Betrayal kink?

[FlirtyWordy]

More and more I find myself really getting off to what I will call betrayal — stories about brides cheating on their wedding day; fiancees getting fucked before the wedding; "loyal" wives going behind their husbands' backs to sate their lust for new cock; my own wife cheating on me and only telling me several months later while jerking me off.

Anything, really, that smacks of women doing exactly what they want, and never mind what their husbands or boyfriends think.

It's related to my hotwife-not-quite-cuckold kink, I think. My wife has had permission for years, but only started having sex with other men last year. She was worried I would "freak out," but in the event, she realized it just makes my cock hard.

Where, I wonder, does this desire for and interest in being betrayed come from?

Thoughts?

Also, any suggestions for hot wife-betrays-husband, bride-cheats, etc. porn, especially stories, would be much appreciated.

Thanks!

 

[Mystories189]

Haha, I did both. On our wedding day, my friend let me drive his car which made me fucking horny. I flashed him my underwear while I was driving. I told him driving stick shift turns me on. He took it out, i was switching over from shifting the car and him. He saud he never knew me like this. I told him, I'm getting married, might as well do this once with you.
2 years into my married, I cheated again. Met up with this guy I knew in high-school by chance. We chatted fir a few months and then he fucked me.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

Haha, I did both. On our wedding day, my friend let me drive his car which made me fucking horny. I flashed him my underwear while I was driving. I told him driving stick shift turns me on. He took it out, i was switching over from shifting the car and him. He saud he never knew me like this. I told him, I'm getting married, might as well do this once with you.
2 years into my married, I cheated again. Met up with this guy I knew in high-school by chance. We chatted fir a few months and then he fucked me.

Have you kept these secrets from your man?

 

[Kolejdayz]

Haha, I did both. On our wedding day, my friend let me drive his car which made me fucking horny. I flashed him my underwear while I was driving. I told him driving stick shift turns me on. He took it out, i was switching over from shifting the car and him. He saud he never knew me like this. I told him, I'm getting married, might as well do this once with you.
2 years into my married, I cheated again. Met up with this guy I knew in high-school by chance. We chatted fir a few months and then he fucked me.

My first wife got hit on three times during our wedding party. Not sure what she did about it . . . it would have been OK either way

 

[live4thebj]

I kind of want to fuck my fiancés BFF. She has an obese husband. Best guess 400lbs without exaggerating. She is very short and petite. They haven’t fucked in years. It is easily over a year for me and my fiancé because her sex drive left the building. I think it would be fare me and the BFF get to fuck once a week since our significant others don’t want to.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

More and more I find myself really getting off to what I will call betrayal — stories about brides cheating on their wedding day; fiancees getting fucked before the wedding; "loyal" wives going behind their husbands' backs to sate their lust for new cock; my own wife cheating on me and only telling me several months later while jerking me off.

Anything, really, that smacks of women doing exactly what they want, and never mind what their husbands or boyfriends think.

It's related to my hotwife-not-quite-cuckold kink, I think. My wife has had permission for years, but only started having sex with other men last year. She was worried I would "freak out," but in the event, she realized it just makes my cock hard.

Where, I wonder, does this desire for and interest in being betrayed come from?

Thoughts?

Also, any suggestions for hot wife-betrays-husband, bride-cheats, etc. porn, especially stories, would be much appreciated.

Thanks!

I like it too. Desperation turns me on. The inability to resist makes me so wet.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

I like it too. Desperation turns me on. The inability to resist makes me so wet.

Yes, the implied insatiability is what makes it incredibly hot for me. I think I may even have a solid understanding, psychologically of what makes this a turn on for me, based on the messages I received in childhood about sex and especially male sexuality.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

Yes, the implied insatiability is what makes it incredibly hot for me. I think I may even have a solid understanding, psychologically of what makes this a turn on for me, based on the messages I received in childhood about sex and especially male sexuality.

Tell me more

 

[FlirtyWordy]

Tell me more

My mother was telling me by age 4 how horrible men were, how disgusting they were, they only wanted one thing, etc. As I got older the messages got more explicit, things like, "I hope you never do something like that to some poor girl." And when I had my first girlfriend, my mother said over and over, "I hope you’re not doing THAT to poor little Wren."

My dad was an obstetrician, but had deep shame around sex from his Catholic upbringing he absolutely would not talk about it or acknowledge it. I also went to the Catholic Church and catechism, where I received further sex-negative messages.

So essentially, all that programming imprinted me with a deep sense that my male sexuality and body were abhorrent to women, and if/when I had sex with a woman, I would be inflicting myself on her, a poor innocent who shouldn't have to put up with my vile, disgusting male impulses.

In puberty, that translated to me as, "No girl would EVER do this with me." That generated a lot of frustration anguish and made me susceptible to grooming by an older man who told me he could "show (me) how to do things with girls." So all you sex-negative, repressed, asshole mothers (and fathers) out there, take care what you say to your children about sex; it can have truly devastating consequences.

Now I get off on sex stories, images, relationships, etc., in which a supposedly "loyal" (I hate the term; what misogyny) wife or girlfriend has sex with other men, embracing, indulging and relishing her own lust and sexuality. It's the fantasy of the insatiable woman, proof that women really do like and want sex.

I suspect the betrayal/cheating bit has to do with a deep-seated masochism, vestiges of the horrible messages I received about my own sexuality when young. So the idea that I am sort of being "punished" seems backward, but I see how it fits in; like, I am eroticizing the shame with which I was imprinted.

On the positive side, in my fantasies (and in the last year or so, real life!), that, yes, insatiable wife is free to fuck anyone she wants, but I am confident enough in myself, my body, my endowment, my worthiness, that she is always coming back to me — choosing me, proving my mother wrong, wrong, wrong.

Meanwhile, she shares her experiences one way or another with me, including by inviting me to participate of the other man is willing, recounting her adventures, etc. The woman, my wife, whomever, is even free to "cheat" behind my back and keep her secrets ... but we both know that at some point, because we love one another, she's going to spill the tea and we're going to have explosive orgasms.

It's about women embracing their natural lusts and sexuality without restraint, and me experiencing acceptance in a way I never had before.

What do you think?

 

[dennissara]

My mother was telling me by age 4 how horrible men were that disgusting they were, and that they only wanted one thing, etc. as I got older the messages got more explicit, things like, I hope you never do something like that to some poor girl. And when I have my first girlfriend, She said over and over I hope you’re not doing that to poor little Wren. My dad was a physician, an obstetrician, but had deep shame around sex from his Catholic upbringing absolutely would not talk about it or acknowledge it. I also went to the Catholic Church and went to catechism and got really negative messages there. So essentially, all that programming imprinted me with a very deep sense that my sexuality was disgusting and defensive and horrible, and that for me to have sex with women with me inflicting myself on a person who didn’t deserve my disgusting impulses. my theory now, is that I really get off on almost any kind of sex story, image, relationship, etc., in which a wife or girlfriend is freely exercising and relishing her own lust and sexuality. The fantasy is that of the insatiable woman,. and for me, ultimately that insatiable woman is coming back to me, choosing me, or sharing in her experiences with other men with me, even inviting me to participate, etc. so the whole thing revolves around a demonstration that women enjoy sex as much as I do and ultimately their acceptance of me. What do you think?

It sounds like a general revolt from your upbringing...well done! And a great realignment of the ideas of sexuality for both genders.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

It sounds like a general revolt from your upbringing...well done! And a great realignment of the ideas of sexuality for both genders.

I wrote the first entry voice-to-text. I've cleaned it up a bit above, just fyi