No, no, no!!
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
Drives me crazy
I love your answers! 😁 Being sent through the roof is such a great thing, isn't it?
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out G 9
2. Blowjob R 9 G strapon 10
3. Handjob R 8
4. Fingering G R 9
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 9
6. Rimming G R 10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass G 10
8. Fisting R 10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples R G 9
10 Golden showers on body or in mouth R 10
11. Pegging R 10
12. cum eating GR 10
Somehow I missed this when you posted it. I am so curious about giving a blowjob to a strap-on. I see that you really love getting pegged so is it mostly in anticipation of that that you are enjoying having your mouth on her dildo? I expect the mental pleasure is intense for you. Oh, and eating cum? Mmmhhhmmm...cum shouldn't go to waste:)

I want to try golden showers one day - not sure if I'd like it. For me receiving would be on my body but I'd happily give anywhere:)
 
1. Eating her out/being eaten out / R: 10, G: unknown but eager to try
2. Blowjob / R: na, G: 10
3. Handjob / R: na, G: 8
4. Fingering / R: 9, G: unknown but eager to try
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina / R: 10, G: unknown
6. Rimming: R: unknown, G: unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass: R: 10 if the mood is there, G: unknown
8. Fisting: R: unknown, G: unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: R: 7, G: unknown but eager to try
I so hear you on the "eager to try" part! Me too. It seems impossible to find a woman nearby but I'm not giving up☺️
 
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