Instruction Young Men How To Make Love Versus Just Having Sex

southdakota2005

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I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.
 
You're both so fortunate to have these experiences together! I have to admit I'm especially jealous of your young companion, I'd love to meet a woman like you.
 
Lovely story. I wish I had had an older woman like this for my first time (or indeed any time).
 
I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.
Having direction would have been nice when I was younger. All my lovers were very quiet about their desires and what worked. Took many years of listening and trial and error to find a fairly good method. Women should be encouraged to be more vocal, it's your pleasure too, don't be afraid to guide and teach your man (I'd include women, but women tend to know how to please other women very well).
 
I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.
that is special, keep teaching him for as long as you can. I think he need a lesson or two on threesomes!
 
I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.

Such a sweet story. I too could have used a woman like you when I was young.

Hope this doesn't come off wrong but where was your husband in all this? That is did he hear about it? Did the lad know you were in a couple?
 
I've recently met a handsome young man while at a coffee show, who is 19 and a freshman in college. We didn't jump right into bed but over the course of about a month we chatted almost daily and got to know each other well. While I'm in my late 50s, I still look young (Asian women are blessed with that) and he was shocked that I was so much older than he was. Anyway, we ended up talking about sex and he admitted he was a virgin and was nervous about sex.

It's a boring story of how we got there, but I ended up offering to not only take his virginity, but to teach him how to make love to a woman versus just putting his penis inside a woman, thrusting, and squirting.

What I did was when he came over I told him that I was going to let him lose his virginity quickly to get it over with. I told him that we'd do some kissing and light foreplay to get me wet enough for him to enter me. Once he was inside of me, he was to thrust to his heart's content until he came inside of me. I wanted his first time to include ejaculating inside of a woman as well, but cautioned him that with other women, he was to use condoms. But I made him promise that once he came, he was to hold me and we relax until he was ready for round two, in which case his instruction on love making would begin.

He actually lasted longer than I expected when he entered me for that first time. I suspected that he masturbated before coming over, but it was hard to tell since when he came inside of me after about 3 minutes of thrusting, he released a lot of semen inside of me. He kept asking me if I was coming while he was thrusting and I had to tell him not to worry about that now, that this was all about him and enjoying his first time.

When he got hard again, I showed him what I enjoyed and we began kissing and showed him where to touch. He was very proud of himself when he fingered me to an orgasm. It took some instruction to do that as he was at first too hard, then too light. Eventually, he got it right, and his face was so happy when I began moaning and telling him I was coming.

He came three times inside of me that first time and learned a lot. We've been meeting weekly now (usually on Sundays) fo the past few weeks and I have to admit he's learning the mechanics of making love awfully well. I told him his final test would be to take me out on a date, flirt and tease me while we are out, bring me home, and then make love to me ,making sure I climaxed several times before his first one.

We are still working on it as he needs a lot more practice before he reaches that level. He still is a bit fast on the trigger and needs to learn orgasm control. I get him to thrust inside of me for as long as possible and then stop when he's close until he gets his control back. He's still learning and often has accidents while practicing this technique.

One day, he's going to make a fine lover to his wife. I hope when that day comes he will think about me and smile.

Until then, I get a handsome, young hunk to make love to me.
You are so lucky and so generous. I dreamt of meeting a woman like you when I was 16. It never happened.
 
I had a short relationship with a much younger woman than me. She was in her mid twenties.
She had told me that she has had sex with guys, but no one had ever made love to her. She was amazed how much chemistry we had in bed and how she didn't even have to think about what to do or not to do.
Was I a "teacher" or just doing what should come naturally ? I don't think I would want to go over step by step instructions with some one.
To each his/her own.
 
Great story! That young man could have been me on our wedding night. I was a 22 year old virgin, and she was my long time girlfriend since high school. She was experienced and helped me a lot on that first night. I'll admit that I was just fucking her that first night (seven times), but it wasn't long before we started making love and still do make love.
 
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