🍆❤️‍🩹🍆 Dicknations for Sassy! Updates & Get Well Wang 🍆❤️‍🩹🍆

[MRSassySheDevil]

Sending hugs love to
Sassy and you all. You are so in my thoughts. You are brave Mr Sassy.
It must be so hard. .

Thank you emmy....

 

[hotwords229_A]

Good morning folks. She is still hanging in there but her breathing has slowed and it just sucks, its painful to sit there and watch it all happen.

Staying at her side is vital, being there for her, making her comfortable and letting her feel how much love she is surrounded with.

But her voice is and always will be in your head too. Listen to it. Sassy is a caregiver, I’m sure that voice is thanking you for the love and care but also reminded you to take a break, eat, sleep, smile and remember. She is peaceful, but you’re going through pure hell.

Don’t forget to take care of yourself too.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Staying at her side is vital, being there for her, making her comfortable and letting her feel how much love she is surrounded with.

But her voice is and always will be in your head too. Listen to it. Sassy is a caregiver, I’m sure that voice is thanking you for the love and care but also reminded you to take a break, eat, sleep, smile and remember. She is peaceful, but you’re going through pure hell.

Don’t forget to take care of yourself too.

Kids are watching out for me as I am watching out for them. Its the things in my head, things that I have learned, some recently and some go back a bit that I cannot talk to the kids about thats really tearing me up. But I forge onward...

 

[barefootgirl69]

Kids are watching out for me as I am watching out for them. Its the things in my head, things that I have learned, some recently and some go back a bit that I cannot talk to the kids about thats really tearing me up. But I forge onward...

I hope that you have other people that you can talk to. Please don't keep everything inside. I've had this talk with my mom this week. Being a rock doesn't mean you can't have emotions or what she calls meltdowns.

Thank you for keeping us updated. I hope we *waves hand around Lit* can maybe be a small comfort to you.

 

[emmy_christina]

Kids are watching out for me as I am watching out for them. Its the things in my head, things that I have learned, some recently and some go back a bit that I cannot talk to the kids about thats really tearing me up. But I forge onward...

I’m crying reading this. You are so strong Mr Sassy, for Sassy for your kids. She is so loved. And so are you all.

 

[peekingone]

Good morning folks. She is still hanging in there but her breathing has slowed and it just sucks, its painful to sit there and watch it all happen.

She is just not ready to say goodbye. She is hangin in there as you all are too. Tough to hear, but for sure inspiring to all of us. Sassy, everyone will be ok. You are one tough woman.

 

[13Fantasies]

-Hugs-

 

[beachbaby179]

Waiting is the worst. I'm so sorry you all need to endure this. Praying for all of you.

 

[Shady_nz]

 

[Lord Pmann]

Godspeed, man. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Sassy always talked about how supportive her husband and kids were. I hope you all are doing as best as one can during these circumstances.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

Godspeed, man. I can’t imagine what you’re going through. Sassy always talked about how supportive her husband and kids were. I hope you all are doing as best as one can during these circumstances.

Thank you. I have always tried to support sassy in any way I could. We have been together since 88' and the idea of her not here anymore just, well, confuses and scares the heck out of me. I mean, what do you do..Ya I don't have the answers either..

 

[ccs29745]

Thank you. I have always tried to support sassy in any way I could. We have been together since 88' and the idea of her not here anymore just, well, confuses and scares the heck out of me. I mean, what do you do..Ya I don't have the answers either..

Think I speak for most here in saying you won't be alone and there will be people here if you need help, a shoulder, an ear for whenever you need one.

 

[peekingone]

Thank you. I have always tried to support sassy in any way I could. We have been together since 88' and the idea of her not here anymore just, well, confuses and scares the heck out of me. I mean, what do you do..Ya I don't have the answers either..

You know what your lovely wife wants you to do. That is what you will do. Have total faith in that.

 

[tnman03]

Kids are watching out for me as I am watching out for them. Its the things in my head, things that I have learned, some recently and some go back a bit that I cannot talk to the kids about thats really tearing me up. But I forge onward...

All of you are in turmoil right now, and keeping it all together for each other, but sometimes it's important to have a sounding board to help with everything going on inside your head. It's never a bad idea to get your primary care doctor to refer you to a therapist. It's what got me through the loss of my parents and some surprises that came about during and after.

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

All of you are in turmoil right now, and keeping it all together for each other, but sometimes it's important to have a sounding board to help with everything going on inside your head. It's never a bad idea to get your primary care doctor to refer you to a therapist. It's what got me through the loss of my parents and some surprises that came about during and after.

Not for me. I am ok dealing with things in my own way, always have been. I watched both my son and sassy do it and I don't think it ever helped. But thats just me...

 

[MRSassySheDevil]

So Sassy's breathing has slowed and she has been pretty unresponsive the last couple days. I fear the time is coming close. But all of the kids are still here, bonding and spending time together...

 

[Cat]

So Sassy's breathing has slowed and she has been pretty unresponsive the last couple days. I fear the time is coming close. But all of the kids are still here, bonding and spending time together...

 

[Shady_nz]

So Sassy's breathing has slowed and she has been pretty unresponsive the last couple days. I fear the time is coming close. But all of the kids are still here, bonding and spending time together...

 

[barefootgirl69]

So Sassy's breathing has slowed and she has been pretty unresponsive the last couple days. I fear the time is coming close. But all of the kids are still here, bonding and spending time together...

I'm glad she's got you and the kids by her side.

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

This is soul destroying.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Thank you for being here with us, MrSassy.
I'm another person here who adores your wife.
She understood what I was going through like few can.
She's lived a full life and is so fucking loved.

I think Andrea Gibson says it best with their love letter below.

Wishing you all peace, comfort, and community.

LOVE LETTER FROM THE AFTERLIFE
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My love, I was so wrong. Dying is the opposite of leaving. When I left my body, I did not go away. That portal of light was not a portal to elsewhere, but a portal to here. I am more here than I ever was before. I am more with you than I ever could have imagined. So close you look past me when wondering where I am. It’s Ok. I know that to be human is to be farsighted. But feel me now, walking the chambers of your heart, pressing my palms to the soft walls of your living. Why did no one tell us that to die is to be reincarnated in those we love while they are still alive? Ask me the altitude of heaven, and I will answer, “How tall are you?” In my back pocket is a love note with every word you wish you’d said. At night I sit ecstatic at the loom weaving forgiveness into our worldly regrets. All day I listen to the radio of your memories. Yes, I know every secret you thought too dark to tell me, and love you more for everything you feared might make me love you less. When you cry I guide your tears toward the garden of kisses I once planted on your cheek, so you know they are all perennials. Forgive me, for not being able to weep with you. One day you will understand. One day you will know why I read the poetry of your grief to those waiting to be born, and they are all the more excited. There is nothing I want for now that we are so close I open the curtain of your eyelids with my own smile every morning. I wish you could see the beauty your spirit is right now making of your pain, your deep seated fears playing musical chairs, laughing about how real they are not. My love, I want to sing it through the rafters of your bones, Dying is the opposite of leaving. I want to echo it through the corridor of your temples, I am more with you than I ever was before. Do you understand? It was me who beckoned the stranger who caught you in her arms when you forgot not to order for two at the coffee shop. It was me who was up all night gathering sunflowers into your chest the last day you feared you would never again wake up feeling lighthearted. I know it’s hard to believe, but I promise it’s the truth. I promise one day you will say it too– I can’t believe I ever thought I could lose you.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Sending thoughts and love to you all

 

[AWonkyDonkey]

I'm afraid I have some sad news.

Just after midnight PDT, Sassy passed away with her family by her side. Of course, everyone here knows that the last couple of weeks has been extra challenging for Sassy's family and they've kept by her side as she navigated her final journey. She fought cancer with dignity and strength and did not deserve to have to endure this awful, evil disease.

@MRSassySheDevil said I should post this and he'll be along when he can.

I know Sassy meant a lot to quite a lot of people here. She was truly one of a kind and lived up to her username.

Sassy has been my best friend for the last nine years. She is - and forever will be - in my thoughts.

Rest in Peace Sassy.

 

[Shady_nz]

R.I.P Sassy

 

[AmberLGreen]