How much do you enjoy giving and receiving?

[DarkestParts]

Out of an abundance of curiosity, does anyone want to score the following in terms of enjoyability both for receiving (R) and giving (G):

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

Please add anything else to the list too!

Here's what my list looks like so far as a female:

1. R 10/10, G unknown
2. G 10/10
3. G 6/10
4. R 9/10, G unknown
5. R 8/10
6. Sadly unknown
7. Unknown but a dildo feels great!
8. Unknown
9. R 9/10, G 8/10

Sex is a veritable mixed bag of pleasure but I'm wondering if some clear preferences will emerge. So, what about you?

 

[masterslave00]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out - G 10/10
2. Blowjob - R 10/10
3. Handjob - R 10/10
4. Fingering - G 10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 10/10
6. Rimming - R&G 8/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass - G&R 10/10 (strap on when receiving, not into MM)
8. Fisting - G 5/10 R never tried
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G&R 10/10

 

[LFM90]

9: G10/10
1: G10/10
4: G10/10

 

[DarkestParts]

9: G10/10
1: G10/10
4: G10/10

What about receiving? Or are you just a selfless giver?

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

1. Eating her out: (G) 10/10
2. Blowjob: (R) 10/10
3. Handjob: (R) 8/10
4. Fingering: (G) 6/10, although it was way higher when it was the primary sexual act with a former girlfriend
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina: (G) 7/10, although you'd never know it with the way my cock acts
6. Rimming: (G) 4/10, (R) 7/10 (only received briefly once)
7. Penetrative: penis in ass (G) 9/10 unsuccessful attempt with my wife, but I almost came before I got it in at all (R) unknown, but on a rare occasion, I've tried a dildo in my ass with about a 3/10 score
8. Fisting: Unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: (G) 7/10, I love to suck on my wife's nipples (R) Unknown - never had it done to me, but I'd certainly like to try it.

 

[LFM90]

I’m a giver

What about receiving? Or are you just a selfless giver?

i am a selfless giver

 

[OneEyedSteve]

All 10s except no8. Fisting I can take or leave

 

[annmsguy]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out (G) 10,
2. Blowjob (R) 10
3. Handjob (R) 7, only that low b/c some just don’t know how to do that very well.
4. Fingering (G) 10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina (G) 10
6. Rimming never received, tried to go there giving once and got redirected.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass. Never. Never.
8. Fisting. Hell to the naw.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples (G) 10, (R) 5. Only ever had 2 partners do that. It’s nice. Enjoyed it from a connection standpoint. But there is no sensation there.

 

[NapierBone]

Out of an abundance of curiosity, does anyone want to score the following in terms of enjoyability both for receiving (R) and giving (G):

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

Please add anything else to the list too!

1. G 9
2. R 8
3. R 8
4. G 6
5. G 7
6. G 10 R 2
7. G 6 R (strap on) 8
8. G 5
9. G 6 R 8

 

[cadman7777]

Throw out fisting and I'm 10/10 giving and receiving......of course the dirty/fantasy talk has to a part pf all of it.....But I always love whatever I'm doing or whatever I'm getting at the time

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out - G 10/10
2. Blowjob - R 10/10
3. Handjob - R 10/10
4. Fingering - G 10/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 10/10
6. Rimming - R&G 8/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass - G&R 10/10 (strap on when receiving, not into MM)
8. Fisting - G 5/10 R never tried
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G&R 10/10

I'm going to strive to accomplish these kinds of scores!

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out: (G) 10/10
2. Blowjob: (R) 10/10
3. Handjob: (R) 8/10
4. Fingering: (G) 6/10, although it was way higher when it was the primary sexual act with a former girlfriend
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina: (G) 7/10, although you'd never know it with the way my cock acts
6. Rimming: (G) 4/10, (R) 7/10 (only received briefly once)
7. Penetrative: penis in ass (G) 9/10 unsuccessful attempt wit my wife, but I almost came before I got it in at all (R) unknown, but on a rare occasion, I've tried a dildo in my ass with about a 3/10 score
8. Fisting: Unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples: (G) 7/10, I love to suck om my wife's nipples (R) Unknown - never had it done to me, but I'd certainly like to try it.

Fingering is so hot when it's the naughtiest thing you can do. Was that the case for you? I hope you get more rimming! I feel like a sex cheerleader, lol. I also really hope you get to try more anal on a partner, and that you get those nipples loved on.

 

[DarkestParts]

All 10s except no8. Fisting I can take or leave

Goals!

 

[DarkestParts]

1. Eating her out/being eaten out (G) 10,
2. Blowjob (R) 10
3. Handjob (R) 7, only that low b/c some just don’t know how to do that very well.
4. Fingering (G) 10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina (G) 10
6. Rimming never received, tried to go there giving once and got redirected.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass. Never. Never.
8. Fisting. Hell to the naw.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples (G) 10, (R) 5. Only ever had 2 partners do that. It’s nice. Enjoyed it from a connection standpoint. But there is no sensation there.

Your answers on 7 and 8 have me chuckling, lol! There being no sensation with you nipples intrigues me. I'm guessing you mean that you feel it but it has no sexual fire at all?

 

[DarkestParts]

1. G 9
2. R 8
3. R 8
4. G 6
5. G 7
6. G 10 R 2
7. G 6 R (strap on) 8
8. G 5
9. G 6 R 8

Solid numbers! Very nice.

 

[DarkestParts]

Throw out fisting and I'm 10/10 giving and receiving......of course the dirty/fantasy talk has to a part pf all of it.....But I always love whatever I'm doing or whatever I'm getting at the time

That's an awesome stance to have. Yes to the dirty/fantasy talk although there are so many times when it just feels so good I want to just focus on that one feeling coming through my body. I'm very sensitive though.

 

[Seokrocks]

Eating - G 10/10
2. Blowjob - R 9/10
3. Handjob - R 7/10
4. Fingering - G 8/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 9/10
6. Rimming - R&G unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass - G 4/10 R unknown
8. Fisting - unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G 10/10. R 8/10
Anything might be 10/10 if it pleases my partner enough.

 

[DarkestParts]

Eating - G 10/10
2. Blowjob - R 9/10
3. Handjob - R 7/10
4. Fingering - G 8/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina G 9/10
6. Rimming - R&G unknown
7. Penetrative: penis in ass - G 4/10 R unknown
8. Fisting - unknown
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples G 10/10. R 8/10
Anything might be 10/10 if it pleases my partner enough.

Good point on pleasing a partner - when they are really into something it makes it that much hotter!

 

[annmsguy]

Your answers on 7 and 8 have me chuckling, lol! There being no sensation with you nipples intrigues me. I'm guessing you mean that you feel it but it has no sexual fire at all?

7. I’m very straight. My penis is the only one I’m interested in. Don’t mean to say I’m against prostate stimulation and anal play with a woman. Just don’t do men, period.
8. Fisting- obviously a negative for receiving. Giving…if I can get my fist in there I feel like fucking is going to wind up being the proverbial hotdog down a hallway.

 

[StrongMaster7]

All scores are receiving/giving

1. Eating her out/being eaten out 10/10
2. Blowjob 10/NA
3. Handjob 10/NA
4. Fingering NA/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina NA/10
6. Rimming 10/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass NA/NA I am not gay.
8. Fisting NA/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples 5/10

 

[DarkestParts]

All scores are receiving/giving

1. Eating her out/being eaten out 10/10
2. Blowjob 10/NA
3. Handjob 10/NA
4. Fingering NA/10
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina NA/10
6. Rimming 10/10
7. Penetrative: penis in ass NA/NA I am not gay.
8. Fisting NA/10
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples 5/10

We have another high 10's! I love how polarizing 7 and 8 are. It makes this interesting!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Fingering is so hot when it's the naughtiest thing you can do. Was that the case for you? I hope you get more rimming! I feel like a sex cheerleader, lol. I also really hope you get to try more anal on a partner, and that you get those nipples loved on.

Yes, earlier in our relationship, I would finger my girlfriend. Her pussy got so wet and my cock was straining so hard to get out that my precum was literally leaking like a sieve. I was so charged up, but sexually frustrated that I'd tremble all the way home.

Thanks for your cheerleading, but many of those ships have sailed.

 

[UtilityCurve]

As a guy:

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
>Did a girl before she did me. Would not have had it any other way.
2. Blowjob
>Wonderful, tender, but not my favorite way for her to try to get me off.
3. Handjob
>NOW you're talking. I mean literally: What you say when you are stroking my cock is the BEST.
4. Fingering
>There will never be anything more satisfying for me than feeling your pussy gets wet and wetter and wetter ...
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
>As long as it's bareback and you tell me (no passive acceptance) you want my cum in you.
6. Rimming
>I totally get you might not want to DO it, but I do, to make you feel something maybe no other man has.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
>My first said, "Of course it hurts a little at first, but then it doesn't and then I get out of my mind the way you enjoy it."
8. Fisting
>Never done, but always willing.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
>Is there anything that takes you back to more than kid-stuff fooling around when you were young? The top is off (or pulled up/down) and the bra is open. This is FOR REAL. If there's any rational thought when your anticipation and sensation finally merge as he sucks your titties, you know he's a hard as steel doing it and you devote some of the focus that ought to be exclusively on how your breast(s) feel on "OMG, what am *I* supposed to do about it?" Sorry, love, every girl has to face the question and answer it in her own way.

 

[DarkestParts]

As a guy:

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
>Did a girl before she did me. Would not have had it any other way.
2. Blowjob
>Wonderful, tender, but not my favorite way for her to try to get me off.
3. Handjob
>NOW you're talking. I mean literally: What you say when you are stroking my cock is the BEST.
4. Fingering
>There will never be anything more satisfying for me than feeling your pussy gets wet and wetter and wetter ...
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
>As long as it's bareback and you tell me (no passive acceptance) you want my cum in you.
6. Rimming
>I totally get you might not want to DO it, but I do, to make you feel something maybe no other man has.
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
>My first said, "Of course it hurts a little at first, but then it doesn't and then I get out of my mind the way you enjoy it."
8. Fisting
>Never done, but always willing.
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples
>Is there anything that takes you back to more than kid-stuff fooling around when you were young? The top is off (or pulled up/down) and the bra is open. This is FOR REAL. If there's any rational thought when your anticipation and sensation finally merge as he sucks your titties, you know he's a hard as steel doing it and you devote some of the focus that ought to be exclusively on how your breast(s) feel on "OMG, what am *I* supposed to do about it?" Sorry, love, every girl has to face the question and answer it in her own way.

Now that explanation for why you like a handjob absolutely makes sense to me. It sounds like it's the mental excitement from her words that makes this a clear winner above a blowjob. As for bareback and a truly receptive partner, I can't really wrap my mind around a woman not wanting it! Isn't it kind of the whole point? Of course it's risky if you don't do it right but if she's smart she's on birth control and chooses a partner that is safe so they can truly enjoy each other fully. That includes her being fully pumped into when he cums. Still, vaginal penetration isn't at the top of my list even though I love knowing I'm full of his cum.

Number 6 will happen one day and I will so very gladly go first or reciprocate in the hopes he enjoys it It might end up being a favorite or maybe neither of us will find it that amazing but that's the fun of trying it out, right?

I appreciate your description of where a woman's mind travels to when her breasts are being sucked on the first time. First you can't believe he's really doing this, then it feels so amazing, and then you realize that this lover is gifting you an experience that deserves to be reciprocated in some way and that's both a turn on and nearly terrifying if it's the first time ever going there! Now it just feels amazing even if I'm not thinking about anything and if something feels good enough my mind just fills up with overload from the sensation and I don't have room to think about anything as my orgasm washes over me.

 

[CliodhnaOB]

Out of an abundance of curiosity, does anyone want to score the following in terms of enjoyability both for receiving (R) and giving (G):

1. Eating her out/being eaten out
2. Blowjob
3. Handjob
4. Fingering
5. Penetrative: penis in vagina
6. Rimming
7. Penetrative: penis in ass
8. Fisting
9. Mouth/tongue on nipples

Please add anything else to the list too!

Here's what my list looks like so far as a female:

1. R 10/10, G unknown
2. G 10/10
3. G 6/10
4. R 9/10, G unknown
5. R 8/10
6. Sadly unknown
7. Unknown but a dildo feels great!
8. Unknown
9. R 9/10, G 8/10

Sex is a veritable mixed bag of pleasure but I'm wondering if some clear preferences will emerge. So, what about you?

1. 10/10 both
2. 10/10 G
3. 7/10 G
4. 10/10 R
5. 10/10 R
6. 1/10 G 4/10 R
7. 7/10 R
8. 0/10 R
9 10/10 R