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Switchem15 said:
I can confirmā€¦although Iā€™m a switch too our dynamic has always been very D/s. Itā€™s how we work and how we vibeā€¦and sheā€™s a beautiful sub tooā€¦many more things for us to explore šŸ˜
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Now itā€™s not to say we wouldnā€™t switch, thatā€™s just something that we have not yet found the time to explore with each other.

There are many things within our D/s dynamic that are on the ā€˜to do listā€™ that me and @SpicyBean99 have discussed, I know many of you have had the pleasure of seeing some of our videosā€¦you may get a lucky window to look through into more later down the line.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I think itā€™s about finding a way to reclaim power after years of carrying anxiety and trauma! I can understand that on a really personal level! šŸ„°
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Just gotta claim your say in who you are, right?

SpicyBean99 said:
And then way you talk about jealousy play/setting requirements, personally comes across less like control for ā€˜controlā€™s sakeā€™ and more like building a little private language of closeness?ā€¦ (does that make sense?).
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Absolutely. It's a fantasy world bubble with its own language and norms. I'd want to be able to talk to my partner in ways I'd never talk to anyone else. The privacy of it is just another facet of the intimacy, no matter the assumed power structure. To make it sharp, I know she's not a whore, she knows she's not a whore, but there's total trust so we can both play around with that language. It's intensely comforting.

SpicyBean99 said:
I agree with the anxiety part at the end tooā€¦ Iā€™m still very much navigating that road and figuring out thing from my past! Itā€™s a long road huh? At least I can take from you that there is somewhat of a light at the end of the ā€œanxiety tunnelā€! šŸ„°
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Absolutely! I used to be just _messed up_ in my teens and early 20s and I have all but completely figured it out at this point. There's always new light on the universe through reinterpretation.
SpicyBean99 said:
Thankyou again for your detailed reply! I enjoyed reading it! šŸ–¤
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Anytime :) I'm an open book here, within reason.
 
notexactlymelville said:
I'm an industrial/techno producer who was really active in the 2000s, a little less so now. So full disclosure, I was just turned 19, she was 25. I'm European, she's indian heritage American, and she flew over to EU to be with me for a couple of months. She worked as a domme occasionally and was really confident, whereas I was completely green. In other words, the logistics of her outfit were beyond me :) She just appeared from the hotel room looking amazing. I was too stressed out with my own preshow anxiety to be much use to her. Very much semi-innocent boy being taught by a more experienced woman, at that point.

I'm a complete dom, I've come to terms with that. It's kind of cornerstone for sexual compatibility for me; it may be ironic (other folks in our scene were "terrified" of her) but she was completely sweet and submissive for me. Roleplaying and taking control in that way helps me overcome anxieties and be more free with my expression, and I think it makes me a more attentive partner. I'm a sweet, caring guy who also texts you to make sure you're still wearing the buttplug I put in you. I do jealousy plays (i'm not a super jealous guy though) and set requirements: It's controlling of course but it's also clear signs of how much I care, no? It brings us together.

People who knew me when I was younger only knew this anxiety ridden dude (I had some early age trauma that wrecked me for years) and had no idea I could scream on a stage or keep a girl. It makes perfect sense to me: Having control is the opposite of worry.

Edit: Jesus this turned into a word dump. Don't mean to pollute your thread with my bs.
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Personally I find people's experiences fascinating especially dom sub stuff, such an interesting lifestyle, always cool to learn more.
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
Personally I find people's experiences fascinating especially dom sub stuff, such an interesting lifestyle, always cool to learn more.
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I basically wasn't functional sexually before I found that path. TBH I probably wish I had it "easier" and was more natural with sex and intimacy, but I've only been able to figure it out through these kinds of reality tweaks.
 
So tempted to do a word dump
But ? Iā€™ll spare you guys
Iā€™ll also spare Queen Bee.
Sheā€™s already buried in my dms and every other red blooded manā€™s and a few womenā€™s
 
notexactlymelville said:
I basically wasn't functional sexually before I found that path. TBH I probably wish I had it "easier" and was more natural with sex and intimacy, but I've only been able to figure it out through these kinds of reality tweaks.
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There's so much psychology in sex, the things that you like and why you like them. It's a journey that can last a life time, glad you're figuring it out, its a lot of fun discovering yourself more as you get older.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Pain and pleasure are intertwined as one, the line between the two merely a veil.

I was told once by a tattooist (who I was in a sexual relationship with) that the expression on my face whilst being tattooed was the same as when orgasmingā€¦. šŸ¤£

I am a switch. 87% switch I believe if I remember the results to an online BDSM test correctly!

*edging audio noted šŸ˜‰
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Be still my heart. I can put it on repeat repeat repeat!
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Iā€™ll be back later to respond to both DMs and also thread messages! Enjoy your mornings/afternoons and evenings! šŸ„°

It would however be rude of me to not leave something to enjoy in the meantimeā€¦
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That was a very captivating set of pictures. I particularly love the eye contact. Your eyes say so much here and I love what they say. Also, you have a very inviting pair of breasts, so there is more to play with than just your hair ;) .

Regarding your earlier JOI question, I would say that whichever of them takes your fancy the most. If I've read correctly, it looks as though the blowjob one could be coming (see what I did or didn't do there :D ) our way next. The edge and mutual masturbation sound very hot too.

I loved reading about more of the context behind the three minute JOI. That makes it all the more arousing. I've also been catching up on older posts. Your little play out in the woods is particularly stimulating and brings many thoughts to mind.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Three times the charm apparently ;)

Keep on going with the compliments and Iā€™ll have a while folder of audios for you šŸ˜

What JOI themes would you be interested in?

- titties (done)
- a long edge?
- mutual masturbation?
- foot themed?
-booty themed?
- a virtual handjob by me?

Send the ideas my way! šŸ’” šŸ˜
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A long edge or mutual masturbation
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Let me know how it goes when you do?

Iā€™ll be making more this week. I enjoyed it thoroughly.

Iā€™m thinking Iā€™ll definitely do one based around ā€œThong Thursdayā€ tooā€¦šŸ¤­
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Youā€™ve got a great sexy fucking voice. No lie. You could totally do erotic audio stories and have a large following.

However, Iā€™m an obdurate S.O.B who doesnā€™t follow instructions well (or at all šŸ¤£). You do have a most excellence pair of tits for a cum shot. šŸ˜
 
Apisto42 said:
Youā€™ve got a great sexy fucking voice. No lie. You could totally do erotic audio stories and have a large following.

However, Iā€™m an obdurate S.O.B who doesnā€™t follow instructions well (or at all šŸ¤£). You do have a most excellence pair of tits for a cum shot. šŸ˜
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See, this to me is a lovely compliment which I won't take lightly.

I usually hate my voice, despise listening back to voice notes and my voice in videos. This audio made me feel like I sounded rather sexy...I might look into recording some of my stories to the audio side to the site at this point, too!

Thankyou, from the bottom of my cun-ā€¦heart ;) I really appreciate it!
 
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