TheIntrepidBoyager
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Of course, most all things in the D/s lifestyle are rather fluid and full of blurry lines and the "version" that my wife and I engage in is no exception.
Yes, it's Femdom, but not continuously hardcore. There is no question that she is not interested in any kind of submission and she is most definitely a dominant personality. Outside of the house, my alpha side most definitely comes out and I immediately become the protector. But as stark as it is, it is still a subtle shift and she still retains her position and respect.
I find we lean further into a Mommy and boy dynamic that a strictly defined Femdom relationship. Despite our advanced years and being married for nearly four decades, I've always been a little boy at heart and I crave that kind of daily discipline. Did I get my steps in? No, you've had enough snacks. No beer until after dinner. And so on. And I love a reward/punishment based relationship.
There is ZERO doubt, this taps into a lot of psych stuff from my youth but those are scary dark corners so we'll leave them out of the light and just accept that I recognize that.
She can be iffy on me calling her Mommy. Sometimes she really likes it, other times it can make her a little uncomfortable but that is mostly because she knows my actual mother and our past.
I know Daddy/girl relationships are rather common but I'm curious who else enjoys the Mommy/boy dynamic?
Yes, it's Femdom, but not continuously hardcore. There is no question that she is not interested in any kind of submission and she is most definitely a dominant personality. Outside of the house, my alpha side most definitely comes out and I immediately become the protector. But as stark as it is, it is still a subtle shift and she still retains her position and respect.
I find we lean further into a Mommy and boy dynamic that a strictly defined Femdom relationship. Despite our advanced years and being married for nearly four decades, I've always been a little boy at heart and I crave that kind of daily discipline. Did I get my steps in? No, you've had enough snacks. No beer until after dinner. And so on. And I love a reward/punishment based relationship.
There is ZERO doubt, this taps into a lot of psych stuff from my youth but those are scary dark corners so we'll leave them out of the light and just accept that I recognize that.
She can be iffy on me calling her Mommy. Sometimes she really likes it, other times it can make her a little uncomfortable but that is mostly because she knows my actual mother and our past.
I know Daddy/girl relationships are rather common but I'm curious who else enjoys the Mommy/boy dynamic?