Courting the lonely mature woman.

[Fun2BE66]

Any ideas a retired man might find useful when looking to entertain a lonely, mature woman ? Thanks for the replies, much appreciated ! As I read the thoughts/ideas, re-read what id posted, should have been more specific, apologize I wasnt. I'll also define what the word "entertain" means here in my mind. Some coffee, cards, conversations, etc., to enjoy giving her some amazing/lengthy oral pleasures. So "lonely" turns to "horny".

 

[AnnieLit]

Entertain as in take her out in real life? Then talking to her would be a good first step. What does she do as a hobby? What did she used to do for fun when she was younger? What's her favorite style of music? What type of food does she like? I wouldn't recommend taking a vegetarian to a steakhouse or an opera lover to a heavy metal concert.

 

[Maximsdarling]

Entertain as in take her out in real life? Then talking to her would be a good first step. What does she do as a hobby? What did she used to do for fun when she was younger? What's her favorite style of music? What type of food does she like? I wouldn't recommend taking a vegetarian to a steakhouse or an opera lover to a heavy metal concert.

This. Paying attention to the stuff she says and getting to know her as a person. You could even just ask for several ideas or plan a date together. Id frame it just as that. Youd really like to hear what she likes to do which will help to get know her better. People in general appreciate interest in their ideas. Most people also appreciate honesty and its ok to ask.

I think you got this. I know it can be intimidating getting to know one another but shes a person, like you, looking to connect. Kindness and interest goes a long way. Good luck! Let us know how it goes!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Any ideas a retired man might find useful when looking to entertain a lonely, mature woman ?

I was wondering that myself just yesterday in a store. I was looking for a light globe standing in the far back isle of a store. I thought completely alone, I felt like someone was watching me and when I looked to my left a woman was standing there just staring at me.
It was like she gathered her wits and did an exit stage left.
You would think they would walk over and say hi wouldn't you?

 

[jehoram]

Did you have a specific lonely woman in mind? If so, do what was said by the others... get to know her and see whether her likes and dislikes mesh with yours.

If you're looking for one in a general way, keep your eyes open and be aware of the people around you. Don't be afraid to let your friends know what you're looking for, as soon as you know what you're looking for. They might have contacts with the woman in question.

And don't be too picky.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

It's not that difficult. In your situation as tell her that you're thinking about buying this lamp and ask her what she thinks about it. If she then seems interested in chatting ask her if she'd like to get a cup off coffee, a lunch, or daquiri. If she says yes to the coffee she's marginally interested, if she says yes to the lunch she's fairly interested, and if she says yes to the daquiri you're on the road to scoring! Disclaimer: That's not an original idea. I read it someplace.

A bit more seriously, if you can get her at least involved in a conversation ask her questions about herself. People love talking about things they know about.

 

[AriesAngyl]

As an older divorced woman, I can tell you saying hi and smiling is an excellent start and 1st step.

Any kind of small talk is fine. Just say something and if she smiles and walk away, no deal…if she stays and continues the chat then you have a nibble.

Conversation and a little attention gets the ball rolling. Then like others have said invite her to something simple and public like coffee or whatever.

I am easily enticed by someone genuine. Smile, be friendly, Be positive and you’ll have a good starting place.

I happily fell for this treatment a few weeks ago. It’s been fun

 

[Fun2BE66]

As an older divorced woman, I can tell you saying hi and smiling is an excellent start and 1st step.

Any kind of small talk is fine. Just say something and if she smiles and walk away, no deal…if she stays and continues the chat then you have a nibble.

Conversation and a little attention gets the ball rolling. Then like others have said invite her to something simple and public like coffee or whatever.

I am easily enticed by someone genuine. Smile, be friendly, Be positive and you’ll have a good starting place.

I happily fell for this treatment a few weeks ago. It’s been fun

Thanks for responding, much appreciated !