nkycatsfan
Literotica Guru
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Wow. Scary stuff...sorry to hear that you were assaulted. No one should have to go through that.Ive been asked for that a bit. And I know a lot of men enjoy the audio aspect. Thats what "sensualkat" does, though much of her audio isnt even sexually based or remotely close, but she used to psot audio msot days at least.
If you want to hear my voice, you can go to my soundcloud. Or some videos I post do have audio of e talking or apparently, making other noises ahem.
I am also asked to cam like 10x a day. I get sent dick pics pretty regularly. I get asked to send dirty texts and/or stories. Masturbate for some of you on cam or whatever. All kinds of random requests, most of which are sexual but some no to be fair. And of course I get asked whats my insta, snap, telegram, kik, facebook, x, reddit, blah blah blah.
But I draw a line in the sand for multiple reasons.
As some of you are new, Ill explain again super quick, but I used to be on all the socials like everyone else on the planet. A guy I did not know but who was a "Friend" on facebook liked my pics and randomly said I was cute or looked pretty or whatever but harmless comments...plenty of women get those comments or fire emojis or whatever right...from random guys who think yer "fuckable". Fast forward a year or so and he found me irl based upon some metadata of some of the pics and/or locations I was at (and since it was obvious in some pics, college, restaurants, whatever). He also found out where I lived. He flew out here. Apparently obsessed. Angry. Ignored. Horny. Wanted to show who had control and power and whatever else. Broke into my old apartment. Sexually assaulted me.
Since then, I took down every single social. All those I mentioned. Paid for a service to wipe my internet traces clean as a fucking whistle. And yes, sought therapy and had other outlets too (drank/partied a bit too much for example).
But its why I dont give out socials (because yes I have a few accounts now just to see family pics or whatever), why I dont specifically state my address or last name, why most of my pics are in the same few rooms (some my apartment, some my parents house or a friends or former partners etc) and ensure theres basically no identifying signs of my location even tohugh you all vaguely know where I am.
So I keep my lit friends a bit gated from my real friends/family. I have to draw a line somewhere.
Not to mention I wouldnt want someone to come up to me on the street and say "Kit, when you are showing yer tits again on literotica!?" while I am with my family or friends etc.
AWKWARD
Will I meet you irl? Possibly. If we are friendly enough, if I feel safe enough, Ill meet you for coffee or boba milk tea or a cocktail, go for a walk, have lunch or something. Sure. In a public place. No probs.
Will I kiss you? Blow you? Fuck you?
Dont get your hopes up! But I am not ruling everything and everyone out.
I did meet one person from here. He chooses to remain anonymous. I had a few drinks with him. He was super friendly and polite. He was about 2x my age, knew I wouldnt likely suddenly leave my life for him. Just wanted to meet. We did. I am sure he would say it went well, but no I didnt sleep with him. I flirted. I made sure he had some spank bank amterial in his mind hahaha.
But yeah I just dont cross certain areas, and dont give out socials, make audio for people all the time, go on cam sessions, whatever.
And honestly, if I did it, Id get more and more requests...and Im already rather stretched on here in terms of time.