Turned on by your partner's sexual history?

[Addam829]

mostly it's been guys who want to know the details but can't handle them and women who slut shame when i tell them why i'm the way i am so having steady partners could be the real problem

That’s very interesting and really sad to hear. What makes it to the point where they can’t handle them? If I may ask. But that sucks to be slut shamed as well. My ex was always slut shamed and my friends tried to make me feel bad got dating her. But I didn’t care honestly, we liked what we liked and she didn’t give me a reason to not trust her.

 

[YourSecretSanta]

Sometimes her stories make for the best nights.

 

[Wageslave]

All my partner's previous sexual history makes me want to do is wreak fearsome revenge on the bastards who abused her when she was younger

 

[wildp]

She has a couple things from past that turn me on

 

[BillyWalrus]

When I visited my girlfriend in July, I asked her about the hotels she had stayed in when she met guys for dates.

She said the nicest hotel was the Intercontinental where she stayed for a week with an Italian businessman. She said the guy was not interested in allowing her to fuck his ass but he did suck her off a couple of times.

At the time she was working as a hairdresser in a salon and she had taken a week off work for which she was not paid. She said it never occurred to the guy that staying with him for a week was going to be a financial hardship for her.

 

[AchtungNight]

As long as they’re sex positive overall, probably yes.

 

[40sBiCuckCple]

I thought I was wild and kinky when I met my wife to be in college. She showed me what an amateur I had been. Now rthat I’m older, I alwaysn think about all the men that I know that she is fucking and I always decide I’m the real winner having a wife so hot that every man I know wants to fuck her. Why would I have ever wanted to be married to a woman other men didn’t want to fuck? Trust me, I won life’s lottery when she married me.

 

[Ciceri]

My wife and I were married five years before I learned (from someone else) she’d been involved with a woman years before we met. She lived with a lesbian for at least a year. The woman was an older college administrator. Anyway, I saw my wife in a new light. Sometimes when she’s talking I imagine her lips servicing another woman’s pussy. I mean, it must have happened at some point. It’s a big turn on for me

 

[mbikeguy]

I get hard hearing about how she played with her previous boyfriends. How big or small there cocks where. What she did with them. I think about this when I masterbate

 

[Bicurious_r]

Love hearing about my wife's younger days, getting felt up in clubs and going back with lots of guys.

 

[cadman7777]

mostly it's been guys who want to know the details but can't handle them and women who slut shame when i tell them why i'm the way i am so having steady partners could be the real problem

yeah...finding the right guy to feel safe enough to talk about history might be a challenge. That sucks you would get slut shamed by women too.

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

yeah...finding the right guy to feel safe enough to talk about history might be a challenge. That sucks you would get slut shamed by women too.

that's fine. they made me part of who i am too. sorry if i derailed the thread here.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

that's fine. they made me part of who i am too. sorry if i derailed the thread here.

Exactly. My wife is/has been the most sexually liberated woman I’ve ever been with. I’ve posted on here before that I’d like to high-five every dude that helped her along her journey…and somewhere I hope there’s a dude that would high-five me for a a couple of GF’s I helped along the way!

That being said…I’m pretty sure after 35 yrs I know where all the keys to the closet are hidden. We had a romantic trip last week to a cabin in the mountains. In the past we’d watch a porn clip or two to set the mood. This week she did a hard pass and when I asked, she said, “I’ve got some things memorized…”. When pressed she said “I just think of old things”…when pressed further she said, “that’s private…I’m not telling you!”

Maybe I don’t know where all the keys are after all!

 

[whoaitzbreezy]

Exactly. My wife is/has been the most sexually liberated woman I’ve ever been with. I’ve posted on here before that I’d like to high-five every dude that helped her along her journey…and somewhere I hope there’s a dude that would high-five me for a a couple of GF’s I helped along the way!

That being said…I’m pretty sure after 35 yrs I know where all the keys to the closet are hidden. We had a romantic trip last week to a cabin in the mountains. In the past we’d watch a porn clip or two to set the mood. This week she did a hard pass and when I asked, she said, “I’ve got some things memorized…”. When pressed she said “I just think of old things”…when pressed further she said, “that’s private…I’m not telling you!”

Maybe I don’t know where all the keys are after all!

and that's the day daddy found a key to a truck he never owned before..........

 

[NakedCanadian]

mostly it's been guys who want to know the details but can't handle them and women who slut shame when i tell them why i'm the way i am so having steady partners could be the real problem

Not with the right guy. That's the key - finding the other piece to your puzzle piece!

 

[Coconutty70]

I love hearing about my wife’s sexual adventures; it turns me on like crazy!! My wife never said no to any guy, so she has more than a few stories to tell.

I am never certain I fully know her sexual history, and she probably hasn’t disclosed the number of previous sexual partners or lied about the number by giving a lower number.

I suspect she has also hidden details of the more taboo sexual activities like anal sex, threesomes, group sex, incest, gangbangs, and so on.

All wives should. Women need more than one man can give. Many women don’t know that yet or won’t admit it. All wives should have lovers.

She sounds very adventurous! She’s lucky you’re up for letting her explore and wanting to hear all about it. Sounds very open.

 

[Trailrider6647]

I love hearing my wife talk about her past. In her teens and 20s she was a wild one! She has shared some, but I know there is more there.

 

[ryeandginger69]

Hell yes!!

Wife number three was fucking a coworker when she and I had our first date. He was married, and according to my wife the motivation for the affair was fulfilment of both their needs: she was addicted to cock, and he wasn't getting oral sex from his wife. I encouraged her to continue with him while we were dating and after we moved in together. Later I realized she also had a deep need to be naughty, to fuck around on her husband, preferably with married men. I was good with all that. She'd first married young, a cop, but soon started an office affair with her married boss that ended her marriage. During her second marriage she'd vacationed in Barbados and succumbed to the local custom of fucking tourist ladies then pressuring them to assist with an immigration application. Hard dick overwhelmed her better judgement, every time, although frankly she even loved soft dick - more than any woman I ever knew. After sex she'd sleep with my soft dick in her mouth the whole night through.

One of her married boyfriends visited her once while she was on her period; that didn't stop them, and she delightedly told me how he enjoyed the oral sex during those times, and how much she appreciated the kink.

She was a fun lady.