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Beachsyrf said:
As a fellow who enjoys the idea of his SO (wife, gf) being naughty and, perhaps occasionally having sex with other men, I have given this quite a bit of thought; even when I'm not jacking off or having sex with her .... šŸ˜„

I also wonder what makes me want to see or know about my mate having sex with other men. And it occurs to me there is no one, right answer. I can think of several motivations or reasons.

I have been meaning to create a poll for those of us who have this desire and find out how those among us (and apparently we are many) view ourselves ...

For my part, I am quite sure the term "Cuckold" does not apply to me. I am not into the humiliation or deprivement angle.

There's no way I could watch or help my gf get ready for a date. Or have her sext or call me while she's out getting laid by someone else.

I don't want to catch her cheating on me. I'm also not into her or her "Bull" feminizing me.

After a lot of contemplation, I think the term that best describes my desire is "Stag". I am more than capable of satisfying my woman without finding someone else to do that in my stead. But I do like the idea of her acting on her desire for sexual satisfaction and getting it with my knowledge and consent.
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You sound exactly like my husband and I when weā€™ve talked about it.

We settled on the idea that stag/vixen is a better label for what weā€™d like
 
Recently met a couple who consider themselves, or at least her, a Hotwife (itā€™s part of her online profile name).

She just loves to fuck (her words). And for whatever reason he doesnā€™t (or so sheā€™s told me). He does like to watch and is very engaged in setting up dates for her (he has done 90% of the communication with me).

Itā€™s really more of a Stag/Vixen arrangement per ā€œWebsterā€™s Lit Dictionaryā€ - but whatever it takes.

I know this: she definitely loves to fuck! What woman, as Iā€™m eating her pussy, would pull me up, look in my eyes and say ā€œI just want you to fuck meā€!?
 
I stop by once in a while, but rarely ever post. However, this is a great thread and something I've been stuck on a lot lately...

My wife and I been together for over 20 years. We are now both in our mid-40s and she still turns me on every single day. But what really turns me on is the seeing her, or the idea of her (with or without me there), really enjoying herself.

The way I see it it's not cheating if we are open about it and it isn't about humiliation either. I feel we are at a point in our marriage where we have enough trust and openness that I'd be very much okay with her having a sample once in a while. And I mentioned it to her: if you were at a restaurant, so far you have the same dish every day for 20 years. But what if... you didn't. What if you could sample someone younger, older, larger, whatever you want.

She loves her nipples sucked and kissed while we go at it and would often orgasm from that. And during foreplay I'd mention to her to imagine if we had a friend here right now to help us with 2 sets of hands and 2 mouths all over her. She'd smile and we I can bring her to a great orgasm and yeah during this play she gets really wet, I love it. And yes OP, for the lack of imagination, few times when she traveled on vacation without me (or if I travel for work), I'd always mention that she always has the hall pass and to enjoy herself. Maybe a year or two ago when I first brough up this fantasy she wasn't really into it, but now seems to kind of enjoy it, but it is still just a fantasy. The other night I did gently broach the topic, what if it wasn't and her response was, I'm in my mid-40s who would ever find me attractive.

So yeah similar to OP, I am looking for ideas as well on what approach would work and how to gently push the boundaries a bit more here and there
 
vlad22 said:
I stop by once in a while, but rarely ever post. However, this is a great thread and something I've been stuck on a lot lately...

My wife and I been together for over 20 years. We are now both in our mid-40s and she still turns me on every single day. But what really turns me on is the seeing her, or the idea of her (with or without me there), really enjoying herself.

The way I see it it's not cheating if we are open about it and it isn't about humiliation either. I feel we are at a point in our marriage where we have enough trust and openness that I'd be very much okay with her having a sample once in a while. And I mentioned it to her: if you were at a restaurant, so far you have the same dish every day for 20 years. But what if... you didn't. What if you could sample someone younger, older, larger, whatever you want.

She loves her nipples sucked and kissed while we go at it and would often orgasm from that. And during foreplay I'd mention to her to imagine if we had a friend here right now to help us with 2 sets of hands and 2 mouths all over her. She'd smile and we I can bring her to a great orgasm and yeah during this play she gets really wet, I love it. And yes OP, for the lack of imagination, few times when she traveled on vacation without me (or if I travel for work), I'd always mention that she always has the hall pass and to enjoy herself. Maybe a year or two ago when I first brough up this fantasy she wasn't really into it, but now seems to kind of enjoy it, but it is still just a fantasy. The other night I did gently broach the topic, what if it wasn't and her response was, I'm in my mid-40s who would ever find me attractive.

So yeah similar to OP, I am looking for ideas as well on what approach would work and how to gently push the boundaries a bit more here and there
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If she put herself out there I think she would find plenty of guys who would find her attractive.
 
Ladies: What is something your husband did that still made you feel like he loved and desired you, but it helped you feel comfortable to someday act on having sex with other people?

He told me he enjoys watching two things:
1) The way other men look at me when we are out - dancing, the casino, a bar, the beach, shopping, anywhere.
2) The glint in my eye when I know men are looking at me and that he (husband) can see it happening. He says I have a special 'look' in my eye when I am aroused at knowing that I am turning on other men, and for hubby that is hot.

.....and it all went from there, many years ago, and is still going.
 
So hot!
Iā€™d of loved itā€¦
Lookingā€¦
marriedpervs said:
Ladies: What is something your husband did that still made you feel like he loved and desired you, but it helped you feel comfortable to someday act on having sex with other people?

He told me he enjoys watching two things:
1) The way other men look at me when we are out - dancing, the casino, a bar, the beach, shopping, anywhere.
2) The glint in my eye when I know men are looking at me and that he (husband) can see it happening. He says I have a special 'look' in my eye when I am aroused at knowing that I am turning on other men, and for hubby that is hot.

.....and it all went from there, many years ago, and is still going.
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Beachsyrf said:
As a fellow who enjoys the idea of his SO (wife, gf) being naughty and, perhaps occasionally having sex with other men, I have given this quite a bit of thought; even when I'm not jacking off or having sex with her .... šŸ˜„

I also wonder what makes me want to see or know about my mate having sex with other men. And it occurs to me there is no one, right answer. I can think of several motivations or reasons.

I have been meaning to create a poll for those of us who have this desire and find out how those among us (and apparently we are many) view ourselves ...

For my part, I am quite sure the term "Cuckold" does not apply to me. I am not into the humiliation or deprivement angle.

There's no way I could watch or help my gf get ready for a date. Or have her sext or call me while she's out getting laid by someone else.

I don't want to catch her cheating on me. I'm also not into her or her "Bull" feminizing me.

After a lot of contemplation, I think the term that best describes my desire is "Stag". I am more than capable of satisfying my woman without finding someone else to do that in my stead. But I do like the idea of her acting on her desire for sexual satisfaction and getting it with my knowledge and consent.
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Agreed
 
I consider my wife and I more of stag/vixen /Hot Wife. We are not into any kind of humilitation or degrading. While I do enjoy watching and sometimes participating, my wife also plays solo and then tells me about it while we have sex or leading up to us having sex. We have also done a little bit of swinging but I don't consider ourselves in the swinging lifestyle.
 
000777 said:
I consider my wife and I more of stag/vixen /Hot Wife. We are not into any kind of humilitation or degrading. While I do enjoy watching and sometimes participating, my wife also plays solo and then tells me about it while we have sex or leading up to us having sex. We have also done a little bit of swinging but I don't consider ourselves in the swinging lifestyle.
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your wife like to play online? Get her excited then she gets you on the bed and you two have some hot sex?
 
ned63 said:
your wife like to play online? Get her excited then she gets you on the bed and you two have some hot se
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ned63 said:
your wife like to play online? Get her excited then she gets you on the bed and you two have some hot sex?
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My wife has done some online play but not that often. It has led to some hot times in bed but nothing better than her having fun for real and then telling me about it.
 
000777 said:
My wife has done some online play but not that often. It has led to some hot times in bed but nothing better than her having fun for real and then telling me about it.
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That's hot she goes out and gets to play and then when she gets home she tells you. Bet that really turns you both on and makes sex even more exciting mmmm
 
ned63 said:
That's hot she goes out and gets to play and then when she gets home she tells you. Bet that really turns you both on and makes sex even more exciting mmmm
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Yes, it's Great! A huge turn on for both of us!
 
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