Question for bottoms

I know this tread is a few months old. I stumbled upon it while reading someone's profile. What surprised me is that so few put #4 as the priority. As a top (well technically a retired top because of ED :( ), I always wanted to make the bottom get off from just my fucking him. Those limited times it happened, it forced me to cum involuntary from the sensations of the bottom's prostate contractions and the knowledge that "I" got him off with my cock inside him. Nothing so intense ever happened to me like in those moments that the bottom gets off and I'm still inside him. It is at the epicenter of a man's orgasm to have your cock next to a bottom man's prostate when he cums.

I'll never understand the association of submissiveness with the bottom role. I always sought out masculine bottom men but with a BIG heart. I always wished it wasn't just my cock, but my whole body inside. A merger of two men. To feel like I'm finally in that mythical male womb -- wanted, protected, loved...

There isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss being inside my man. i think my lucky stars he loves "me" more than my cock. An ED affected cock would make way too many men give up on their male partner.

Last night several times during his sleep, he wrapped his legs or his arms around me. All these almost 23 years, it still give me a buz in my skin as well as my heart to have him get so physically close to me -- even during his sleep. i confess that I cannot let him wrap his legs around my legs for too long as my circulation isn't what it used to be now that I'm 65. Still it is SO greatly appreciated.

I guess ED did force me to realize that there is something much deeper to love/caring than one's own sexual cravings. I still crave his beautiful hairy ass every day, but I crave the loving man he is even more. I'm such a lucky guy to have him.
 
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What do you like best in order of preference?
1. The initial entry; the feeling of being stretched, a mixture of pain and pleasure and wondering if you can handle it?
2. Being pounded; your body being rocked so much it takes your breath away?
3. Feeling him cum; his body tenses, cock throbs, and he pushes deep, and knowing his seed is being sent into you?
4. When you cum; you lose control, your ass spasms around his shaft, and he feels your orgasm from the inside?
For me I'd say: 2 (the rougher the better), 1 (amazing feeling), 3, then finally 4.
 
None of the above choices for me.
I love the anticipation of being penetrated most.
It’s in my mind as I blow him, that what I’m actually doing is getting him rock hard and revved up, building up his animalistic need to fuck.
Perhaps getting rimmed to awaken the anal sensations for me and to demonstrate his desire for my hole.
Maybe the feel of cold lube being applied or a probing finger that loosens the sphincter muscle.
Definitely the feeling of a lubed up hard cock sliding up and down my crack, probing and searching for the prize.
Just the knowing that I’m about to get fucked and used for his pleasure is the totally intoxicating part for me….A man is about to push his hard cock inside me and I’m not only going to let him, I’m going to love it!
 
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What do you like best in order of preference?
1. The initial entry; the feeling of being stretched, a mixture of pain and pleasure and wondering if you can handle it?
2. Being pounded; your body being rocked so much it takes your breath away?
3. Feeling him cum; his body tenses, cock throbs, and he pushes deep, and knowing his seed is being sent into you?
4. When you cum; you lose control, your ass spasms around his shaft, and he feels your orgasm from the inside?
2,3,1,4

If I cum I don't care, just love being fucked like a whore.
 
What do you like best in order of preference?
1. The initial entry; the feeling of being stretched, a mixture of pain and pleasure and wondering if you can handle it?
2. Being pounded; your body being rocked so much it takes your breath away?
3. Feeling him cum; his body tenses, cock throbs, and he pushes deep, and knowing his seed is being sent into you?
4. When you cum; you lose control, your ass spasms around his shaft, and he feels your orgasm from the inside?
I like number 3 the most. 1 is second, 2 is third, and 4 is last.
 
What do you like best in order of preference?
1. The initial entry; the feeling of being stretched, a mixture of pain and pleasure and wondering if you can handle it?
2. Being pounded; your body being rocked so much it takes your breath away?
3. Feeling him cum; his body tenses, cock throbs, and he pushes deep, and knowing his seed is being sent into you?
4. When you cum; you lose control, your ass spasms around his shaft, and he feels your orgasm from the inside?
I, honestly, cannot choose. All these phases are interconnected; one leading to another making it a single event
 
The initial ‘pain’ feels so good though. That first push, feeling him sliding into me, gaping while feeling him pop through the first ring and that rush when he pushed past the second… that’s when my head swims.. he keeps pushing and I feel intense pressure inside of me and I try to squeeze, try to push him back out as he pushes in… pushing until he hits that spot… that’s the pain…. That’s when he stayers to pull out and I start to push back on him… that’s when I fuck past that pain and I just moan and fuck back on him and want to feel him deeper inside of me, feeling his weight pressing against me and his thighs slapping into my ass… there’s no more pain…. Just the desire to fuck. I could use that right now
 
The initial ‘pain’ feels so good though. That first push, feeling him sliding into me, gaping while feeling him pop through the first ring and that rush when he pushed past the second… that’s when my head swims.. he keeps pushing and I feel intense pressure inside of me and I try to squeeze, try to push him back out as he pushes in… pushing until he hits that spot… that’s the pain…. That’s when he stayers to pull out and I start to push back on him… that’s when I fuck past that pain and I just moan and fuck back on him and want to feel him deeper inside of me, feeling his weight pressing against me and his thighs slapping into my ass… there’s no more pain…. Just the desire to fuck. I could use that right now
So very well said
 
The initial ‘pain’ feels so good though. That first push, feeling him sliding into me, gaping while feeling him pop through the first ring and that rush when he pushed past the second… that’s when my head swims.. he keeps pushing and I feel intense pressure inside of me and I try to squeeze, try to push him back out as he pushes in… pushing until he hits that spot… that’s the pain…. That’s when he stayers to pull out and I start to push back on him… that’s when I fuck past that pain and I just moan and fuck back on him and want to feel him deeper inside of me, feeling his weight pressing against me and his thighs slapping into my ass… there’s no more pain…. Just the desire to fuck. I could use that right now
So hot I’d be down
 
As a top, I think there's a 1A which is the anticipation of being penetrated when you are lying there, making eye contact or not, being sized up, sensing the proximity of the cock tip, maybe your asshole being massaged and fingered, an initial stretching with his hands, waiting for the moment of penetration and then even the moment, before the inevitable pain, tensing for it, knowing it's gonna hurt like it always does (with me), feeling him go in, resisting, holding your breath, then that moment of letting go when I inevitably vocalize just as the pain hits. It's the prestretch moment which somehow for me is a moment of equal pleasure and anticipation, and then inevitable shock every time. I never get used to it and I'm not usually the bottom, but I still crave it and am repeled by it at the same time. Does that make any sense?

After that being pounded is a means to an end, but feeling him cum and clenching around him as he slows at the point of climax, then pushes to the max, pauses and releases, is another breath-taking moment.

So for me it's 3, 4, 1A, 1, 2.

Each experience is different, and I have had experiences where each order would be different. It really is the whole experience.

1 is particularly intense when it is your first time with that person, when you from two people who haven’t had sex with each other to people who have. But that feeling of vulnerability, of accepting another man’s cock inside you is like your first time every time.

2 can be exhilarating, that feeling of being taken and possessed by another person for their needs. Although I often prefer those long deep strokes where his cock is constantly stimulating my prostate. This is the time where you you know you are having sex with another person and you are both sharing that feeling.

3 it’s called a climax for a reason. That moment when he goes from from having sex to needing to get off is my favorite part. His need and urgency overtakes everything else and you can tell it has become all about him. So fucking hot.

4 I don’t always cum during anal sex, but it can be super hot. I love telling my partner that he’s going to make me cum and seeing his reaction, that burst of sexual triumph. And that feeling of ejaculating while your ass grips down on his cock. Mmm.. delicious.

So give me all of them. No way to rank them for me.

These two posts make me quiver.

I have never taken a cock in my ass. I have sucked, been sucked and fucked, but the fear of injury has kept me from doing the one thing I want so badly.

The closest I've come to surrendering my ass was with a man in Palm Springs. I had invited him to my room after meeting in the hot tub. I sucked him to completion, and he sucked me briefly in return. I never understood why he stopped, but he offered me a massage instead. I accepted, thinking he would still finish me.

There I was on my back, with my lover between my knees and my legs wrapped around him. Each time he leaned forward, his cock would slide behind my balls and touch my bottom.

My gawd. I suppose I'll never know whether my man meant to tease me (of course, he did), but I could feel my lust growing each time he brushed against me. All I needed to do was whisper the words, "Take me." My cherry would have been his.

And yet, I hesitated. Perhaps I would have surrendered to him had he been smaller. All I know is that I wanted him badly. But not badly enough to overcome my fear.

The next morning, I was on the road, driving back to New Orleans.

I still think about that moment, my lover's bare cock pushing against me. I imagine how it would have felt to have the head opening me up and sliding against my prostate. I wonder whether he would have gently fucked me or hammered me with forceful thrusts. I dream that I would have felt his spurts of cum in my gut and what it would have been like to feel the semen leaking from me.

Oh, I wanted my man so much, but I feared his cock more.

I wish I'd had more courage.
 
3, 2, 1 then 4 ranking most favorite to least (where "least" is still incredible) - all sissies will rank 4 last, almost by definition
 
3, 2, 1 then 4 ranking most favorite to least (where "least" is still incredible) - all sissies will rank 4 last, almost by definition
Yes, you are exactly right. As for #4 I have never cum from being fucked nor does it matter to me. Sexually my partner is the male and I am the female, so all that matters is that she has her orgasm and inseminates me. After that I am completely satisfied knowing her seed has been deposited deep inside me.
 
What do you like best in order of preference?
1. The initial entry; the feeling of being stretched, a mixture of pain and pleasure and wondering if you can handle it?
2. Being pounded; your body being rocked so much it takes your breath away?
3. Feeling him cum; his body tenses, cock throbs, and he pushes deep, and knowing his seed is being sent into you?
4. When you cum; you lose control, your ass spasms around his shaft, and he feels your orgasm from the inside?
Yes in that order 1.2.3.4
1 is soooo fantastic. The head of his cock pressing into my slowly... opening my ass.
2 being slowly fucked..harder and harder..deeper. faster and faster.
The 3 as he buries his cock deep in me...feeling his cock grow and explode. Pulsing as he empties his load In me.
And finally 4 as my body tensed up.. shaking..trembling my hole clenching and unclenching around his cock. Moaning groaning and mumbling on how much I love his cock
 
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