Pegging

[Zenheredonethat]

Thanks for your input. I will definitely check out the fuse line up. Will definitely share a review regardless.

 

[Akpervert]

Need help
So long and short... I am a big burly tough man and my sex life with my wife has been non existent until recently. I have recently had the thought of my wife pegging me and trying it once. She has pegged her ex in the past an said she wasn't into it much. However she also at one point was engaged to a woman. I asked her the other morning if she wanted to and she said no emphatically. She asked me if I wanted her to and I played it off as a way for her to be dominant and I didn't want it. But honestly I do want to try it once and just ravage her after hearing her tits smacking her body with the thrusts. In secret I've used an old dildo of hers in my ass a few times. What should I do???

Try it. You'll like it. Ask her to do it to you. And relax with it.

 

[Akpervert]

I swear, if my stepdaughter came out of the bedroom holding a strap on in her hand and called out my name, I don’t think I could get my clothes off fast enough

OMG, you took the words out of my mouth. And put that never-ending video into my head again. If mine did that, I'd roll over and open up before she could reach me.

 

[Akpervert]

We use coconut oil also, or just ky. The oil isn’t overly compatible with ours toys so we put condoms on as a barrier.

I've been using coconut oil for YEARS now, and thoroughly enjoy it and all that cums, er comes with it.
My wife...doesn't like coconut, and who knows what else there is that she doesn't like.
But I find it slicker, longer and better than any of the commercial lubes I've tried to date. It doesn't get sticky, or gummy, or 'dry.' It's natural.

 

[Akpervert]

Angellus, I am in the same boat as you. I too love to be pegged, and my wife has done it with me a few times. She however does not enjoy it like I do. Also, she has become uninterested in sex in general. We are both older. We have talked about this and the consensus is get what you need elsewhere, I just don't want to know about it. Hope you have better luck, because finding it elsewhere is not easy, and usually involves prostitutes.

Did you reach into my head and pull this answer out? You're telling my tale.
Except for the 'get what you need elsewhere' part. She just doesn't understand how that works. She just figures I'm happy with thee 'go without' shit. But I'm NOT!
If I had a woman offer to peg me - I'd walk a mile without shoes to get the her.

 

[Akpervert]

Goodmorning. Sit down together. Explain to your wife how you really want to try something different. Explain that once you have experienced your Pegging that in return you will agree on something your wife has wanted to do . Hopefully the two of you can come to enjoy eachothers sexy ideas . Many years ago my partner wouldn't ever entertain Pegging. Then after we sat and chatted it soon became agreeable and enjoyable bothways. But you must be kind. Thoughtful and respectful in the answer your wife gives you

That might work in some relationships and places. I've appealed to my wife - many times - with neat, orderly, well-thought-out pleas and arguments. To no avail. I get 'lip service' - "Okay, honey, we'll do it for you..." and it's now been since August, '23 that she 'helped me with my desire.'

 

[LMWM321]

OMG, you took the words out of my mouth. And put that never-ending video into my head again. If mine did that, I'd roll over and open up before she could reach me.

There's no shame in admitting to your wife you want to be pegged. But just imagine if she knew you wanted to be pegged by her daughter who lives under your roof? Sound like child abuse to me. WTF, people?

 

[Akpervert]

There's no shame in admitting to your wife you want to be pegged. But just imagine if she knew you wanted to be pegged by her daughter who lives under your roof? Sound like child abuse to me. WTF, people?

Uh, let's show a bit of restraint before we get too rowdy here! Stuff your addled conclusions where that pegging dildo should go. Ain't NO CHILD abuse going on here.

Her daughter (the step-) was 52 on Valentines Day; she has literally NEVER lived under my roof - except for occasional visits (she lives 3,000 miles away!); she has been married (to four different men) during the 20+ years my wife and I have been married; and her daughter-and-I have shared more with each other about our sex lives and sexual preferences than her up-tight, nearly frigid mother has to share. Her daughter, my step- is one of the sexiest, hottest, and most 'fun loving' women I have ever known; we use each other as 'sounding boards' for our sexual frustrations with our mates.

Oh, and the wife is just NOT INTO my sexual kinks and desires (or even regular, plain-old sex!) - so I go without! Step's guy right now is not barely keeping her satisfied - so she's been going without! We have mutually agreed that there should be a 'solution' - there are both men and women who 1) don't have hangups about some things, and; 2) have pent-up and or unsatisfied desires for more or different sex, and; 3) we believe that, just like a cold or an ache or pain, something SHOULD be able to be done about it.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I've been using coconut oil for YEARS now, and thoroughly enjoy it and all that cums, er comes with it.
My wife...doesn't like coconut, and who knows what else there is that she doesn't like.
But I find it slicker, longer and better than any of the commercial lubes I've tried to date. It doesn't get sticky, or gummy, or 'dry.' It's natural.

Yes it has a lower reapplication rate, we have also used baby oil gel on occasion. It just depends on what we are doing.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

So hello, it has been a while and we finally made it happen. It is a rippled five and three-quarter inch doc Johnson that really isn’t too big. It’s comfortable. The harness also worked well held in place so how did it go? Well, it went great. I decided to ride on top of her, and she enthusiastically thrust it up into me smiling at my lustful face pinching my nipples tapping me on the hips, telling me how good I was. I got so hard while riding her that I had to eventually just jump off and return the favor. She was totally soaked , if you’d like to know more feel free to DM

 

[Akpervert]

So hello, it has been a while and we finally made it happen. It is a rippled five and three-quarter inch doc Johnson that really isn’t too big. It’s comfortable. The harness also worked well held in place so how did it go? Well, it went great. I decided to ride on top of her, and she enthusiastically thrust it up into me smiling at my lustful face pinching my nipples tapping me on the hips, telling me how good I was. I got so hard while riding her that I had to eventually just jump off and return the favor. She was totally soaked , if you’d like to know more feel free to DM

Lucky you! Try a pair of "pegging panties" sometime. They're GREAT for her to wear.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

I do feel extremely fortunate to have such a woman as my wife. The only thing I would change is that I wish I had gone with a bigger dildo. I have played with much larger objects. She’s unaware of all that that. But I also didn’t want to scare her off the first time.

 

[Akpervert]

So, you've broken 'new ice' with her. Now you can easily 'ramp up' to the size you want, and she'll think that's the way it works. It's the 'first time shock' of doing/seeing it that usually stops the clock.
Mine just 'isn't into it, and doesn't want to get into it' to accommodate my desires. I'd love to find a 'friend with benefits' who would help me out here.

 

[Zenheredonethat]

Is she open to that arrangement? I don’t quite understand the control type of dynamic. “I am not going to, and neither will you,” type of mentality.
If something were to happen and I could not preform for my wife, and she still wanted what I could not provide, I would be all for her experiencing pleasure.

 

[bisissyhusband1]

My wife walked in on me watching pegging porn while ramming a dildo in my ass. She asked me to show her some of the pegging porn. She got turned on and masturbated while watching the pegging porn with me. She later bought a strapon and now pegs me all the time, and I love it. She has also let several of her girl friends peg me at a pegging party we held.

 

[Akpervert]

My wife walked in on me watching pegging porn while ramming a dildo in my ass. She asked me to show her some of the pegging porn. She got turned on and masturbated while watching the pegging porn with me. She later bought a strapon and now pegs me all the time, and I love it. She has also let several of her girl friends peg me at a pegging party we held.

Though I’m not a “sissy hub”, I would roll over and expose my hole to most any woman who wanted to do that to me.
That would be a come dream true if it happened to me.
But my wife is repulsed by it.

 

[LMWM321]

So, if a straight man enjoying a dildo in his ass means he’s actually gay… Does a gay women enjoying a dildo in her vagina mean she’s actually straight?

 

[LMWM321]

Though I’m not a “sissy hub”, I would roll over and expose my hole to most any woman who wanted to do that to me.

But my wife is repulsed by it.

Sheesh…. Well, maybe if you eased into it by doing this in the dark. I can’t blame your wife for not wanting to see anything unpleasant as a dildo is sliding in and out of you. My wife enjoys doing this to me, but I don’t think she adores how I look down there. In fact, I think she spends as little time looking as she can. So this is mostly a near total darkness activity for us , at least presently

Try to see it from her perspective. In fact do exactly that; use a mirror and see what’s going on down there. And maybe do some grooming. Most women, I think, don’t wanna see a nasty tangle of hair down there. And if you were not willing to do some personal grooming… Part of the blame for not getting the pegging you want is yours.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Love being pegged, and my wife love pegging me.

 

[perturbedmusic]

Love being pegged, and my wife love pegging me.

Wow! You’re a lucky man. That sounds like a dream

 

[Lucien_Al]

Harness shorts and double ended harness dildo should be delivered on Monday so we can move on to her pegging me with a wearable rather than just her dildo collection. Cant wait.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

Wow! You’re a lucky man. That sounds like a dream

I am lucky.

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Anyone have links to pics/ vids/ stories that show why you find this so exciting?

I am aroused and intrigued…

 

[Akpervert]

Sheesh…. Well, maybe if you eased into it by doing this in the dark. I can’t blame your wife for not wanting to see anything unpleasant as a dildo is sliding in and out of you. My wife enjoys doing this to me, but I don’t think she adores how I look down there. In fact, I think she spends as little time looking as she can. So this is mostly a near total darkness activity for us , at least presently

Try to see it from her perspective. In fact do exactly that; use a mirror and see what’s going on down there. And maybe do some grooming. Most women, I think, don’t wanna see a nasty tangle of hair down there. And if you were not willing to do some personal grooming… Part of the blame for not getting the pegging you want is yours.

This might just be THE most condescending, arrogant, useless comment I have ever read.
Your haughty commentary about all of the things you imply that I might be doing, or not doing, is just that - haughty, arrogant, and baseless.

 

[LMWM321]

This might just be THE most condescending, arrogant, useless comment I have ever read.
Your haughty commentary about all of the things you imply that I might be doing, or not doing, is just that - haughty, arrogant, and baseless.

Really? I would think your use of the term "sissyhub" would be more likely to offend than anything I said.

Look.. you said your wife is repulsed by the idea of pegging you while, in the same breath, described your way of asking for it as "rolling over and exposing your hole." ..So, sue me for thinking there may be a connection between what you're getting (or not) and how you're asking for it.

As for suggesting that men groom their undercarriage to make the idea of being pegged more appealing to their partner..well, it's a thought that might not have occurred to some people. So, even if the comment annoyed you, it may have benefitted others.