Were you excited or scared when she discovered your porn (online) interests or collection

[JordynRose]

Lesbian, obviously but things like lesbian prison gang bangs, a lot of non consent….mother-daughter…

 

[Stopokochac]

Scared at first, but then excited once I realized she wasn't being judgemental and even had some of the same one/weirder ones

 

[bisissyhusband1]

Lesbian, obviously but things like lesbian prison gang bangs, a lot of non consent….mother-daughter…

Did it turn you on?

 

[JordynRose]

Well, yeah, a lot….she was very happy about it too.

 

[UtilityCurve]

Having found no benefit in concealing it (or my kinks), I deliberately (if terrifiedly [sic]) decided to be 100% up-front with the GF I married. No equivocation about what happened when she was not sleeping over (when we had separate abodes) or she was unavailable (for whatever reason).

Best. Decision. EVER.

 

[irishblade]

Having a penis of modest size I have for a long time had an envy of large ones.
This I guess progressed into porn like "watching - fuck my - cheating, wife" categories.
Then I met this girl (now wife) and for a couple of years I abstained but then as the ho hum set in, back I was jerking off to.....
One morning (now married) after she left for work much earlier than me, I went back online to add to...
I got a call from work and it was urgent I had to race to another room find a folder then get ready for work.
Mid morning at work I stopped "Oh Fuck" Back tracking hoping praying I remember that the screen was dark as I briefly looked.
That feeling of fear in the pit of your stomach, I knew it meant all the tabs, folders would be either minimized or open.
I couldn't get away from work and when I got home I knew by her distant manner and I went to the room and yep the screen was on and taskbar had my folders.
Shortly after I heard the most terrifying words a husband can hear "we need to talk"
For me it was Scared then Relieved then EXCITED!
It worked out very well for us but that's a very long story.

Honestly, I’ve told her a lot of mine. And she’s very close-minded so to her it’s sometimes a little odd. That being said, I’m always pissed after I tell her stuff like that because I should just keep it to myself lol

 

[bisissyhusband1]

Well, yeah, a lot….she was very happy about it too.

So glad you both enjoyed it.

 

[JordynRose]

Thank you.

 

[dingdongditchding]

if a future gf sees mine or I show her, she will either run away and never come back OR give me a big smile and she say she has an big COCK ex who would play

 

[Bottomlover]

I met my SO 20+ years ago sharing an activity (cave diving) which involved sometimes changing out of wet garments in remote places with no facilities. Brief nudity was not a big deal in our circle. When it looked like we were progressing to an intimate relationship, she asked how I felt about her being "fat", as it was a big problem for her ex. I told her she was soft and curvy, and that was my preference. We became intimate a week afterwards. I don't exactly remember the timeline, but it wasn't long afterwards when we were using dive planning software on our laptops and she saw the porn i had been looking at. She was surprised to see that the women were built just like her, and were engaging in the same things we were but being more vocal.

She told me that seeing this made her feel a lot less self-conscious, and she became more comfortable flaunting some jiggle and dirty talk. We both learned that communicating your kinks and preferences is a good thing, and that "absolutely not", "not right now", and "maybe tomorrow" are acceptable reactions to be respected.