How much do you enjoy giving and receiving?

[Celticlight]

1. R Being eaten out 10
2.G Blowjob 10
3.G Handjob 8
4. R Fingering 8
5. R Penetrative: penis in vagina 10
6. R Rimming 6 G 0
7. R Penetrative: penis in ass 7
8. R Fisting 2
9. R Mouth/tongue on nipples 9

There’s a 19 out of 10 experience I can think of that I’m sure you’re going to love

That’s how it works, right…?

 

[KimberlyG]

There’s a 19 out of 10 experience I can think of that I’m sure you’re going to love

That’s how it works, right…?

Something like that.

 

[gtnlynn]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G: 10
2. Blowjob: R: 10
3. Handjob: R:10
4. Fingering: G: 10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina: G: 10
6. Rimming: Unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass: 0/0 for both
8. Fisting: 0/0 for both
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: G: 10 R: 5

 

[Wildfly11]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G 9
2. Blowjob R 9
3. Handjob R 9
4. Fingering G8
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina 8
6. Rimming 7p
7. Penetrative: penis in ass 9
8. Fisting 2
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples 9

 

[UtilityCurve]

Now that explanation for why you like a handjob absolutely makes sense to me. It sounds like it's the mental excitement from her words that makes this a clear winner above a blowjob. As for bareback and a truly receptive partner, I can't really wrap my mind around a woman not wanting it! Isn't it kind of the whole point? Of course it's risky if you don't do it right but if she's smart she's on birth control and chooses a partner that is safe so they can truly enjoy each other fully. That includes her being fully pumped into when he cums. Still, vaginal penetration isn't at the top of my list even though I love knowing I'm full of his cum.

Number 6 will happen one day and I will so very gladly go first or reciprocate in the hopes he enjoys it It might end up being a favorite or maybe neither of us will find it that amazing but that's the fun of trying it out, right?

I appreciate your description of where a woman's mind travels to when her breasts are being sucked on the first time. First you can't believe he's really doing this, then it feels so amazing, and then you realize that this lover is gifting you an experience that deserves to be reciprocated in some way and that's both a turn on and nearly terrifying if it's the first time ever going there! Now it just feels amazing even if I'm not thinking about anything and if something feels good enough my mind just fills up with overload from the sensation and I don't have room to think about anything as my orgasm washes over me.

If it were possible to give you a million stars or thumbs up or whatever, that would still not be enough to thank you for the insights into what my partners have felt all these years.

One description makes me sad, though: At least for me, the joy at sucking a girl/woman's breasts is pure. I simply cannot believe that something I enjoy so much is enjoyed by her even more (by all appearances--I would never presume I "hit the spot" unless told I had).

I know boys/men have a deserved reputation for focusing on their arousal and ejaculation (guilty as charged), but if I am honest, that only applies to girls/women I have no (and I mean no) interest in spending the rest of my life with. I may be weird, but some girls (and they were all girls) thrilled and enchanted me that way, until I met my wife, who blew out the scale a hundredfold. All the rest? Fun, I hope they remember it fondly, but I am not going to claim it was her pleasure, not mine, that I remember. (ONE exception, not Literable, PM only.)

 

[DarkestParts]

1. 10/10 both
2. 10/10 G
3. 7/10 G
4. 10/10 R
5. 10/10 R
6. 1/10 G 4/10 R
7. 7/10 R
8. 0/10 R
9 10/10 R

Great numbers Thanks for adding to the post! I'm fascinated by everyone's answers.

 

[DarkestParts]

1. R Being eaten out 10
2.G Blowjob 10
3.G Handjob 8
4. R Fingering 8
5. R Penetrative: penis in vagina 10
6. R Rimming 6 G 0
7. R Penetrative: penis in ass 7
8. R Fisting 2
9. R Mouth/tongue on nipples 9

Glad to have your numbers!

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G: 10
2. Blowjob: R: 10
3. Handjob: R:10
4. Fingering: G: 10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina: G: 10
6. Rimming: Unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass: 0/0 for both
8. Fisting: 0/0 for both
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: G: 10 R: 5

Solid addition to the scores so far!

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G 9
2. Blowjob R 9
3. Handjob R 9
4. Fingering G8
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina 8
6. Rimming 7p
7. Penetrative: penis in ass 9
8. Fisting 2
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples 9

Another oral pleaser!

I'm actually surprised how many men seem to enjoy going down on their female partner.

 

[CuriousRick]

1. Eating her out G 10 I honestly enjoy pleasing my partner.

2. Blowjob

R 10

3. Handjob

R 10

4. Fingering

G 10 see #1

5. Penetrative: penis in vagina

G 10 the ultimate connection

6. Rimming

G 0 R 6.

7. Penetrative: penis in ass

G 8 only if she is into it

8. Fisting

G/R 0

9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

G/R 10

 

[cadman7777]

Glad to have your numbers!

Solid addition to the scores so far!


Another oral pleaser!

I'm actually surprised how many men seem to enjoy going down on their female partner.

Seriously?......I love it. Oddly my wife isn't into it that much at all.....only woman I've been with that didn't

 

[DarkestParts]

If it were possible to give you a million stars or thumbs up or whatever, that would still not be enough to thank you for the insights into what my partners have felt all these years.

One description makes me sad, though: At least for me, the joy at sucking a girl/woman's breasts is pure. I simply cannot believe that something I enjoy so much is enjoyed by her even more (by all appearances--I would never presume I "hit the spot" unless told I had).

I should have said that was where my mind went. I certainly can't speak for all of women kind, lol.

Perhaps I'm misunderstanding but are you saying that you're sad that a woman would get more enjoyment than you out of the experience of you sucking her breasts?

 

[DarkestParts]

G 10 the ultimate connection

I used to think so but now I think it may depend on the partner. With one partner I've felt more connection through other avenues of pleasure.

 

[CuriousRick]

I used to think so but now I think it may depend on the partner. With one partner I've felt more connection through other avenues of pleasure.

I can see that. I am sure it depends on the type of relationship too

 

[Petereater]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G10+ R10
2. Blowjob G10+
3. Handjob G10
4. Fingering R most men are not has effective has women are G10+
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina R10
6. Rimming G10+ R10+
7. Penetrative: penis in ass never have been
8. Fisting; GOD NO
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G10 R10 I do love to have my nipples sucked and bitten

 

[gtnlynn]

Glad to have your numbers!

Solid addition to the scores so far!


Another oral pleaser!

I'm actually surprised how many men seem to enjoy going down on their female partner.

I love doing that with my wife. I have never had an unpleasant experience eating her pussy.

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G10 R10
2. Blowjob G10
3. Handjob G10
4. Fingering R most men are not has effective has women are G10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina R10
6. Rimming G10 R10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass never have been
8. Fisting; GOD NO
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G10 R10

I'm rather fascinated that 6 scored so high but 7 hasn't happened yet. Do you want it to?

 

[Petereater]

I'm rather fascinated that 6 scored so high but 7 hasn't happened yet. Do you want it to?

I do enjoy rimming both a man and a woman, I also enjoy being rimmed. I have been penetrated by a finger, and a small dildo, but have no desire for a man to fuck my ass, I do not trust them. I would have trusted my ex, but he was to large.

 

[DarkestParts]

I do enjoy rimming both a man and a woman, I also enjoy being rimmed. I have been penetrated by a finger, and a small dildo, but have no desire for a man to fuck my ass, I do not trust them. I would have trusted my ex, but he was to large.

Oh, I see. How was the dildo experience for you? I was so excited to find that it felt as good as having my pussy penetrated. It was different but equally as good in my opinion.

 

[Petereater]

Oh, I see. How was the dildo experience for you? I was so excited to find that it felt as good as having my pussy penetrated. It was different but equally as good in my opinion.

The first time was exciting my girlfriend, at the time, slipped a slim vibrating dildo slowly in, she was also going down on me so I came very fast. Since that first time I have bought several slim toys just for the purpose of playing with my bum, it’s okay but not on the top of my list, and doesn’t come close to vaginal penetration.

 

[VictoriaWrites]

Out of an abundance of curiosity, does anyone want to score the following in terms of enjoyability both for receiving (R) and giving (G):

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

Please add anything else to the list too!

Here's what my list looks like so far as a female:

1. R 10/10, G unknown
2. G 10/10
3. G 6/10
4. R 9/10, G unknown
5. R 8/10
6. Sadly unknown
7. Unknown but a dildo feels great!
8. Unknown
9. R 9/10, G 8/10

Sex is a veritable mixed bag of pleasure but I'm wondering if some clear preferences will emerge. So, what about you?

I’m not into being fisted, fucked anal, or rimming. I like doing everything else with a man. Most importantly, I like being wanted, respected, loved and admired. I learned at an early age that lots of boys wanted to fuck me but few if any wanted to be seen with me. I was fat, short, and did not have the prettiest face in school to say the least. It hurt being an outcast. When I reached my mid twenties, I learned that there are lots of men who mature in middle age and in their senior years. It’s easier to find meaningful relationships that translate to wonderful sex. I’m in my sixties now and only date stable, successful men over 50. Mostly married like me.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I should have said that was where my mind went. I certainly can't speak for all of women kind, lol.

Perhaps I'm misunderstanding but are you saying that you're sad that a woman would get more enjoyment than you out of the experience of you sucking her breasts?

A-B-S-O-L-U-T--K-L-E-Y

I should have said that was where my mind went. I certainly can't speak for all of women kind, lol.

Perhaps I'm misunderstanding but are you saying that you're sad that a woman would get more enjoyment than you out of the experience of you sucking her breasts?

I would hope so with all my being.

 

[HotWifeOC]

Yes, earlier in our relationship, I would finger my girlfriend. Her pussy got so wet and my cock was straining so hard to get out that my precum was literally leaking like a sieve. I was so charged up, but sexually frustrated that I'd tremble all the way home.

Thanks for your cheerleading, but many of those ships have sailed.

That's hott

 

[RozayTrell]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G 10/10
2. Blowjob unknown never done it
3. Handjob R 8/10
4. Fingering G 10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 10/10
6. Rimming unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass G 7/10
8. Fisting G 4/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G 10/10

 

[DarkestParts]

Most importantly, I like being wanted, respected, loved and admired.

When I reached my mid twenties, I learned that there are lots of men who mature in middle age and in their senior years. It’s easier to find meaningful relationships that translate to wonderful sex. I’m in my sixties now and only date stable, successful men over 50. Mostly married like me.

I absolutely hear you! If someone doesn't like me on the personal level, I have no interest in connecting physically. I'm a full human being and this body is but the outside shell of who I am. I only want to share the outside if they have an appreciation for the true me who's inside. I had to giggle at your last couple of sentences about dating a stable man who was married. I know exactly what you mean but isn't it funny that we are okay with or may even prefer having a man who is attached to someone else?

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out G 10/10
2. Blowjob unknown never done it
3. Handjob R 8/10
4. Fingering G 10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 10/10
6. Rimming unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass G 7/10
8. Fisting G 4/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G 10/10

Have you received a blowjob?

 

[RozayTrell]

Have you received a blowjob?

Oops messed up on that answer I have R and it’s 10/10 never gave