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Many report they can but I've never been able to do it.

I've had something one might call orgasmic sensations using a non-vibrating, rather large prostate massager. TO really get into it I like a lot of lube and to have time and relax. Laying on my side, rubbing my legs back and forth and clenching my Kegels can be a big help.

Dildos, plugs, even fingers are lovely but still not anything I'd call an orgasm.

I had a curved glass toy with bulbs at each end and long sessions with that were definitely incredibly pleasurable, but still not orgasmic.

I do get very leaky though. I think genetics plays a role here for sure.

E-Stim is something I've always wondered about...

I don't really like vibrating toys in my ass as I seem to kinda go numb after a while.
 
E-stim never heard of. My experiences have been the same as your. I've never went 15 min. Im willing though.

Ill google e stimulation
 
Many report they can but I've never been able to do it.

I've had something one might call orgasmic sensations using a non-vibrating, rather large prostate massager. TO really get into it I like a lot of lube and to have time and relax. Laying on my side, rubbing my legs back and forth and clenching my Kegels can be a big help.

Dildos, plugs, even fingers are lovely but still not anything I'd call an orgasm.

I had a curved glass toy with bulbs at each end and long sessions with that were definitely incredibly pleasurable, but still not orgasmic.

I do get very leaky though. I think genetics plays a role here for sure.

E-Stim is something I've always wondered about...

I don't really like vibrating toys in my ass as I seem to kinda go numb after a while.
E- stim was fun but it never got me to climax but nothing else has either including a real live cock.
 
Question is it possible to cum from prostate massage only hands off? Toys suggestion needed.

Thank you
Depending what you mean by "hands off," it's definitely possible. Though, it might take some effort to train yourself to get off that way.

You either want something which will vibrate the hell out of the prostate from the inside, or a big dildo you can thrust vigorously against it.

One of those can be hands off. The other, you'll probably need to use your hands - just, not necessarily on your dick.
 
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I cum hands free a lot with my prostate massager. It didn’t happen overnight but took time and patience. Sometimes I don’t cum but have intense orgasmic feelings all over my body. Last week for example, I was horny when I inserted my massager and soon started having orgasmic waves. My penis was as hard as it’s been in years. Lots of moaning and my hips bucking off the bed. Lots of precum but I didn’t ejaculate. After awhile I couldn’t take it anymore so I took a break. Awhile later I reinserted my massager and about 10 minutes later I came very hard hands free. Then it was nap time because I was wiped out.
 
I love anal sex, receiving, but I have not ejaculated from anal alone. When using a dildo I can cum from riding it and jacking my cock. When being fucked by a lover, either cock or strap on, I leak a lot of pre-cum, but no ejaculate. Now this is not necessarily a bad thing. Lot's of times I have a whole body orgasm. What women describe when they cum. I love that feeling.
 
Question is it possible to cum from prostate massage only hands off? Toys suggestion needed.
Yes. Yes many times. You want a lot of control, so the specific toy doesn’t seem to be as important as your position and config. I have a realistic cock silicone dildo. I roll up a towel to straddle, and lift the dildo to a serviceable depth. Then I ride it like… well, like I’m riding a dude, I guess.

But where people go wrong - you can’t just go for it. And I don’t mean penetration (I can admit a substantial girth in about 30 seconds). P-spot stim is like g-spot stim. You have to warm it up first. You start on the outside, rub your perineum for a bit and read/watch/imagine something sexy sexy sexy. Then once you penetrate, slide the cock against your p-spot slowly and gently. Work up to power and speed. Personally, I require nipple stimulation - since transition, my climaxes are tied to my nipples (idk, bodies are weird), but I have found and heard other say that you need to move pretty fast with quite a bit of endurance to reach climax.

Last time, my girlfriend did it for me, and I nearly passed out. 5 of 5, will do it again.
 
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