Top or bottom? Which role will be your priority? And why?

I definitely prefer being a bottom. I love being called names, having my sphincter stretched wide, sucking and being degraded and humiliated. The more humiliating the requirement of me or treatment, the greater the release and the more I am turned on. That being said, I also love fucking a tight asshole. Mine is no longer tight for anyone despite the kegels that I do regularly.
 
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Very much a bottom. I was asked by a guy why I’m a bottom. I guess he assumed that I’m a top, or have what he considers ‘top’ qualities or personality….. I don’t know why, except that I just love to feel a man slide into me and give me that full feeling in my ass, the whole aura around it, whether I’m probed out and submitting to him, or on my back, spreading my legs and welcoming him to enter me, or straddling him and lowering myself on top of him, in full control, but still “bottoming” for him….. I just love the way he feels inside of me. Absolutely the best. Bottom all the way ❤️
 
Bottom here. Never been with a man but wife has pegged me and I have fucked many dildos which I love.I always cum hands free and love being submissive or fem while playing
Had my wife peg me a few times now, and I love seeing her face when she cums from the pleasure of it, makes me want to see and feel what it's like to have a mans cock throbbing and pumping his load into me
 
The number of people preferring to be bottom is very high. Interesting. I feel switch with slight learning towards top. I have been with only one guy in my adult life so this could change of course. I like sucking cock but also being sucked. A cute ass I could fuck, but although I've tried dildos and vibrators, even one that was the same size as my cock and went it pretty easily, it didn't give me much pleasure. I'm curious enough to try and be fucked one day if I get the chance but I doubt it will change my feelings drastically. I think I prefer mutual oral the most.
 
The number of people preferring to be bottom is very high. Interesting. I feel switch with slight learning towards top.
It took me a while to even realize that switch/vers was my orientation. Among the inexperienced ones, I wonder how many of these bottoms are in a similar situation, for similar reasons - simply not having had yet the opportunity to explore.

There are the odd handful of bi guys who start out top-oriented, but, in my case, I already had experience topping (because women) and when I got with guys early on, I wanted to experience bottoming because it was different. That set me up to identify as bottom and it wasn't until years later when I had more freedom to explore that I realized vers/switch was more my speed.
 
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