Sucking married men
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I do get into the mood to suck too now and then but that depends on the circumstances
If it was a shved smooth cock? No ! I fact I'd want to suck it.
and being with another married man we have both a lot to lose!I am in south east tn
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Same with my wife she doesn't like it and the few times it wasn't good. By the way she also thinks penises are ugly
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Ahh what a shame! I’m sure you have a glorious penis!Same with my wife she doesn't like it and the few times it wasn't good. By the way she also thinks penises are ugly
Mine just only likes vaginal sex and oral is just foreplay to get me going to fuck her, not something she actually enjoys.It seems for a lot of older guys, sex with the wife is hard to come by and good oral almost non existent. I must say if you close your eyes the mouth of a man eager to suck you feels just as good as a woman. It just makes sense for many older men to find a good suck buddy.
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I think for me it's just that I have wanted to try it for years. I am in my late 40s now and I have been thinking about it since I was in my teens. I still haven't taken the plunge but I am not getting younger and the window is only getting smaller.
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Yes for sure it is.
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I wouldn't have to close my eyes to enjoy another guy sucking me off, I would prefer to keep them open to watch and make eye contact to see how much he is enjoying sucking my cock
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I'm always skeptical about "psychology" questions. There doesn't have to be a reason for someone's tastes and preferences.
But I also doubt that this is even accurate at all. It's your perception, but it doesn't account for - just as an example - all the married guys who GET sucked at ABS's. One sucker can swallow 10 loads a night, there, but nobody's sticking their dick in 10 mouths.
As a very broad generalization, bottoms advertise and seek matches, and tops don't have to do that as much because the bottoms are easy pickin's. So maybe your perception is based on seeing lots of bottoms identify themselves and seek attention, and not seeing tops do the same. It doesn't mean they aren't around, just that they aren't as visible.
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but I'll play along anyway, because I had an experience which could turn out to maybe be shared by others.
Married men have done the top/get-blown role already. There's nothing to be curious about. So, when a man decides to try sex with men, trying something different (bottoming) might be the natural direction to go.
This was the case for me, anyway. Though, I was young and unmarried. Still, it made me believe I was a bottom. It wasn't until many years later after years of marriage that I decided, since I was going to start having sex with men again, and since I was in n a position to question everything, that I decided to try topping men.
I wanted to try it because the scene seemed saturated with bottoms. I didn't want the competition so I figured I'd switch and have a much easier time finding partners. Wouldn't you know it, it turned out I AM fully vers and enjoy both bottoming and topping.
Same as with women. It really shouldn't have been much of a surprise.
So maybe some of these married guys are bottoming because it seems thrilling and seems like the thing to do, after all lifetime of topping women. And definitely you (knowingly) see more married bottoms because married tops really are less visible.
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Exactly
You have a lot of years left to try it. I think a lot of guys get into it in their 60's. Like you they have wanted to try it and perhaps not getting sex at home pushes them into it. I love to have my cock sucked but have come to enjoy sucking off another guy to be even better.
And I bet eventually you will come to enjoy returning the favor.I wouldn't have to close my eyes to enjoy another guy sucking me off, I would prefer to keep them open to watch and make eye contact to see how much he is enjoying sucking my cock
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I have in the past, it would depend on hygene, DDF and situation. Wouldn't be able to let the wife know about it for sure
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Definitely factors that need to be considered. You have to consider your safety and well being first.
Well then, I’m your married guy
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Uncut...? You sound perfect. When shall we meet up?Well then, I’m your married guy
I agree that hygiene and DDF are critical. When I was traveling for business, I did some gloryholes or video booths but these days I am strictly into suck buddies. Older guys that I know and trust. It is nice to play a round of golf and maybe fondle his cock now and then as we play but knowing once we are done, it is back to his place and he knows I am going to drain his balls.
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I did and it didn’t take long at all.
And once you get that first taste, you just want more.
Yes you are correct. For years it has been a blow and go situation for me but now I find myself happily returning the favor
Yes! This is true
