I’m experiencing sudden hyper sexuality. Wanted to share and talk through it with others

[Clumsy_awakening]

Sounds like you need to dump the meds and enjoy your feelings. What kind of porn getts you to cum ?

Oh yeah, the pills are gone. I’m a happy guy just cumming throughout the day.

Surprisingly, I’m all over the place with porn these days. Discovering new kinks and fetishes that I never expected to turn me on. The other day I kind of fell down a rabbit hole of soft gentle dominating girlfriends

 

[Clumsy_awakening]

So I haven’t checked in for a while, I’ve been …busy but I’m glad to see all of you are still here.

Figured I’d give you guys a little update. Still no medication really no desire to go back to that life. I’ve been working out and fasting, lost over 30 pounds, added 12cm to the arms and starting to notice some more attention from the ladies around town.

Mental state hasn’t changed much still crazy high libido, but I’m learning to manage. I’ve resorted to edging myself throughout the day, only allowing a few orgasms when life permits. The fact that I’m semi hard all the time and I’ve lost weight makes my dick look huge which I know is just a reduction of fat, but still it makes me feel hot.

Been all over the Internet with porn, discovered a lot of new fetishes, and kinks that I didn’t expect to turn me on. I’m a pretty smart guy and a lot of us apparently share a fantasy of turning off the brain and being a dumb toy for our girl to play with, tie me up objectify me the whole deal. Really never imagined something like that to be a turn on for me.

I have discovered a downside however. I’m always semi hard and I randomly get turned on throughout the day and I’ll have to focus to calm down. Which is manageable, but it leaves me with a wet spot of pre-cum in my pants so I’ve resorted to wearing dark colors whenever possible

That’s where I’m at these days! Still learning, still cumming an average of maybe three times a day. Lot less productive with work I suppose, but I struggle to care, life of cumming all the time is more fun.

 

[neon_noodle]

I love the glasses analogy
Life was fine, but I didn’t realize how much brighter and all the colors I was missing out on. Now I can see and there’s women everywhere

Don't worry, your body will adjust, and you'll get bored with it all, like the rest of us (usually) do!

Good luck.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

It’s a crazy experience. I feel like a whole different person. I know I’m not that old but I feel like I have 10+ years of sexual experiences that I’ve missed out on and now I wanna catch up.

I know it has to stop so I can get back to work, but I kinda don’t want to, part of me would be ok with going broke so I can feel like this forever.

Plus I’ve never really been a gym bro, but now I’m walking around the house pumping dumbbells because all I can think about is getting women to look at me. Is this where gym motivation comes from?

Just don’t start browsing sex toy sites while in this state of mind!!! Gets expensive fast. Lol. But it’s like Christmas when the purchases get delivered. Lol

 

[Erosfan]

Oh yeah, the pills are gone. I’m a happy guy just cumming throughout the day.

Surprisingly, I’m all over the place with porn these days. Discovering new kinks and fetishes that I never expected to turn me on. The other day I kind of fell down a rabbit hole of soft gentle dominating girlfriends

Gentle femdom can be amazing. I highly recommend it.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Gentle femdom can be amazing. I highly recommend it.

Can you elaborate on this a bit?

 

[Erosfan]

Can you elaborate on this a bit?

Sure. My late wife and I had a lot of fun with this. I love exhibitionism and CFNM. At first she was a bit reserved, but got into it after a while.
There is no ball busting, no abuse, no humiliation. She knew I was hers to do with as she wished, any time, anywhere she wanted. She jerked me off while I was driving, sometimes, and she tried to make sure we were seen. She had me naked on our back porch, many times, knowing the neighbors could see us if they looked. Some times she would just take my clothes off, and other times, she would tell me to lose the clothes, which I gladly did. I never refused her, ever. What we had was a loving relationship where she could use me, and we both enjoyed ourselves.
There was no cuckholding, no BDSM. It was good dirty fun between us where she called the shots, and I gladly went along.
She called me her "Slut" and I loved it.

 

[CliimaxForYou]

Sure. My late wife and I had a lot of fun with this. I love exhibitionism and CFNM. At first she was a bit reserved, but got into it after a while.
There is no ball busting, no abuse, no humiliation. She knew I was hers to do with as she wished, any time, anywhere she wanted. She jerked me off while I was driving, sometimes, and she tried to make sure we were seen. She had me naked on our back porch, many times, knowing the neighbors could see us if they looked. Some times she would just take my clothes off, ans other times, she would tell me to lose the lose the clothes. I never refused her, ever. What we had was a loving relationship where she could use me, and we both enjoyed ourselves.
There was no cuckholding, no BDSM. It was good dirty fun between us where she called the shots, and I gladly went along.

Got it. Sounds fantastic. Thanks for elaborating.

 

[MrQuiet314]

I had a similar experience when I started HRT. At first everything was normal. I couldn’t really tell that I was taking testosterone. Then at some point i went through a couple week period where I was absolutely feral. I was horny all the time, and wanted to f**k everything I saw. It went from being exciting and nice to worrying and just about the time I started thinking “i have a problem here”, my neurochemistry sorted itself out and I quickly was back to my normal levels of interest. Exciting but concerning too. as others have said….hydrate, exercise and get some good sleep to help your body rebalance

 

[Not Normal]

My situation is different. In my case, I describe it as reclaiming my sexuality. Letting my strong libido cum through, again, after repressing my needs for sometime.

I'm lucky to be with someone in a similar situation.

My own experience may be of interest. I have required antidepressants for many years. One of them was Paxil (paroxetine). About 9 years ago, my psychiatrist recommended discontinuing the Paxil because as I have aged, my needs changed. I weaned off gradually, but when I stopped the Paxil, two things happened, rather quickly. One was that I lost about 20 pounds; going off the Paxil reduced my appetite and the result was good.

The other thing that happened was that my libido, which had been pretty much absent, returned like a freight train coming down the pike! I can identify with that term hyper-sexuality. And that has continued, or even increased since then. I am also in the later stages of life, so the feelings and desires have been most welcome.

Not intending to recommend medication changes to anyone because everyone's situation is their own. But that was my experience.

PS I do take another antidepressant which does not have the libido-suppressing effect on me. I am in a good place in this regard. Sex and sanity.

Can you share what that antidepressant is, please?

 

[calmlikeabomb]

I have had similar experiences several times, usually brought on by periods of stress or long hours at work, especially if the Mrs is unavailable. There have been times, even in my late 30s when I've spent days just consuming porn of all kinds, softcore, hardcore, erotic songs, movies... The works.

I also probably think about sex more than the average guy, and it sometimes feels like I have violently shaken bottle of soda unless I see or do something kinky. I don't enjoy masturbation as much though (it's often a tool to release frustration these days, instead of a fun experience), so coming back to Lit, chatting here and writing erotica has been a godsend. It just feels healthier to talk about and write kinky smut instead of jacking off.

I have been on anti depressents at times, but they haven't really affected my performance or my ability to get hard, so I can't relate there. Not working out and not meditating, however, does affect me.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

So I haven’t checked in for a while, I’ve been …busy but I’m glad to see all of you are still here.

Figured I’d give you guys a little update. Still no medication really no desire to go back to that life. I’ve been working out and fasting, lost over 30 pounds, added 12cm to the arms and starting to notice some more attention from the ladies around town.

Mental state hasn’t changed much still crazy high libido, but I’m learning to manage. I’ve resorted to edging myself throughout the day, only allowing a few orgasms when life permits. The fact that I’m semi hard all the time and I’ve lost weight makes my dick look huge which I know is just a reduction of fat, but still it makes me feel hot.

Been all over the Internet with porn, discovered a lot of new fetishes, and kinks that I didn’t expect to turn me on. I’m a pretty smart guy and a lot of us apparently share a fantasy of turning off the brain and being a dumb toy for our girl to play with, tie me up objectify me the whole deal. Really never imagined something like that to be a turn on for me.

I have discovered a downside however. I’m always semi hard and I randomly get turned on throughout the day and I’ll have to focus to calm down. Which is manageable, but it leaves me with a wet spot of pre-cum in my pants so I’ve resorted to wearing dark colors whenever possible

That’s where I’m at these days! Still learning, still cumming an average of maybe three times a day. Lot less productive with work I suppose, but I struggle to care, life of cumming all the time is more fun.

I've been there in my early 30s too. Exactly there, in fact. Enjoy it and build on top of it. But instead of cumming, focus more on the act and the sensations. Slow down and really feel what your body is feeling, what your skin is telling you, and sex will just keep getting better.

 

[GoodnessO]

I've been there in my early 30s too. Exactly there, in fact. Enjoy it and build on top of it. But instead of cumming, focus more on the act and the sensations. Slow down and really feel what your body is feeling, what your skin is telling you, and sex will just keep getting better.

This is great advice, guys. Don't simply jack off as quickly as possible... no harm occasionally, but if that's how you constantly train yourself, don't be surprised when actual fucking doesn't work out.

 

[Beholders_Eye]

Can you share what that antidepressant is, please?

It was Paroxetine, generic for Paxil. Have been off of that for about ten years now. Glad.

 

[Not Normal]

It was Paroxetine, generic for Paxil. Have been off of that for about ten years now. Glad.

Thanks, and I'm glad it's working for you.

 

[LovelyLadyLicker]

I’m in a similar situation but for different, hormonal reasons. I’m a couple years away from 30 and I’ve heard that the libido skyrockets into a feral frenzy and the human body makes a last ditch effort to procreate. Penetration used to never feel like…anything really. But now I don’t want anything with a circumference less that 2in inside of me, even when I sleep. I prefer tri-gasms, all sorts of kinky toys, and when I cum, my entire body gyrates for up to 2min. I’m a mess A very beautiful mess

 

[Erosfan]

Eros, I do believe I'm jealous of you both... Enjoy!

I hope you find what I/we have found! I never dreamed how wonderful sex and play can be at this point in my life.

 

[Massive_Ass69]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

Sounds to me like your body is regulating itself. Enjoy it! I don’t think there is anything wrong with you.

 

[Nordicka]

Yeah, I know that feeling it. It’s like you’re in high school again and it starts at the worst time when you’re not with anybody after being married for 15 years going through a divorce it’s just too bad cause if I was with somebody, the sex would be great.

 

[Mrman69]

I’m a newcomer and I’m making my first post in effort to talk with others about my experience. I’m currently single, but have an overwhelming urge to share what’s happening to me with someone.

Short version – my libido has exploded like a horny teenager. Can’t stop thinking of sex, even things that have never turned me on before. I haven’t accomplished anything in over a week. My dick hurts and I still can’t stop.

Full version- I’m a man early 30s who I suppose you could say has been sexually repressed. Late teenage years were rough and I have been taking antidepressants for over a decade. Never had the urge to sleep around was always more concerned with companionship. Had one serious relationship that wasn’t overly sexual, but she did introduce me to a lot of kinky stuff. Just never felt like a really sexual guy. I’d get myself off here or there, but certainly not a daily concern.

The past six months I’ve made some positive lifestyle changes including no longer taking that medication. Now I think my brain chemistry caught up over the last two weeks because I cannot express the shift in my libido. I need to get off all the time not just once a week. Everything I look at reminds me of sex. I’m looking up kinky fetish stuff that I’ve never explored before. Watching porn for hours and it’s not enough. Without getting overly graphic I’ve been making a mess of myself and my clothes all day long, I need multiple showers no matter how hard I try to keep my hands off. It’s like going through puberty all over again.

Yesterday I got a headache and I realized it was because I was dehydrated. I had been on the couch cumming all day and had not drank any liquids and I didn’t even care. Chugged water went right back to my couch.

I’ve never experienced anything like this, I don’t know if it’s normal male libido or if I’m getting a certain rush because of past medication. Regardless, it’s exhilarating. I’m having fun maybe a little frightened but certainly ramping up my desire to date again.

Feel free to ask me questions or offer suggestions. I’d love to talk about this with someone

I can’t tell you how much I masturbated as a man in my twenties…I had sore balls and blisters on my cock from endless jerking. That’s all I can tell you. Hope it helps