My bi urges

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

I'm a bi bottom leaning versatile and have been since my late teens. I'm 45 now.

Even as I'm transitioning, I prefer women or otherwise femme presenting individuals. What I do enjoy is cock, but not so much men (or masculinity in general). I don't kiss guys but have zero problems doing anything else for them.

And when those cravings come, all I can think about is stuffing my holes while they're demanding constant attention.

I think it's totally normal to have that craving. It's what you do with it that counts.

 

[Topher1972]

Describes me to a T.. I’m fortunate to have two great friends I’ve been friends with since little league that also feel the same way. We’re all
Married but have some fun once in a while when the moods hits. They know each other but have no clue I play with both of them

Nice! You’re lucky.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Hi Curious

Catching up after a week away without the internet. Hi Saddles

 

[Samantha47]

I’m the same. I am outwardly straight.
When I was at Uni I became more curious about what it would be like to have sex with another man.
It wasn’t until I was in my 30’s and married with kids that I finally took the plunge with someone I met on a business trip.
I found kissing another man a real turn on.
It was also the animal passion that was overwhelming. Neither of us wanted to have a relationship or fall in love. It was all about the sex. No emotional complications just pure sex.

Nice

 

[Samantha47]

I’m the same. I am outwardly straight.
When I was at Uni I became more curious about what it would be like to have sex with another man.
It wasn’t until I was in my 30’s and married with kids that I finally took the plunge with someone I met on a business trip.
I found kissing another man a real turn on.
It was also the animal passion that was overwhelming. Neither of us wanted to have a relationship or fall in love. It was all about the sex. No emotional complications just pure sex.

Oh yes

 

[trucker6142]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

I'm bi-curious, and the kissing man thing just doesn't do it for me.
But everything else does excite me beyond belief

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I was that way. The kissing came later with a little encouragement from a gay guy.

 

[bill3901]

Hi y’all. I’m married, love and couldn’t live without women but am sexually attracted to men as well. Not emotionally like being able to have feelings for or fall in love with a guy because I’m not interested in that. Don’t know if it’s even possible. I’m attracted to a good looking penis and man ass. I enjoy giving/receiving oral and anal but not kissing. Although the older I get the more I consider it. Anyway, what I want to know is if any guys out there are the same as I am in this way, my bi urges come and go. Most of the time I only have sex with women but I find myself fantasizing about sex with men regularly. I know that I’m not gay and that if I had to choose I’d prefer women over men but I’m lucky enough to be able to enjoy the best of both worlds. The urges, feelings or whatever may go away, sometimes even for a week or two but they always come back and sometimes even stronger. I know this is a natural part of me and I’ve accepted it long ago. So how normal is this and whom can relate?

I'm sexually attracted to my girlfriend being sexually attracted to me being bisexual

 

[MrMannson]

I’m completely in agreement with the original post. I have absolutely zero desire to kiss, hug, or anything else like that with another man. I don’t walk around and see a guy and say “oh he’s hot I gotta have it.” Nope.

That being said, my wife of many years began to engage in lots of anal play with me and it feels fantastic. So much so that she used her dildo on me. I came pretty hard. Now, I often wonder what a cock would feel like spreading my asshole, and pumping me full of cum.

I also want to take a soft cock, massage and play with it until it’s hard, lick the precum and eventually feel the pulse as it blows the load into my mouth.

Things like that drive me wild. My wife has no idea, although we have used things like fuck licking, cuck cleanup, and cum kissing in our bedroom talk. Sometimes I get so horny wanting the in person experience of these things.

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I am bicurious and really want to suck a cock and feel it pumping hot cum down my throat. This is what I have to offer you if you will share with me.
https://ibb.co/XtkHKKn
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hot pics. Happy to swap pictures

 

[pntyhseluvr]

I’m completely in agreement with the original post. I have absolutely zero desire to kiss, hug, or anything else like that with another man. I don’t walk around and see a guy and say “oh he’s hot I gotta have it.” Nope.

That being said, my wife of many years began to engage in lots of anal play with me and it feels fantastic. So much so that she used her dildo on me. I came pretty hard. Now, I often wonder what a cock would feel like spreading my asshole, and pumping me full of cum.

I also want to take a soft cock, massage and play with it until it’s hard, lick the precum and eventually feel the pulse as it blows the load into my mouth.

Things like that drive me wild. My wife has no idea, although we have used things like fuck licking, cuck cleanup, and cum kissing in our bedroom talk. Sometimes I get so horny wanting the in person experience of these things.

Have you eaten your cum from her? Every time I’ve tried mine has pushed me away

 

[MrMannson]

Have you eaten your cum from her? Every time I’ve tried mine has pushed me away

Absolutely I have. I love it. It drives her wild too. I always imagine it’s another man’s cum that I’m eating. Gets me off so many times.

She likes it too, and likes the idea of it being another man’s cum and im eating it. Sadly I don’t think I will ever encourage her to move past that into reality.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

I’m completely in agreement with the original post. I have absolutely zero desire to kiss, hug, or anything else like that with another man. I don’t walk around and see a guy and say “oh he’s hot I gotta have it.” Nope.

That being said, my wife of many years began to engage in lots of anal play with me and it feels fantastic. So much so that she used her dildo on me. I came pretty hard. Now, I often wonder what a cock would feel like spreading my asshole, and pumping me full of cum.

I also want to take a soft cock, massage and play with it until it’s hard, lick the precum and eventually feel the pulse as it blows the load into my mouth.

Things like that drive me wild. My wife has no idea, although we have used things like fuck licking, cuck cleanup, and cum kissing in our bedroom talk. Sometimes I get so horny wanting the in person experience of these things.

Are you sure she has no idea?

 

[MrMannson]

Are you sure she has no idea?

Well, I think she knows something, but even she is apprehensive to say anything.

We get hot and heavy in the bedroom, and I’ve been known to “confess” when I’m edging so close to cumming. She knows that I get turned on from the thought of being the bottom of a 69 with her and doing fuck licking. She knows I breathe heavier when I tell her how wrong it is for my tongue to be that close to another cock. She knows I’ve told her bedroom stories about cuckold cleanup of her and how I like it. Oh and there’s my ass…I can’t seem to stop wanting something shoved in there. It’s only gone as far as her dildo, but there’s times I almost tell her I wonder what a cock would feel like in there.

Hmm, maybe you’re right!!

 

[OlderBtm4U]

Well, I think she knows something, but even she is apprehensive to say anything.

We get hot and heavy in the bedroom, and I’ve been known to “confess” when I’m edging so close to cumming. She knows that I get turned on from the thought of being the bottom of a 69 with her and doing fuck licking. She knows I breathe heavier when I tell her how wrong it is for my tongue to be that close to another cock. She knows I’ve told her bedroom stories about cuckold cleanup of her and how I like it. Oh and there’s my ass…I can’t seem to stop wanting something shoved in there. It’s only gone as far as her dildo, but there’s times I almost tell her I wonder what a cock would feel like in there.

Hmm, maybe you’re right!!

Thanks for sharing.

 

[FLuvsNipsnDicks]

I have no desire to kiss a man........I just want to suck a disease free and very discrete guys cock and take it in my tight ass.......I started having these desires early in life and they haven't subsided.......now I just need to be brave enough to follow through........I have been practicing with cock shaped dildo's for a very long time....

That is so hot!! I would love to see that…mmmm

 

[beenawhile4u]

My wife checks my phone for apps so can’t use anything with a Phone number. I use. Anti, but that’s it for now.may be getting a divorce soon, and then I’m free to do what I want.

I'll suck you as you suck my hard long thick cock and drink my love juices as my girlfriend fucks us both with her very huge strap-on and this is real not fantasy so if you want to play let's play

 

[BiCuriousWriter]

No its not something she'd be interested in. I'd love an all in 3 way, him filling her, me cleaning him until he filled my throat, him really giving it to me while she jacks me off. Ive thought this through LOL

My favourite type of three way, all for all. A fantasy still, though

 

[beenawhile4u]

My favourite type of three way, all for all. A fantasy still, though

ill love ho fill you and wstch you clean my girl pussy as I cum in her and on her clean up boy,ANC you will ride this cock as she sucks you off

 

[MaturemanAJ]

I want to try my very first real cock I'm older and know what I want and my girl has brought it out very much in the last two years I'm very curious and she wants to watch my first cock and

You are a lucky guy to have such an open minded woman

 

[beenawhile4u]

You are a lucky guy to have such an open minded woman

yes she is very understanding and very real and supportive and willing to help fullfill any and all fantasies and more

 

[curioustxn]

Well, I think she knows something, but even she is apprehensive to say anything.

We get hot and heavy in the bedroom, and I’ve been known to “confess” when I’m edging so close to cumming. She knows that I get turned on from the thought of being the bottom of a 69 with her and doing fuck licking. She knows I breathe heavier when I tell her how wrong it is for my tongue to be that close to another cock. She knows I’ve told her bedroom stories about cuckold cleanup of her and how I like it. Oh and there’s my ass…I can’t seem to stop wanting something shoved in there. It’s only gone as far as her dildo, but there’s times I almost tell her I wonder what a cock would feel like in there.

Hmm, maybe you’re right!!

Maybe your wife wants a mmf threesome, and like yourself, afraid to tell you?

 

[beenawhile4u]

Maybe your wife wants a mmf threesome, and like yourself, afraid to tell you?

sounds very good got Mr hard reading your words

 

[MrMannson]

Maybe your wife wants a mmf threesome, and like yourself, afraid to tell you?

I do think she would be interested, if I could coerce her with enough alcohol. She’s very self conscious about herself even though she’s a beautiful woman.

 

[curioustxn]

I do think she would be interested, if I could coerce her with enough alcohol. She’s very self conscious about herself even though she’s a beautiful woman.

You can find out more from a woman by asking questions than making statements.

Perhaps one night when you are playing, and *both* of you are very aroused, you might say something like: "I wonder what it's like to get fucked?" Then add: "Have you ever thought about a threesome with another man?" "You know - - maybe a man we could both enjoy?"

Even if her initial reaction is negative, after a woman thinks about something for a while, she will often warm-up to the idea. Women do evolve and grow sexually, but as a man, you have to be patient and compassionate.