Turned on by your partner's sexual history?

To answer the question; Yes! I do! Ever since I could remember, I've always been attracted to girls/women with a bit of a reputation. When I met my wife, she was just graduating from the same high school I went to.

I had heard there were three girls who would go skinny-dipping with some of the boys and after fun and games in the water they would start making out, getting into some seriously heavy petting. Two of the girls frequently "going-all-the way" even doing two or three of the guys all at once or individually one after the other.

The young lady I met (and later married) at the local American Legion Post Valintine's Dance, was one of these three girls. After we met, it wasn't long before we were fucking like bunnies. During one of our post-fuck snuggles, she shyly told me about making out with the guys. She wouldn't "go-all-the-way" since she was absolutely terrified of getting pregnant, but she would give them hand-jobs and/or suck them off.

After telling me, she discovered her sexual adventures turned me on big time. Then after another bunny-humping, we snuggled, and she commenced telling me about the first time she had "gone-all-the-way" with a lifeguard at Myrtle Beach, SC and how one of the girlfriends, who was one of the other skinny-dippers, had asked her to do a striptease for her boyfriend's twenty-first birthday, which she did.

During her striptease, she got totally naked and the birthday boy had come up behind her, cupped her breast, started humping her butt and eventually slipped his cock into her. She told me it had felt so good, she didn't even try to stop him. However, his girlfriend, pulled him off her before he unloaded in her.

And once again, she discovered how much it turned me on to hear all this. From them on, she would share any other incidents she found herself in throughout our courtship, engagement and early years of marriage until we "officially" opened our marriage.

She would always start off telling me tales of her busy little tail with an innocent, and shy manner, which was an even bigger turn on. Fifty-three years later, we still enjoy sharing our stories.
Cool. My missus is surprised how relaxed I am about her past (I've fucked far more women than I've admitted to, so I'd be in no place to judge), and seems quite happy to finally be able to tell a partner about her past
 
This is such a fascinating (and honestly under-discussed) turn-on. There’s something uniquely arousing about hearing your partner describe a time when they weren’t yours, when they were reckless, raw, wild… and someone else’s fantasy.

For me, it’s not just the details, it’s the psychology behind it. The idea that the person I hold now once let go in ways I’m only beginning to uncover. It makes me want to match it. Exceed it. Or sometimes… just sit back and listen as they confess.

The thought of someone else tasting what I now own? It doesn’t make me jealous. It makes me hard and introspective and nostalgic...
 
Can’t mention anything about my wife’s earliest sexual adventures…lol

But a few years after we were married, she had sort of an all-nighter with our good friend. She enticed him to get things started. She didn’t anticipate getting fucked four times, nor sucking him off twice. She had several orgasms, the first just after he entered her for the first time, while she was bent over the kitchen table…lol.

Many years later she had an affair with a colleague, that started with her on his office desk, fully dressed, her skirt up, and panties pulled to the side. Their affair lasted a couple of years, and included a few business trips.

She’s shared many intimate details. Highly erotic in my book.
 
My husband and I have talked about our respective sexual past many times. On a few times when we were having sex, he would slow a bit and tell me to imagine a guy I had been with before fucking me at that moment. No male has ever been as good to me sexually as my guy, but I have been with a few who came close. Sometimes I might even embellish past scenarios I have had for him, but it drives him crazy, in a a good way. He loves to hear me talk about those times.

Likewise, I love to hear him tell about other women. I have even gone so far as to tell him to pretend he is fucking another woman from his past and tell me who she is. Sometimes I know the woman, other times I don't. In particular, I love it when he tells me about the woman who was his primary "sexual teacher" when he was in his early twenties. Trust me when I say she taught him very well. Like me, apparently her favorite sexual position was to be on all fours getting fucked from behind. We have talked about their relationship quite a bit, which never went beyond a basic and sexual relationship. No idea how many orgasms I owe thanks to that woman for what she taught him.
 
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